Perhaps for people with more affluent families, 800 yuan a pair of shoes may be an ordinary expense, and they won't even say anything. However, for ordinary families, people with a monthly income of only a few thousand yuan, 800 yuan a pair of shoes is a high consumption, and this money is even enough for a family of three to have a pair of shoes.
A few days ago, the man accompanied his wife to go shopping, but the wife insisted on buying a pair of sandals worth about 800 yuan, and kept asking her husband how it was, and the husband did not speak when he bought it, but the wife still bought it without scruples, and went out of the mall directly on her feet.
Outside the mall, the woman was still asking her husband if he felt beautiful and if he was beautiful in wear. And then the husband said a word:
"800 yuan for a pair of shoes, I really won't live."
Before she could finish her sentence, the wife's face was instantly pulled down, and she took off her shoes and threw them at her husband's feet, and then left barefoot, leaving her husband alone in the same place.
It can be seen from the wife's dress that both the dress and makeup are very exquisite, and at first glance she is a person who is very willing to spend money for herself. On the contrary, the husband's dress should be much more modest, and his income should not be high.
But even so, the husband still didn't say anything when his wife bought 800 yuan a pair of shoes, but just said something outside, which also caused his wife's anger, I don't think it's really enough.
Many people feel the same way as me, so they call their wife's behavior a "little fairy", and they also criticize her verbally and write about her: "Too strong, insisting on hurting a man's heart, and it is not easy for a man to be careful about his family." But in fact, after the man said this, the woman only needed to gently reply: I just like it, and I won't buy it in the future. That's it. Men don't really care too much. ”
It is true that men sometimes question some family expenses, but they attach more importance to the latter than the relationship between husband and wife, so what they say seems to be complaining, but in fact it is just a chatter, and women just need to cooperate. But why even so, why do women still have to be "strong" to the end?
At the same time, many people also said, "Singing, eating, smoking, and drinking are more than 800 yuan at a time, and even 800 is too expensive, but people are really not men." ”
also said: "To buy a pair of 800 yuan shoes, do you still need to lower your eyebrows and smile?" Then the marriage is divorced. ”
In this regard, thinking from a woman's point of view, a pair of shoes of 800 yuan may not feel expensive, after all, good shoes can be worn for many years, plus they don't buy them every day, and there is nothing wrong with occasionally buying them for themselves, as a husband, you shouldn't say much at all.
So this matter is the public said that the public is reasonable, the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law is reasonable, right and wrong all depend on personal feelings, if you think it is expensive, how to explain that the shoes are expensive, if you think it is appropriate, then more than 800 yuan will not feel expensive.
Perhaps this is the difference in thinking between men and women, and why there are more and more men and women who do not plan to get married, because they are different in their thinking and are unwilling to compromise.
What do you think about this?