The love story of Yu Qian and Bai Huiming, who have an age difference of ten years
In the summer of 1998, 29-year-old Yu Qian accidentally met 19-year-old college student Bai Huiming in the crew of "Red Print".
Yu Qian was attracted by Bai Huiming's lively and cheerful personality, although the two were 10 years apart, Yu Qian did not give up the pursuit of love, he bravely left Bai Huiming's mobile phone number and pager number, hoping to ask her out for dinner.
However, at that time, Bai Huiming was only focused on his studies, so he just took the note casually and responded perfunctorily.
Fate always comes suddenly. On a certain holiday, Bai Huiming's roommates all went out on a date with her boyfriend, and she stayed in the dormitory alone. Feeling lonely, she remembered the contact information left by Yu Qian, and it took a lot of effort to find the crumpled note.
She first called her mobile phone, but Yu Qian answered. Immediately after that, he called the landline again, but was told that Yu Qian was not there. Bai Huiming was a little disappointed, and even a little angry, thinking that Yu Qian might be perfunctory to her.
However, it didn't take long for the dormitory manager aunt to inform Zhang Xiaofei that there was a phone, and it was Yu Qian on the other end of the phone, and she apologized again and again, it turned out that there was no signal when he was filming in the basement just now. In order to apologize, Yu Qian proposed to take advantage of the holiday to come out for a meal together.
Bai Huiming thought about it for a while, and felt that he was bored in the dormitory, so he agreed to Yu Qian's invitation.
The two met at a McDonald's in Beijing. At that time, foreign fast food like McDonald's was still very luxurious, and Yu Qian put a lot of thought and investment into it in order to leave a good impression on the person he liked.
Bai Huiming came to McDonald's first, and a few minutes later, Yu Qian ran in panting, holding two roses in his hand. He explained to her that there was a traffic jam on the road and that he had bought flowers to apologize.
Looking at Yu Qian's sincere eyes, Bai Huiming had a very good impression of this date. And the roses in her hand made her understand Yu Qian's feelings for herself. In this way, a seemingly insipid date with two open hearts unfolded a relationship journey that spans ages.
After several meetings, Bai Huiming agreed to the relationship with Yu Qian. They gradually deepened their relationship as they got along.
Joining hands in white despite opposition: the married life of Yu Qian and Bai Huiming
As the relationship deepened, Teacher Yu Qian decided to take Bai Huiming to meet his parents. In order to make a deep first impression on his parents, in order to show the tacit understanding between him and Bai Huiming, he specially went to the barber shop to perm his hair.
This act of his was later regarded as one of his "three hobbies" and became part of his unique image.
When Bai Huiming brought home with her, her parents had some concerns. This boyfriend is a full 10 years older than Bai Huiming. In a subtle way, they reminded their daughter: "Do you need to think again?" Behind this sentence is their deep concern and concern for their daughter's happiness.
However, a home visit completely changed the way Bai Huiming's parents saw it. That day, Bai Huiming asked Yu Qian to help pour a cup of tea, Yu Qian went without saying a word, and intimately reminded: "Be careful of burning."
Bai Huiming's parents were deeply moved by that detail, and they found that Yu Qian was a mature and stable person, and thought: "This man looks very down-to-earth." Since then, their attitude towards this relationship has changed significantly, and they have begun to accept Yu Qian, the future son-in-law.
After receiving the blessings of both parents, Yu Qian and Bai Huiming entered the palace of marriage. The relationship between the newlyweds is still as sweet as ever. Although both parents hope that they can have a child as soon as possible, Yu Qian and Bai Huiming choose to enjoy the world of two first.
They argue that the relationship should be given enough time to develop and deepen, and not rush into the process of giving birth to the next generation.
Yu Qian's career took a turn for the better at this time, he joined Deyun Club and started a new chapter in his life. And Bai Huiming went all out to support her husband's career, and even resolutely resigned from her job as an actor in order to take care of the family.
The solid backing for Yu Qian's career to take off comes from her selfless dedication.
In 2006, soon after their marriage, they ushered in the crystallization of love Yu Siyang, the arrival of this little life added a complete color to this love across ages, and also made their family life more complete and happy.
Bai Huiming plays multiple roles in the family, she is not only a gentle and considerate wife, but also a conscientious mother, and a strong backing for Yu Qian's career. She not only keeps the house in order, but also often accompanies Yu Qian to participate in various activities.
