Tutor stories
Summer came quietly, on the way out of school, Liu Dong and a few friends were attracted by the croaking sound from the ditch, it turned out to be a cute little frog singing. They ran over excitedly, and in a short time caught three little frogs. Liu Dong was very happy, and asked his friends who had a knife, and wanted to give the little frog a "little adventure". So, on the grass next to him, like a little scientist, he began to observe the little frogs, but in fact he cut them open, and the little frogs moved in pain, but Liu Dong and the others laughed very happily.
At this time, a kind old man came over, and when he saw this scene, he felt very uncomfortable, and said to them gently, "Children, this is not right. Little frogs are our good friends, and now they are fewer and fewer, and they are still protected small animals. We can't just hurt them, we have to learn to love them. ”
When Liu Dong heard this, he said a little disappreciatively: "This is our own business, don't worry about it." When the old man heard this, he shook his head helplessly and left. After a while, Liu Dong and the others felt that it was not interesting, so they went home separately. But the three little frogs were lying on the grass in pain, unable to move, and it was really distressing to watch.
Tutoring small feelings
In this society where everyone is chasing after me, we find that children's compassion seems to have become less. They seem to be less and less concerned about others, only thinking about themselves and their own feelings, and they don't care much about other people's sadness and pain.
Compassion is actually a manifestation of love. People who don't have compassion only think about what they gain and what they lose, and some even like to be happy when others are sad. When such a child grows up, he may become indifferent to even his parents. Therefore, as parents, we must cultivate children's compassion.
Usually, don't just focus on your children's academic performance, but also see if they know how to care for others. Teaching children to be kind and considerate is a delicate job, but it is very important. Children must learn to feel other people's emotions and understand other people's feelings.
To cultivate empathy in children, there must be an atmosphere of love in the home. Mom and Dad should love each other, be filial to their elders, be friendly to their neighbors, and be harmonious at home every day. In this way, children will see in their eyes and learn in their hearts, and they will gradually know how to care about others.
Compassion doesn't come all at once, and it doesn't just talk. It needs to infect the child little by little in life. When faced with the right opportunity, parents should guide their children and let them learn to empathize with others.
Also, it's a good idea to ask your child to help others. Children who like to help others can usually feel the difficulties of others and respect others. Such children, when they see someone in difficulty, will definitely reach out and give sympathy and care.
In the final analysis, compassion is what we often call benevolence and kindness. A sympathetic person, everyone likes it, and will be willing to help him. Therefore, as parents, we must cultivate this precious quality of our children!
Teacher's tips
Do you want to make our baby more loving and sympathetic? Parents can try the following good methods!
First, raise a little friend, love will grow naturally
Want to make your child's heart softer? Try raising a critter or planting some flowers! When taking care of them, children can learn to care and understand the preciousness of life. Watching the little ones grow up day by day, the children's love will also quietly sprout!
Second, polite little angels, warm you, me and him
Teach children to be polite little angels so that they can gain more love and respect. Treat people warmly, stay away from indifference, the child's world will be full of sunshine, and compassion will come quietly!
Third, the gentleness of parents is the best example for children
Don't be a "tiger father and tiger mother" at home, but "warm men and warm women" outside. Be gentle with your child, smile more, and boast more. In this way, children can learn to love others when they have love in their hearts, and their compassion will be full!
For example, Xiaoping's parents, although strict, have a little less smile and praise. As a result, Xiaoping also became indifferent and unwilling to care about his family. So, warmth is really important!
Fourth, take care of every kindness of children
Children are born with compassion, but we adults need to take good care of them. Seeing others sad and children sad is the seed of compassion. Don't ignore it, encourage your child so that your child feels the joy of helping others, and compassion will thrive!
Just like Wang Ding saw a begging child, his mother didn't directly dismantle it, but encouraged him to help. Wang Ding not only helped people, but also gained a full sense of achievement!
Fifth, love action starts from me
Do you have a caring activity at school? Strongly support your child's participation! You can also take your children to orphanages and nursing homes, so that they can pass on their love. In this way, children know that there are many people in need in the world, learn to care, and become loving little angels!
Like these tips? Don't forget to like it! You are also welcome to share your good methods, let's exchange and learn together, so that the love can be passed on further!