Hey, dear mothers, listen up, today let's talk about the little things that quietly ruined the boy. Oh, don't be in a hurry to get angry, I'm not saying you're bad, after all, who hasn't been negligent? Let's be a mirror, look at each other, and then smile, work together, and raise our baby boy better.
Imagine a boy who grew up and his mom was his superhero. However, superheroes also get tired sometimes, right? Let's take a look at how those "small mistakes" that happened inadvertently quietly ruined the boy.
Heck, let's start with the most common one - "boys should be poor". This sounds very reasonable, after all, boys have to be strong and not too squeamish. However, when it comes to poverty, does it become a matter of not letting him eat well, not buying him expensive toys, and not letting him go to interest classes? Oh, moms, don't underestimate these details.
I remember a friend of mine whose mother was a typical "poor child". The result? He is now super independent, but his requirements for quality of life are also frighteningly high. He always felt that he had lacked this since he was a child, and that was missing, which was terrible.
Let's talk about "boys should be obedient". That's true, but there must be a degree of obedience. Mothers, have you noticed that when a boy becomes more and more obedient, his curiosity and desire to explore become less and less? Oh, that's not going to work, the boy's adventurous spirit is what drives his growth!
Also, mothers, do you think that a boy's crying is a sign of manhood? Heck, I'm telling you, that's a big mistake. The boy cries, sometimes as a way for him to express his emotions. Mothers, you have to learn to listen, don't be in a hurry to criticize, and don't rush to shut him out.
Then, let's talk about "boys need to be independent". That's true, but there must also be a degree of independence. Some mothers, afraid that the boy would not be able to do without him, let him eat, sleep alone, and even go to kindergarten by himself since he was a child. Oh, mothers, are you raising boys, or are you raising withdrawn people?
Also, let's talk about "boys can't be too feminine". Oops, that's uncomfortable to hear. Can't a boy be gentle, he can't be delicate, can't he be loving? Mothers, have you ever thought that such a concept is actually invisibly limiting a boy's development?
Oh, mothers, I know you're all out of love, but sometimes, loving too much can become a bondage. So, I want to say to you, relax a little bit, give the boys more space, let them explore, to experiment, to make mistakes, to grow.
Finally, I want to say, moms, you are all great. You play an integral role in your child's development. But, don't forget, you are human beings too, and you also need to rest and relax. So, when you feel tired, don't forget to recharge yourself and make yourself better, so that you can better accompany your children and grow together.
Heck, moms, let's work together to make the boys healthy and become their own heroes. Let's be a funny mother, laugh at life, laugh at growth, and let our boys thrive in the sunshine of love!