Her dedication and persistence have maintained the happiness and stability of the marriage, which not only reduces the doubts of the outside world, but also strengthens the beauty of the marriage.
Guo Degang's "smashing" art of stage ridicule
As Yu Qian's position in Deyun Club becomes more and more stable, his cross talk with his partner Guo Degang is becoming more and more popular with the audience. However, this fame also brought some troubles, such as Guo Degang's ridicule of his family on stage.
This kind of "smashing" is a unique art form in the cross talk world, and it is one of the means of ridicule.
In the beginning, there wasn't much of this ridicule. At that time, there were still veterans such as Li Jing and Xu Deliang in Deyun Club, and Guo Degang was still more polite to Yu Qian, who joined later.
However, as time went by, other actors withdrew from the club one after another, and Yu Qian became Guo Degang's most important partner, and the ridicule increased.
In Guo Degang's cross talk, Yu Qian's father has become a variety of exaggerated characters. He has various titles such as "Old Man Wang", "Commander of the Navy of Mongolia", and even "Smelling Expert".
These absurd descriptions always cause the audience to laugh, but in fact, Mr. Yu Zhuang is a respected geologist who was already a senior national engineer when he retired.
Yu Qian's father and wife Bai Huiming have become the targets of ridicule in Guo Degang's cross talk. In cross talk, Bai Huiming is portrayed as a woman with a pungent personality, who can "perform a big change in bed", and even "cut off a piece of her own meat with a knife for her mother-in-law to eat".
These exaggerated descriptions are in stark contrast to the real-life Bai Huiming, who is a gentle and virtuous person.
Yu Qian's father, Yu Zhuangjing, showed a very high sense of humor and mind when facing these ridicules. He once half-jokingly said: "I'm also participating in the show in disguise, should I be given some performance fees?" This sentence not only resolved the embarrassment, but also showed that the personal relationship between the two families was very good.
Yu Zhuangjing's noble character and unique sense of humor made Guo Degang give full respect to his remarks, making his ridicule more interesting and not excessive.
However, Bai Huiming, as an introvert and not very open-minded person, was inevitably a little uncomfortable in this environment at first. In order to take care of his wife's feelings, Yu Qian even suggested that she listen to her cross talk less.
However, Bai Huiming showed amazing understanding and tolerance. She understands that these ridicules are only for stage effects and do not represent actual performance.
With the passage of time, even if Yu Qian's family experienced these ridicules, it did not affect family harmony, but ridicule became a major feature of Deyun Club's cross talk. In the laughter, the audience also felt the warmth and harmony of Yu Qian's family.
Guo Degang's "smashing" art can not only entertain the public, but also show the charm and vitality of cross talk, a traditional art form.
This unique art form tests the eloquence and wit of the cross talk actors, as well as the mind and bearing of the ridiculed. The generosity and understanding of Yu Qian's family provided a good soil for the development of this art form, and also allowed the audience to feel sincere emotions and deep friendship while laughing.
Saliva seals the throat: Guo Degang's ridicule caused controversy
As people pay more and more attention to the personalization of entertainment life, the corresponding entertainment trend is also constantly changing. Especially in recent years, the traditional art form of cross talk has been widely disseminated and recognized across the country, especially Guo Degang's cross talk, which has become a clear stream in the cross talk world.
However, in Guo Degang's cross talk, some of his ridicule and remarks caused controversy.
Guo Degang's cross talk is mainly humorous, sarcastic and ridiculous, and his cross talk often involves some social hot spots and sensitive topics. However, some of his remarks were considered inappropriate and even discriminatory.
For example, he once ridiculed groups such as the disabled, women, and ethnic minorities in cross talk, and these remarks have attracted widespread attention and criticism from society.
In addition, there are some vulgar and pornographic contents in Guo Degang's cross talk, which have also attracted widespread attention and criticism from the society. For example, he once ridiculed women's bodies and clothes in cross talk, which was considered inappropriate and even discriminatory.
Although Guo Degang's cross talk has been recognized and loved by the society to a certain extent, some of his remarks and behaviors have caused controversy. In the future creation of cross talk, Guo Degang should pay more attention to his own words and behaviors to avoid causing controversy and negative impact.
At the same time, the society should also strengthen the supervision and guidance of cross talk creation to ensure the healthy development of cross talk creation.
