Fate is often dramatic. In 1971, Guo Guangping from Hefei, Anhui Province was born. When he was a teenager, he had a strong interest in the profession of host, and longed to one day stand in the spotlight.
However, the arrangement of fate brought him into the Nanjing Frontline Repertory Troupe and started his career as a military actor.
Guo Guangping, who first joined the repertory troupe, is tall and outstanding. He was supposed to be a great actor. However, there are very few opportunities for the repertory troupe to perform. Even when they rehearsed the play, Guo Guangping often could only act as a "transparent background" and rarely even had the opportunity to speak his lines.
Such days make the young and vigorous Guo Guangping unbearable.
Guo Guangping was unwilling to waste his time and began to contact various work outside. With his excellent physical appearance, he began to shoot commercials; In his spare time, he goes to the radio to dub; When someone gets married, he will also go to be the master of ceremonies.
These experiences made Guo Guangping think more deeply about his future, since he chose the path of an actor, why not take it more seriously?
With this belief, 26-year-old Guo Guangping firmly decided to apply for the drama department of the People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts. With his natural talent, he managed to get admission.
After entering the university, Guo Guangping devoted himself to his professional studies for four years, watched more than 300 dramas, and studied every detail in depth, laying a solid foundation for his future acting career.
Guo Guangping, who returned from school, returned to the Nanjing Repertory Theatre, and this time, he was full of confidence in his acting career. In 2000, the opportunity finally came, and Guo Guangping participated in the first emotional drama "Emotional Conspiracy" in his life.
Subsequently, he successively starred in works such as "Don't Let Women Cry", "Dancing with Sheep", "Women's Criminal Files" and other works Guo Guangping's name began to be well-known to the audience, and his acting career finally ushered in a turning point.
However, just when his career was just starting, 30-year-old Guo Guangping began to suffer from emotional problems. At this age, many of his peers have already started families, and he is still single.
This anxiety not only comes from himself, but also from his parents Guo Guangping, who is concerned day and night, does not know that fate is preparing a beautiful encounter for him, and a sincere love that spans age is about to begin.
Unexpectedly, in 2001, Guo Guangping's fate took a huge turning point. During the filming of the TV series "Civilian President", he met Chang Xiaochuan, who was 10 years younger than him.
Chang Xiaochuan was still studying at Nanjing University of the Arts that year, young, budding and full of passion, although they did not play against each other in the play, but fate inadvertently gave them a chance to get to know each other.
It wasn't until the TV series entered the dubbing stage after filming that Guo Guangping had the opportunity to officially meet Chang Xiaochuan. The two met at work, and found out in the chat in the recording studio that there was a relationship.
It turned out that Guo Guangping had gone to Chang Xiaochuan's school to teach, and the two had an unknown teacher-student fate, which made Guo Guangping have a strong interest in this young girl, and when he parted, he took the initiative to ask for Chang Xiaochuan's contact information.
As time passed, the relationship between Guo Guangping and Chang Xiaochuan became closer and closer. Chang Xiaochuan faced employment problems after graduation, Guo Guangping thought about her everywhere, not only helped her pay attention to job opportunities, but also rented a house for her intimately.
Chang Xiaochuan was deeply moved by Guo Guangping's carefulness and thoughtfulness, and the two hearts got closer and closer.
However, the 10-year age gap has become a gulf between them. In order to get the approval of Chang Xiaochuan's parents, Guo Guangping mustered up the courage to go to Jinzhou, Liaoning. However, the first meeting did not go well, and Chang Xiaochuan's parents were full of doubts about the man who was 10 years older than their daughter.
They are worried about their daughter's future, and even wonder if there is anything wrong with Guo Guangping not getting married at this age.
Guo Guangping's trip in Jinzhou can be described as a year-long journey. Over the course of a week, he personally experienced the coldness of Chang Xiaochuan's parents, and his heart was painful. However, Guo Guangping knows that without the blessing of his parents, it is difficult to have a happy marriage.
