The word happiness, although it has no fixed connotation, is the most precious thing in the world, and it is also the best wish, happy birthday, happy newlywed, happy holidays, happy forever, etc., but is your heart really happy?
In this world, there are ever-changing, no one knows tomorrow or accidents, which one will arrive first, maybe one minute is still complacent, happy, the next minute may encounter troubles, bad luck, and even misfortune.
The earth and the universe are round, the material world is square, square and round, going around and around, walking and stopping, is a person's fate, but also a person's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, may not be the best, but not the worst, so good.
In this world, there is no absolute perfection, imperfection, is the real appearance, just like when you finally arrive at the place of your dreams, only to find that this place is not a big deal, it is not as beautiful as you imagined.
One day, when you finally get what you want, you will find that the happiness that comes from the material aspect is actually short-lived and superficial, in fact, you are not without real happiness, but happy by the appearance of the material.
Whether you go to a dinner, or a dinner, or a wedding banquet, the cups at the dinner table are staggered, laughter and laughter, but after the end, it is people who go to tea and cool, and your smiling face has long been stiff, and there is no happiness in your heart.
However, in interpersonal interactions, you can't exist independently of the crowd, for some kind of need, for some kind of relationship, everyone gets together, no matter who is socializing with whom, happiness seems to be pretended.
So, if you want to get real happiness, if you want to get pure happiness, in fact, it's not an easy thing, so how can you get real happiness, how can you keep happiness? This is a topic worth exploring.
A hundred years of life, fleeting, when you are young, happiness is very simple, there is eating, drinking, playing, you are very happy, as you grow older, all kinds of pressures follow, big and small troubles, there are more and more, happiness seems to be less and less.
Although everyone knows that "contentment and happiness" is a master key to happiness, how many people can really grasp the degree of this "knowledge" word? In other words, how much does a person have to be true to be content and happy?
Therefore, this "contentment and happiness" actually has no special significance, but it is just a kind of psychological guidance, which can also be said to be the self-humility of the successful and the self-deprecation of the loser, and there is no practical operability.
As the saying goes, people are in good spirits when they are happy, and the real happiness must be from the bottom of the heart and the happiness on the spiritual level, rather than the satisfaction that is piled up with materials and floats on the surface, so the real happiness comes from the mentality.
In short, relax your heart, look at things, put down your worries, follow your heart, face yourself, face life, face reality with an optimistic attitude, and happiness will accompany you, everywhere, and stay in the bottom of your heart.
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Wen Ling is a freelance writer whose works have been published in major newspapers and online platforms. This article is the author's original and must be reproduced with the author's permission.