Although Yu Qian's family showed great tolerance for Guo Degang's ridicule, not everyone could understand and accept it. Guo Degang's "lip service" has also caused controversy many times, causing him to fall into the whirlpool of public opinion.
At the celebration of a short video website in 2012, Guo Degang, as the guest of honor, ridiculed Sha Yi, Hu Ke and his wife and their son Anji, who came to the stage to accept the award.
His words were quite surprising, such as "Your family is so hospitable", "Anji looks like me and Hu Ke's child", etc., these jokes not only made the atmosphere of the scene embarrassing for a while, but more importantly, these words were said in front of the young Anji.
At that time, Sha Yi and Hu Ke on the stage looked extremely uncomfortable, and Xiao Anji also looked at his father suspiciously. This scene was watched by the audience and the audience in front of the TV, which caused a strong response.
Many netizens flocked to Guo Degang's Weibo, demanding that he apologize to Sha Yi and Hu Ke and his wife.
However, Guo Degang, who is known for his "lip service", did not apologize to them, but published an article called "Eating Theory" to fight back against those who criticized him. His move caused him to have no contact with Sha Yi Hu Ke and his wife for three years, which added fuel to the fire.
Incidents like this have happened countless times. For example, in 2013, Guo Degang not only openly insulted the hostess at a celebration party, saying that "wearing clothes is like charging", but also asked the other party to call her "Chun".
Although he claimed that "spring" represented spring, the joke was uttered in public, which still felt very inappropriate.
As early as 2006, Guo Degang ridiculed fellow cross talk actor Wang Yang and his wife on stage, which eventually led to the other party suing him in court, accusing him of infringing on the right to reputation.
Although this lawsuit ended in reconciliation, it also sounded the alarm for Guo Degang and made him cherish the support of his family and the audience even more.
These controversies have raised questions about how humor and respect can be balanced? As a cross talk actor whose profession is characterized by ridiculing others, how to find the right scale between entertaining the public and respecting others? These issues are not only related to Guo Degang personally, but also to the development of the entire cross talk industry.
Despite the controversy surrounding Guo Degang, his undeniable talent and outstanding contributions to the art of cross talk. His laughter and conversation are lively, and while bringing joy to the audience, he is also constantly challenging the boundaries of society's perception of "humor".
Laughing at life: Bai Huiming's wisdom and mind
In a series of controversies caused by Guo Degang's ridicule, Bai Huiming's attitude is particularly commendable. Faced with the reporter's inquiry, she replied with a seemingly joking but embarrassing sentence: "It's actually nothing, it's all for art, but I'm going to consider talking to him about the loss of reputation!" This teasing sentence shows her sense of humor, and also shows her support and understanding for her husband's career.
Bai Huiming's tolerance is reflected in the ridicule of Guo Degang and her dedication to her family, in order to support Yu Qian's career, she resolutely gave up her job as an actress and concentrated on taking care of her family.
At home, she is the gentle wife of her husband and the loving mother of her children; Outside, she is Yu Qian's strong backing, always accompanying her husband to participate in various activities, and keeping the home and outside in order.
Since the birth of their son Yu Siyang in 2006, Bai Huiming has devoted herself to the family, she not only takes care of the child meticulously, but also becomes Yu Qian's right-hand man in his career.
Her dedication enabled Yu Qian to devote himself to the cross talk career and laid a solid foundation for his success.
In 2018, Yu Qian almost drowned in a reality show to save his wife Bai Huiming, which touched countless audiences. At this moment, people see not only Yu Qian's love for his wife, but also the feelings that the couple have had for many years.
Even though they are ten years apart, their relationship is not affected by age at all, but has become stronger because of their mutual understanding and support.
Because of Bai Huiming's intelligence and tolerance, Yu Qian's career has developed, and his life has made up for the lack of age and added happiness. Bai Huiming uses her lifestyle to perfectly interpret the true meaning of husband and wife: understanding, support, and tolerance.
Under her influence, Yu Qian's performance on the stage became more and more comfortable, and his life was also happy.
This marriage, which has been ridiculed by Guo Degang for decades, has not been broken, but has become more indestructible because of mutual understanding and support. Bai Huiming, with her wisdom and mind, gave the best answer: true love is not afraid of gossip, just because each other has a spirit in their hearts.
Her attitude makes people understand that humor and understanding can resolve many contradictions and unpleasantness in life. Bai Huiming's story undoubtedly provides an excellent example for many people facing similar situations.