In 1947, on the vast grassland of Ejina Banner in Inner Mongolia, a Mongolia girl Dedema came to the world. Showing musical talent since she was a child, her singing voice is like a breeze on the grassland, pure and far-reaching.
At the age of 15, Dedema was discovered by the Inner Mongolia Art School and entered the vocal music research class, which began her professional music path.
In a school report performance, Dedema's outstanding performance impressed Buhe, then director of the Cultural Bureau of the Inner Mongolia Autonomous Region. While the other students were not doing well due to stage fright, Dedema was undaunted, and as soon as she spoke, her loud singing voice attracted bursts of cheers from the audience.
Bucher praised Dedema's musical talent and thought she was a musical genius, and this performance became a turning point in Dedema's musical career.
During his studies at the Central Conservatory of Music, Dedema was not complacent because he had just arrived at the school, but was eager to learn professional music knowledge. Under the guidance of the famous professor Jiang Jiaqiang, she majored in ethnic singing, mastered professional music knowledge and scientific vocal methods, and laid a solid foundation for her future singing career.
After graduating, Dedema returned to Inner Mongolia and joined the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe as a soloist. However, she didn't go on without a hitch. During a period of social upheaval, Dedema lost the stage of his beloved.
But this stubborn girl did not give up, she met the Inner Mongolia singer Hazab, and humbly asked him to teach the Mongolian long tune singing.
Dedema is committed to successfully integrating bel canto singing with long key singing to form her unique singing style. However, the process was arduous, and no one had ever succeeded in combining the two ways of singing.
Due to the difficulty of perfectly controlling the scale of her voice, she even developed polyps on her vocal cords, which was a fatal blow for a singer, however, Dedema did not back down, and after the surgery, she remained focused on delving into her singing skills.
After several years of hard work, Dedema has successfully combined bel canto singing with Mongolia singing to create a unique musical style. Her singing voice is loud and has earned her reputation as the "Nightingale of the Prairie", and she is always full of people wherever she goes.
The audience was so moved by her singing that they often came backstage after the show to thank her for the wonderful enjoyment she had bringing.
In this way, Dedema came out of Inner Mongolia, interpreted the culture and feelings of the Mongolia people with her unique voice, showed her talent on the national stage, and became a well-known excellent singer.
When Dederma was at the peak of her career, she met her first husband, who were colleagues in the Inner Mongolia Song and Dance Troupe. After marriage, Dedema gave birth to the eldest son, Suhe, and the younger son, Mark Taler.
On the surface, the family is happy, but the reality has poured cold water on Dedema.
Dedema became famous with "Beautiful Prairie My Home" and entered the ranks of well-known singers in the country. She has long been famous in Inner Mongolia, and now she is famous in the entire Chinese music scene.
The boom in her career made Dedema more focused on her work, and she began to perform all over the country, however, her busy schedule made it difficult for her to juggle her family.
The marriage, which had lasted for many years, ended in failure, when the couple was unable to resolve their conflicts, and the quarrels between them increased, and the man was no longer willing to take on the role of carrying pressure on her, hoping to have room for his own career development.
The accumulation of family trivialities and stresses made the marriage even more fragile, and although they had two sons, the impact did not save their marriage.
In 1982, the 35-year-old Dedema was transferred to work in the Central National Song and Dance Troupe. She came to Beijing alone with her two sons. Although Dedema was already somewhat famous at this time, life in Beijing was not easy, and life with his two sons was even more difficult.
The busy Dedema often travels to perform and is often unable to bring her two young sons with her. As a result, they would be home alone, and sometimes they would even play with mud all over their bodies, which made Dedemar angry and distressed.
Sometimes, Dedema comes home late, will buy some delicious food to bring to the children, and ask them if they have already had dinner, however, the two children always replied flatly: "We ate some steamed buns at night, and we are not very hungry now" Whenever this happens, Dedema can't help but secretly cry, feeling sorry that the children have to suffer with themselves at such a young age.
As a single mother, Dedema had wanted to find a man who could support the family and give the children a caregiver. Despite her success in her career, after hearing that she has two sons, many people choose to retreat, fearing that the burden of life will be too heavy.
Faced with the dual pressure of career and family, Dedema has always gritted his teeth and persevered. On stage, she is a shining star, and offstage, she is a strong mother who struggles alone. She expresses her love for life with her singing, and is silently looking forward to the arrival of the person who understands her and accepts her and her children.
Just when Dedemar thought she would be alone forever, the god of luck surprised her. Lasi Nima, a playwright of the Central Ethnic Song and Dance Troupe, broke into her life.
Both Rasinima and Dedema are from the beautiful steppes of Inner Mongolia, he admires Dedema's musical talent, and also deeply feels that it is not easy to be a mother, he always cares about Dedema silently in work and life, and finally musters up the courage to confess to her.
However, Dedema didn't let go of the problem so quickly in his mind. Worried that Rasi Nyima would have a hard time getting along with her two sons, she decided to talk to him openly and honestly: "You know I have two sons, and they are all naughty, and I am afraid that they will not accept you for a while.
