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Today's topic: After a divorce, many people want to be able to find a better partner than their ex, but it is often not easy. So what is the reason?
After the divorce, many friends will have this thought in their hearts: "How can I find a partner with better conditions than my ex-husband, and it feels so difficult?" We can all deeply understand this feeling. Divorce is not only the end of a relationship, but also the beginning of a new self-start. In this process, finding a new partner naturally carries more expectations and difficulties.
We need to understand that the process of finding a new partner is actually a process of self-growth and reinvention. Don't rush to compare yourself directly with the standards of your previous marriage, because every choice should be based on your truest and most complete self at the moment. Improving your connotation, whether it is by learning new knowledge, cultivating hobbies, or focusing on health management, can make you more attractive. In terms of appearance, you may want to dress up a little to make yourself look more energetic and confident.
Let's take a look at what kind of stories netizens have
If we just live together and take care of each other, I think it's great!
I thought I was the only one who had this kind of thought, I thought that if I got divorced, I would prefer to find a woman to live with, I like the kind with a chubby personality and a strong personality, it seems that I am not alone
In the past, I didn't think that express delivery was hard work, until later the company had a new business, and it often needed to pack dozens of kilograms to send express delivery.
Totally agree with you, sister, it's better to be beautiful than to be pretty. There is a 78-year-old girl next to us, who would rather study the health travel bake alone than compromise, and women should live proudly.
[Covering his face] women and a group of military advisers and girlfriends blow to each other, sometimes it's really a mistake
Your wife is clear-minded, just hinting to her girlfriend that she thinks her girlfriend is on good terms, so as to maintain a good relationship with her girlfriend. To put it bluntly, it is business blowing each other.
Looking for a partner is also this, often after graduation to the unit for the first two years, whether it is introduced or digested within their own units, it is basically a high-level period of mate selection, after this 2⃣year, if the position is not promoted, it will become more and more bad, until it is left or will be, make do with finding one, regardless of men and women.
This pushes itself. Some women are old, and although they hate to marry, they are really distressed that they don't have a suitable partner, but they won't admit it in front of outsiders. I know such a person.
This is not short-sighted, the reason why men's requirements for women are more biased towards age and marriage history is because women's personal qualities and economic conditions have nothing to do with men. I will ask you, if your father-in-law is sick, are you willing to contribute money or effort? Even if you have the ability. Men are different, but if they have a little ability and ability, they will not watch their mother-in-law and mother-in-law get sick. What doesn't come out is that it's really incompetent.
You are the kind of person whose whole family looks at your brother-in-law's face, you have to put your mentality right from the beginning, either you don't let your net worth and assets rely on others, or you have to accept your fate, people just have the power to make your whole family look up to others, in the face of this power, what is cheating is right, what feelings are not harmonious, what is the little girl, what moral standards, it doesn't matter at all, not to mention that people have divided part of the family property, it is she who did not keep it, so who can blame
The title of old sister-in-law is a bit murderous
No, no, in the marriage market, second-hand is not a rose, it can only be a second-hand car, maybe the ex still keeps the car keys, the car is put in your home, you add oil, you pay for maintenance, and others have the keys to drive for free.
Finding a way to improve yourself first is the king, as for the rest, if you bloom butterflies, you will come
Life after divorce, although full of challenges, is also pregnant with infinite possibilities. Remember, you deserve a better partner, someone with whom you can spend the rest of your life hand in hand. Don't be afraid of the difficulties and hardships in the process, because it is these experiences that make you more mature and stronger. Believe in your own choices, stick to your own pursuits, and happiness will eventually come as promised. In the days to come, may you meet the right person and write a beautiful chapter that belongs to you together.
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