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Who said that the life of a star is sunny?
The marriage process of the popular male god Yu Zhen is simply a "love roller coaster" blockbuster!
From the first experience of a flash marriage in 7 months to the almost end of the second marriage, this handsome actor has not "overturned" in the emotional world.
But don't worry, the story isn't over yet!
Let's see how our Yu Zhen found his own "koi code" in the love labyrinth.
What is it that makes him have the last laugh after all the ups and downs?
Yu Zhen's love roller coaster is not for fun, let's take a look at how he struggled in the defense of marriage.
On an ordinary night in 2017, Yu Zhen dragged his body heavier than a jack home.
Who knew that what awaited him was not the warm lights and fragrant food, but a living room so cold that he could hear mosquitoes flying.
, a male god who dominates the screen at the moment, is like a primary school student who has done something wrong, and cautiously asks his wife Xin Yue: "What's wrong with you?" "
It doesn't matter if you ask this question, it directly detonated an emotional bomb comparable to a "small-yield nuclear bomb"!
Without saying a word, Xin Yue turned on the "Tucao Mode 2.0": "I'm not in a good mood and don't want to cook!" Do you know how much I envy my classmates who shine on stage? "
"And I know firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day! My youth has been fed to the dogs! "
Hearing this, Yu Zhen felt bitter in his heart, more bitter than Coptis chinensis.
Isn't he working hard just to give his family a better life? How did you end up being a sinner?
But at this moment, he could only silently take out his mobile phone and order a takeout, hoping to soothe his wife's emotions with food.
As a result, there were peppercorns in this takeaway, and Xin Yue exploded directly, comparable to the possession of a "wolf warrior": "Did you do it on purpose?" You want to starve me! "
This can make Yu Zhen angry, he fell a paper cup on the ground, and the sound was so loud that it could scare the dog of the old Wang family next door to wake up: "Do you think you are the queen mother?" It's too hard to serve you! "
Seeing that this "fairy couple" is about to stage a full martial arts, it seems that the next second will start the drama of "you splash me with a basin of water, I will smash you with a vase".
At this critical moment, Yu Zhen's mother appeared in time and reprimanded her son: "Why are you still so frizzy?" I still want to live in peace for a few days! "
At this moment, Yu Zhen suddenly woke up, as if he had been poured a basin of ice water on his head.
He remembered how much Xin Yue had sacrificed for this family, and he couldn't help but start reflecting on himself.
And Xin Yue also realized that she had gone too far just now, after all, Yu Zhen didn't mean to make her angry.
In this way, this "family defense war", which almost caused a tragedy, finally ended with the joint reflection of the two.
Who says there are no wins and losses in marriage? In fact, those who know how to reflect are the real winners!
Both Yu Zhen and Xin Yue won this battle because they both learned to empathize.
But this is just a small episode in their married life, and more challenges await them.
Speaking of Yu Zhen's "emotional education", we have to rewind the time machine to 2009.
At that time, Yu Zhen could be described as a proud spring breeze, and his career was in full swing.
During the filming of the drama "The Line of Fire", he met Fang Baini, and the two were simply textbook-level "love at first sight".
You said that it was a coincidence that the speed at which these two people met each other was faster than lightning!
Quickly obtaining the certificate in three months is simply the leader of the "flash marriage" industry!
At that time, Yu Zhen was afraid that he thought that he had grabbed the little tail of love, and it was so beautiful that it was bubbling.
However, how can reality be as beautiful as a TV series? After marriage, Yu Zhen was as busy as a spinning top, and he didn't even see his wife's face a few times.
This is a bitter pain for the newlywed Fang Baini, who guards the empty home all day long, and there is no one to talk to.
She probably never dreamed that her married life would be such a "one-man show".
As you can imagine, this "whirlwind" marriage lasted only 7 months before it was declared bankrupt.
said that it was 7 months, but in fact, the time the two were really together is estimated to be less than 70 hours.
This experience was not a small blow to Zhen, it was like being poured ice water on his head, dousing all his illusions about love.
Yu Zhen once said with a wry smile: "In those days, I felt like a lonely traveler who had been banished. "
"I can only put all my energy into my work, hoping to forget that painful memory."
It is conceivable that Yu Zhen at that time was afraid that his heart was even more bitter than eating Coptis chinensis.
This experience taught Yu Zhen a lesson: marriage is not child's play, love is not filming, and there is no chance of NG.
He secretly vowed that if he had another chance, he would cherish it and stop being impulsive like a hairy boy.
This "flash marriage and divorce" can be said to be a slap in the face for Yu Zhen's concept of love.
But who would have thought that this was just the first dive of Yu Zhen's love roller coaster?