Rasinima replied firmly: "Since I love you, then I can accept everything from you, including your two sons, and I will take good care of them and get along with them."
However, Rasi Nyima's promise proved to be not an easy one. When the two children learn that Rasinima may be their stepfather, they begin to play pranks on Rasinima, such as hiding his clothes and secretly throwing his shoes out.
Every time Dedema knew about it, he would give the children a strict education, but Rasinima was not angry, but protected them, saying: "It's normal for little boys to be naughty, such children will have success in the future, they don't recognize me, it can only mean that I still need to improve, and I will get better slowly."
Because of Rasinima's tolerance and love, Dedema and the children were impressed. In 1985, after the 38-year-old Dedema and Rasinima entered the marriage hall, Rasinima voluntarily gave up her career and devoted more time and energy to Dedema and her children.
He often took his two children to see Dedemar's performances, tutored them with their homework, and slowly narrowed the distance with the children.
With Rasinima's support, Dedema's music career began to flourish, and he held solo concerts in Beijing, Guangzhou and other places, and was invited to perform all over the world many times.
In 1995, Dedema won the highest award for culture and art in Mongolia, once again showing her musical talent to the world.
However, the long hours of work at Dedema have caused the physical health to shine red. In 1998, Dedema, who participated in cultural performances in Japan, took on the heavy task of 41 performances in 60 days.
During the 25th performance, she suddenly felt unwell, but still insisted on completing the curtain call, and after the curtain call, she passed out and was diagnosed with a sudden cerebral hemorrhage, which left the right half of her body paralyzed.
This bad news sent him like a bolt from the blue, but Rasinima did not back down, he flew to Japan quickly, and stayed by Dedema's bedside day and night. After spending 5 days and 5 nights in the dark, Dedema finally woke up and the first person he saw was Rassinima.
After returning home, he became Dedema's personal caretaker, grooming, turning and feeding her every day, and although he was often tired and sweaty, he forgot all the tiredness just by seeing his wife's smile.
The process of recovery is extremely arduous and long. Rasinima patiently takes Dedema up the stairs every day to exercise her legs, and uses chopsticks to pick soybeans to help her train her hand dexterity. Although Dedema wanted to give up many times due to pain, Rasinema was always able to give her strength and hope.
Under his careful care, Dedema miraculously recovered her health after a year, and although she still needs wheelchair assistance in her life, her singing voice is still loud and moving.
After his recovery, Dedema set his sights on music education. As a singer from Inner Mongolia, she has always had a wish to let more grassland children's singing voices be heard by the world.
In 2002, when her health improved, Dedemar founded the Inner Mongolia Dedema Music and Art College, a decision that was supported by her family, and she and her family began to devote more energy to cultivating a new generation of musical talents.
As the eldest son of Dedemar, Su He is actively involved in the management of the school and uses it to help his mother realize her musical dreams. At the same time, Dedema's youngest son, Mark Taler, inherited his mother's musical genes and became an excellent singer.
He not only followed in his mother's footsteps on the road of music, but also always guarded his parents and gave them meticulous care.
In 2007, in order to thank the audience who have always supported her, Dedema held the "Dedema 60th Anniversary Nostalgic Classic Concert" in Beijing. The concert also marked her gradual retirement from the stage spotlight and more focus on music education.
Although he no longer takes the stage frequently, Dedema still uses his talent to contribute to the music career he loves.
Today, at the age of 75, Dedema is still rich and happy in her old age, although she is not in good health. Her conservatory of music has produced batches of outstanding students who have passed on her musical dreams.
The eldest son, Su He, and his family help his mother run a music school in Inner Mongolia, while the younger son, Maktaler, continues to follow the path of music, working and taking care of his parents.
Nourished by both career and family, Dedema's later life was full of joy and satisfaction. She has achieved great success in her career, but also has a harmonious and happy family, and has realized her dream of music inheritance.
Today, at the age of 75, she is still passionate about life and music, despite her poor health. There is always one person by her side who silently supports her - and that is her husband Rasinima.
For the past 37 years, Rasinima has been the most solid support in Dedema's life, like the "engine" behind her wheelchair, pushing her forward.
The story of Dedema and Rasineema tells us what a genuine relationship and a suitable partner are. Their love has endured the trials of life and the troubles of illness, but in the end they have built a happy home.
Rasinima not only accepted Dedema's two sons, but also helped Dedema return to the stage with meticulous care during the most difficult time.
In this fast-paced society, the touching story of Dedema and Rasinima has given us a lot of inspiration: sincere feelings require dedication and perseverance from both parties, and only by finding the right person can we go through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.
Their story tells us that we should be cautious in our relationship, and when we meet the right person for each other, the relationship will last long and life will be sweet after being together.
I wish Ms. Dedema more and more health, and hope that her story can inspire more people to cherish sincere feelings and pursue a happy life.