After returning to Nanjing, he took great pains and decided to go to Jinzhou again.
A few months later, Guo Guangping returned to Jinzhou. This time, he was well prepared. He brought all the documents with him to prove that he was still unmarried and sincere. When faced with the doubts of Chang Xiaochuan's parents, he sincerely expressed his heart and solemnly promised to love Xiaochuan well and give her a happy life.
Seeing their daughter's love for Guo Guangping, Chang Xiaochuan's parents finally dispelled their worries. They saw Guo Guangping's sincerity and sense of responsibility, and their attitude gradually became friendly. So, Guo Guangping won the recognition of his future parents-in-law with his actions and won blessings for love.
In 2006, Guo Guangping, who was only 35 years old, overcame various difficulties and finally married 25-year-old Chang Xiaochuan. Although the wedding was simple, it was full of happiness and anticipation. Guo Guangping used his sincerity and perseverance to isolate the age gap and harvest a sincere love.
This touching love story is also the most precious chapter in Guo Guangping's life.
Newlywed Yan'er, Chang Xiaochuan soon became pregnant. However, at this time, Guo Guangping was in the rising period of his career, and successively filmed works such as "The Backbone of a Man and a Woman's Back", "Iron Blood", "The Right Way in the World is the Vicissitudes of Life", "The Brave Are Invincible" and so on.
Guo Guangping, who is busy with work, has difficulty taking care of his family, and Chang Xiaochuan thoughtfully proposes that he wants to return to his hometown to give birth.
After the National Day, Guo Guangping hurried to Jinzhou to accompany his wife. However, during the short days he spent with his wife, he received a notice of a new play. At that time, his wife was still a period of time away from giving birth, and Guo Guangping felt very embarrassed.
However, Chang Xiaochuan understood her husband's situation and gently comforted: "You don't have to think too much, go filming with peace of mind" With his wife's support and reluctance, Guo Guangping stepped on the train to the set.
The drama of fate is that it always surprises people. Just two weeks after Guo Guangping left, Chang Xiaochuan gave birth to a son. This made Guo Guangping anxious, but fortunately, the crew director understood his current situation and allowed him to go home immediately.
However, after a short reunion, Guo Guangping had to rush to Sichuan non-stop to start filming for four or five months.
Guo Guangping, who is far away, is always worried about his wife and newborn children. Seeing the worried face of his son-in-law, his father-in-law comforted him and said, "You can go to work with confidence, the child and Xiaochuan will be taken care of by us."
That sentence gave Guo Guangping some comfort, and also made him more grateful for the goodness of his parents-in-law.
In order to take care of their daughter and grandson, Chang Xiaochuan's parents moved from Liaoning to Nanjing, and did not hesitate to take on the housework and take care of their grandson so that the young man could concentrate on his work.
Guo Guangping is very grateful to his parents-in-law for their dedication, and treats them more considerate than his own parents, every time he goes out to film, Guo Guangping never forgets to bring some special products to his parents-in-law; When he was on vacation at home, he would always take them out for a big meal; During the New Year's holidays, he will give red envelopes to his parents-in-law.
Guo Guangping's parents-in-law paid off for their efforts. Not only did they see their son-in-law's career achievements, but they were also pleased that their grandson was growing up healthy and happy. With the support of the whole family, Guo Guangping's son developed a love for the piano, and his parents-in-law were not afraid of hard work and took him to the training institution every day.
In 2016, Guo Guangping's son won the first place in the children's group in a foreign piano competition, which made the whole family extremely proud.
However, due to his busy schedule, Guo Guangping missed a lot of time with his family. To make up for this regret, he made a special decision: to treasure the newspaper of the day every year from the day the child was born.
14 years later, when Guo Guangping presented these newspapers that carried 14 years of memories in front of his son, both father and son were deeply moved by this unique birthday gift, which conveyed Guo Guangping's deep love and apology to his son.