Fate, a mischievous ghost, always likes to joke with people.
Just when Yu Zhen thought that he might die alone and was about to fall in love with the script, the goddess of love knocked on the door again.
In 2011, at the rehearsal site of the drama "Camel Xiangzi", Yu Zhen met Xin Yue, who was 13 years younger than him.
This time, Yu Zhenke learned to be smart, and he didn't dare to be as reckless and impulsive as last time.
He carefully manages the relationship, for fear of overturning again.
Like a cautious archaeologist, digging into each other's minds little by little.
He even mustered up the courage to confess his "emotional black history" to Xin Yue.
It is estimated that Yu Zhen was so worried at that time, for fear that Xin Yue would turn around and run away after hearing this.
Unexpectedly, instead of being scared away, Xin Yue was moved by Yu Zhen's honesty.
This is like buying a lottery ticket and winning the jackpot, and Yu Zhen's heart is happy.
However, good things are happening, and this "sister and brother love" couple still encountered a lot of resistance.
Xin Yue's parents had a lot of complaints about Zhen's "criminal record", and probably muttered in their hearts: "Is this kid reliable?" "
But Yu Zhen proved himself with his actions.
His filial piety to his parents can be called a "model of filial piety".
Since he was a child, he saved money to buy pipes for his father, and he never slept to take care of his sick mother.
No matter how busy he is at work, he doesn't forget to report his safety to his parents, and he is simply a good son who is "online 24 hours a day".
This filial piety not only earned him the reputation of "Top Ten Filial Sons" in the entertainment industry, but also moved Xin Yue's parents.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law thought to themselves: "Although this young man is a bit 'ex-convict', he is filial!" Such a character is definitely not bad. "
In this way, Yu Zhen successfully passed the test and finally achieved a positive result.
In March 2012, Yu Zhen and Xin Yue tied the knot, which made the sisters in the circle envious.
This time, Yu Zhen vowed to cherish this hard-won happiness.
However, life after marriage is not a fairy tale.
The birth of a busy child at work has brought a lot of challenges to this "sister and brother" couple.
Yu Zhen is as busy as a spinning top, filming nearly 10 dramas a year, which is simply a rhythm of hanging.
And Xin Yue has gone from being an energetic young actor to a stay-at-home mom who is trapped by housework and parenting.
This transformation is even more exaggerated than Spider-Man's transformation.
With the birth of the second child, the pressure mounted.
Xin Yue often felt as if she was being pushed by life and lost herself.
Although Yu Zhen is thriving in his career, he feels farther and farther away from his family.
The marriage of this "fairy couple" seems to have begun to crack again.
Just when Yu Zhen and Xin Yue's marriage was on the verge of collapse, Yu Zhen suddenly remembered his original promise.
This man, who once had a bruised nose and swollen face on the road of affection, decided not to let history repeat itself.
He began to learn calligraphy, as if he wanted to write all his impetuousness into a single stroke.
I also learned to fish, probably because I wanted to clean my temper.
The former "workaholic" voluntarily reduced his workload and left more time for his family.
He began to take on household chores, from laundry and cooking to putting the children to bed.
used to be a tough guy on the screen, but in real life, he has become a "daddy".
Xin Yue saw the change in her husband, and the mess in her heart slowly straightened out.
She no longer blindly compares and begins to enjoy the bits and pieces of family life.
It turns out that being a stay-at-home mom can be cool, as long as you have the right mindset.
After this tempering, the relationship between Yu Zhen and Xin Yue not only did not break, but became stronger.
It's like steel that has been tempered a thousand times, and it's even more indestructible.
Now Yu Zhen has not only gained the love of the audience in works such as "Fighting the Sky Wolf" and "People's Soldiers".
In real life, I have gained sincere love and a happy family.
This "fairy couple" finally achieved a positive result and staged a realistic version of "Broken Mirror Reunion".
Yu Zhenchang said: "After experiencing failure, I know the importance of cherishing." "
"Now I am not only a better actor, but also a competent husband and father."
This can't help but make people sigh: it turns out that there are so many hardships hidden behind happiness!
But it is precisely these hardships that make their love more precious.
The story of Yu Zhen and Xin Yue tells us that marriage is not a fairy tale, but a reality that requires the joint efforts of two people.
Only by understanding and tolerating each other can we truly have a happy and fulfilling life.
The experience of this couple is simply a realistic version of the "marriage defense war".
From the initial stumbling to the final mutual affection, they used their actions to interpret what true love is.
Yu Zhen's roller coaster of love has finally stabilized, but I believe that this journey has just begun.
After all, life is like an endless marathon, which requires two people to walk hand in hand and run towards the end of happiness together.
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