True love is not a vigorous passion, but a long-term companionship.
When "getting married" is no longer an escaping topic, but a longing for the future
True love is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to face fear with the other person.
Li Mei sat in the café, her fingers tapping restlessly on the tabletop.
Her best friend, Wang Fang, was looking at her with inquiring eyes.
"So, Zhang Qiang mentioned marriage again?" Wang Fang asked softly.
Li Mei sighed, "Yes, we are both 35 years old, and he said that it would be too late if he didn't get married."
But..."
"But what?"
"I don't know if we're really fit to get married.
Li Mei lowered her head, "We've been together for 5 years, but I still feel uneasy." "
Wang Fang smiled, "Actually, to judge whether two people are suitable for marriage, you only need to look at these 4 points."
Trust me, it's true. "
Li Mei raised her head, her eyes flashing with curiosity.
Even in the face of the worst, we can walk together
Marriage is not the end, but the beginning of another journey.
After listening to Wang Fang's words, Li Mei couldn't help but fall into deep thought.
She began to recall the bits and pieces of getting along with Zhang Qiang.
They met five years ago at a company networking event.
Zhang Qiang is an engineer in the IT department, with a gentle personality and always silently cares about the people around him.
Li Mei still remembers one time when she worked overtime until late at night, Zhang Qiang insisted on sending her home, and bought her a supper on the way.
"The first point," Wang Fang's voice pulled Li Mei back to reality, "when you hear the word 'marriage' and no longer feel panic and avoidance, it means that you may be ready." "
Li Mei frowned, "But I still feel scared." "
"That's normal," Wang Fang laughed, "the key is whether you can face this fear calmly." "
Li Mei nodded thoughtfully.
She remembered that a few days ago, Zhang Qiang once again mentioned the topic of marriage.
At that moment, she really didn't immediately change the subject or find an excuse to run away from it, as she did before.
"The second point," Wang continued, "is that even in the face of the worst possible outcome, you can accept it calmly. "
Li Mei recalled the time when Zhang Qiang was unemployed last year.
At that time, she did not complain at all, but supported him more firmly.
She suddenly realized that no matter how difficult life is, as long as Zhang Qiang is by her side, she seems to be able to face it bravely.
"The third point is that when you meet a new person of the opposite sex, your heart is no longer swaying."
Wang Fang said with a smile.
Li Mei remembered the handsome new colleague in the company last month.
Although he frequently courted himself, Li Mei always maintained a polite distance.
She found that her heart had long been firmly occupied by Zhang Qiang.
"Finally," Wang said, "when you can accept the ordinary routine and find happiness in it, it means that you are really suitable to be together." "
Li Mei recalled the scene of watching TV and eating takeout at home with Zhang Qiang last night.
That kind of ordinary but warm moment made her feel extremely relieved and happy.
At this moment, Li Mei's mobile phone suddenly rang.
It was a message from Zhang Qiang: "My dear, I just received a notice that the company is going to send me on a business trip abroad for a month.
I can't bear to leave you for so long..."
Li Mei looked at the screen of her mobile phone, and a strong emotion suddenly surged in her heart.
She realized that maybe it was time to make that important decision.
It is better to meet the better, than to stick to the best
True love is to see only each other's light in the crowd of living beings.
Li Mei was about to reply to Zhang Qiang's message when she suddenly received an urgent call from the company.
One of her projects went wrong and she had to rush back to the company immediately.
"I have to go," Li Mei hurriedly got up, "the company has an urgent matter." "
Wang Fang looked at her worriedly, "Do you want me to accompany you?" "
Li Mei shook her head, "No need, I can handle it myself." "
However, when Li Mei arrived at the company, the situation was even worse than she had imagined.
All the project data was lost, the client was furious, and the leadership was pressuring.
Li Mei felt unprecedented pressure and panic.
At this moment, Zhang Qiang suddenly appeared at the door of the office.
"I heard that something was going on and rushed over immediately," he said breathlessly, "and I can help recover the data." "
Li Mei looked at him in surprise, "But... Aren't you going on a business trip? "
Zhang Qiang smiled softly, "You are more important than a business trip." "
In the next few hours, Zhang Qiang threw himself into his work and finally succeeded in recovering all the data.
Looking at his tired but satisfied smile, Li Mei suddenly felt a warm current surging through her body.
She finally understands that true love is not vigorous, but in times of crisis, there is always someone who stands by your side without hesitation.
In ordinary days, the most precious happiness is hidden
Life is not poetry, but firewood, rice, oil and salt; Love is not a dream, but the warmth in firewood, rice, oil and salt.
After the crisis was resolved, Li Mei and Zhang Qiang walked out of the company building.
The night was dark, and the lights on the streets were flickering.
Li Mei took a deep breath and suddenly turned to face Zhang Qiang.
"Zhang Qiang, I have something to say," her voice trembled a little, but it was unwavering, "all these years, I have been running away, afraid of taking responsibility.
But today I finally understand that marriage is not the end, but a new beginning. "
She held Zhang Qiang's hand, tears flashing in her eyes, "I am willing to face every day in the future with you, whether it is laughter or tears."
Zhang Qiang, are you willing to marry me? "
Zhang Qiang looked at Li Mei in surprise, and then showed a happy smile.
He hugged Li Mei tightly and whispered in her ear:
"I do, I've been waiting for this day."
On this ordinary but meaningful night, Li Mei and Zhang Qiang opened a new chapter in their lives.
They understand that true happiness is to be with each other and face the little things of life together.
The true meaning of marriage lies not in the vigorous vows, but in the insipid perseverance. When you are able to find your place in these fourfold realms, you will understand that happiness is so simple and is all around you.
Love is a choice, marriage is a business; Choosing the right person, plainness is also honey.