At the peak of his career, Guo Guangping was suddenly broken by the early warning of his body, and once in a midsummer performance, he wore heavy winter clothes and stuck to the stage for more than two hours and completed the performance.
But this does not mean the end of everything, as soon as it is over, he fainted on the ground, this time, fortunately his colleagues sent him to the hospital in time, he was able to escape death, save his life This time he is deeply aware that he can no longer squander his health at will, and must find a balance between work and health, both for his family and for the responsibility on his shoulders.
Since then, Guo Guangping has gradually adjusted his lifestyle, learning to relax appropriately in the midst of his busy work and pay more attention to physical exercise. This change not only improved his physical condition, but also allowed him to better balance his career and family.
Guo Guangping deeply understands that only by maintaining good health can he continue to pursue his dream of acting career, and can he give his family more care and companionship.
Guo Guangping and his parents-in-law have lived under the same roof for more than ten years, and they have never quarreled over anything, which is really an amazing thing. Behind this is Guo Guangping's filial piety and wisdom.
He knows very well that it is not easy for his parents-in-law to come to Nanjing to take care of a small family far away from his hometown, so he thinks about the elderly everywhere and cares for them.
In family life, Guo Guangping was considerate of his father-in-law. Every time he returns from a shooting, he always carefully selects local special gifts for his parents-in-law. In his spare time, Guo Guangping will accompany the two elderly people to taste food together.
Every festive season, he does not forget to prepare rich red envelopes for his parents-in-law to express his gratitude.
This filial piety not only won the love of the parents-in-law, but also made the family atmosphere more harmonious. Chang Xiaochuan's parents watched all this with loving eyes, and even when their daughter and son-in-law occasionally argued, they would stand firmly on Guo Guangping's side.
Such a harmonious family relationship is a strong backing for Guo Guangping's career.
Guo Guangping's family education concept has the full support of his parents-in-law. When their son became interested in playing the piano, the parents-in-law did not hesitate to take on the responsibility of picking up their grandson to class, regardless of the weather.
In 2016, with the encouragement of the whole family, Guo Guangping's son won the first place in the children's group in a foreign piano competition, and the family is extremely proud of it.
Guo Guang usually said: "People are mutual. "He is very kind to his wife and son, and he is even more considerate to his parents-in-law, so he has won the love of the whole family. This kind of family atmosphere based on mutual understanding and mutual respect not only makes Guo Guangping's small family harmonious, but also provides a solid backing for his career development.
Guo Guangping's handling of the relationship with his parents shows the wisdom and mind of a man, shows that he finds balance in the complex environment of family relationships with practical actions, and has become an example for people to learn.
Guo Guangping, 52 years old, has proved what dedication and talent are with his 24-year acting career. He had a brilliant career, with new works coming out almost every year.
For example, in many famous works such as "Big River", "Little Joy", "No Regrets", "Armageddon", "Storm Dance", "Breakthrough" and many other famous works, he has won unanimous praise from the industry and the audience with his excellent acting skills and professional attitude.
Guo Guangping's family life has been an important part of his career success. He and his wife Chang Xiaochuan, who is 10 years younger than him, have been walking hand in hand for 17 years, and their relationship has become deeper after the baptism of time.
In their family relationship, Guo Guangping has set a good example, he gets along well with his parents-in-law, and there has never been a conflict in the past ten years, showing his wisdom in handling family relationships.
Guo Guangping has been able to succeed because he has found a balance between career and family. He is conscientious and wholeheartedly committed to his role; Back home, he was a conscientious husband and father, considerate to his wife, caring for his children, and filial and courteous to his parents-in-law.
This balance not only allowed him to flourish in his career, but also allowed him to have a happy family life.
Guo Guangping's story tells us that the charm of a person is endless, and the key lies in how to treat everything around him. He proved with practical actions that as long as he manages with his heart, the double harvest of career and family is not out of reach.
In this impetuous era, Guo Guangping has undoubtedly set an example for us to learn from, showing how to be a good actor and at the same time a good husband, father and son-in-law.