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The birth of a child makes us feel that life has become more meaningful and valuable, and it is also the most valuable wealth in our life.
But I think that whether to decide to have a child, we must consider many factors, and I agree with what Zhang Ailing said. She said: If a child is born to inherit his toil, panic, and poverty, then not giving birth is also a kind of kindness.
The issue of having children has always been a hot topic for everyone, and Zheng Bingwen of economics made some remarks on this issue, which sparked heated discussions among netizens.
Nowadays, there are many such families in society, whose economic level is very poor, and can even be said to be poor, but they still keep giving birth to children, but they cannot give their children the living security they deserve, and some even let their children drop out of school early to work to subsidize their families. It's better not to give it away than this, it's really harmful to others and yourself.
A rough estimate of the cost of giving birth to a baby from childhood to adulthood will cost at least 2 million, how many families can earn so much money, I am afraid that they will have to pay so much money, half a lifetime will pass, education, raising, marriage, buying a house, etc. are all mountains, which is why many young people are reluctant to get married.
Zheng Bingwen believes that people's reproductive stage is very short and fleeting, and young people should seize this stage to have children as soon as possible, as for the economic problems, it is not a problem, but only a temporary stage, and you can borrow money from friends and relatives around you to have children. Once this stage is passed, it is too late to have children.
Here I interpret the words of the expert: I think he probably means that people's energy is limited, give birth early when you are young, you still have energy to bring, and your parents can also help take care of it.
Borrowing money from relatives and friends may be a temporary solution to your financial problems, but what if you can't afford to pay it back? Do experts take this into account?
Last year and this year's economic environment is not very good, many people are unemployed and can't find jobs, having children requires continuous output every month, equivalent to a person's salary, as the child grows up, the need for funds will only increase.
I'm afraid that it will be difficult to maintain basic expenses at that time, let alone pay back to relatives. In addition to this, the price of the house in the future will only be higher, and there will be no significant drop.
Education is getting more and more rolled, and all kinds of tutoring interest classes are continuous, and it is impossible to say that other people's children are learning, but the children of the single family will not know anything.
Medical care is also a major problem that is difficult to solve, and parents may get sick when they are old, and they also need to use a lot of money.
It's not that young people don't want to have children, but they really "can't afford to have children and don't dare to have children". Relying on borrowing money is not the solution after all.
Regarding the view of borrowing money to have children, netizens have also expressed their opinions
Who to borrow from? How can I pay it back in the future, while the robot is on duty, I still have to give birth to a baby, isn't it a contradiction.
Is this what the experts said, borrow money to give birth to you to repay the money, and young people borrow money to give birth to this don't get poorer and poorer?
The three mountains of education, medical care, and housing have left young people in debt, and they are also talking about childbearing and who will support them.
Although the experts are also for the good of everyone, considering the continuous development of the country, for everyone's sake, having a child early is also good for women's physical recovery. But after all, the economic situation of each family is different, and it is really not necessary to give birth to a child.
The days of borrowing money are very uncomfortable, even if they are relatives and friends, they have to look at people's faces every day, and they are stared at to collect debts.
Do you have any other opinions, and do you agree with the experts' advice? Welcome to leave a comment below, let's discuss and communicate together!