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Nowadays, the Internet is becoming more and more developed, and education has not only extended to online classes, but also formed an "online connection" model. Nowadays, many schools have WeChat groups for parents, which really facilitates communication between teachers and parents. However, sometimes a small mistake can lead to unnecessary misunderstandings.
Xiaoting is a new kindergarten teacher. In order to reduce the pressure of work, she works part-time as a micro-business. Xiaoting is very cautious about blocking parents from her circle of friends, because she believes that parents only need to pay attention to the situation of their children, and the purpose of the parent group is also for home-school communication.
However, one day, when Xiaoting sent a courier number to a customer, she accidentally sent it to the parent group by mistake. By the time she reacted, the group had already exploded.
Xiaoting quickly apologized and explained that she had inadvertently made a mistake. However, many parents began to ask her what she was selling in the micro-business, and some even said they wanted to buy it.
There are also some parents who question whether Xiaoting deliberately sent the wrong message, so as to let everyone know her micro-business identity, and some people even discussed in private that she was "pretending".
The original child-centered parent group has become completely flavorless due to this accident, and has even become a chatting group for some parents. So, what is the real meaning of the existence of parent groups?
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What is the significance of the existence of parent groups?
Find out how your child is doing at school
From a parent's point of view, the biggest role of the parent group is to keep parents up to date on their child's performance and dynamics in school. In the past, parents who wanted to know about their children's situation often had to contact teachers by phone or attend parent-teacher conferences.
Now, through the parent group, parents can receive their children's school information every day, and know their children's learning progress and tasks, so that they can better cooperate with the school's educational work.
Find out what your child is doing at home
From the teacher's point of view, the parent group also provides a platform to understand how your child is doing at home. Many parents report their child's performance at home in the group, which helps teachers to teach them appropriately at school. The information provided by parents is an important reference for teachers to develop personalized education plans.
Communicate with parents and teachers
The parent group is not only a one-way information transfer, but also a two-way communication platform. Parents and teachers can communicate with their children in the group and discuss educational methods together. This interaction helps parents to respect the teacher more, and the teacher is able to understand the parent better, so that they can reach a common understanding on the issues of educating the child.
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The healthy development of children is the responsibility of parents and teachers
The roles of parents and teachers are indispensable in a child's development. They need to understand and respect each other and work together for the healthy development of their children.
Different family education influences children's growth
The way a family is educated has a direct impact on a child's character and future. An open family environment can raise cheerful children, while a traditional family may make children become decent. However, no matter what kind of education is used, it has a profound impact on a child's development.
The teacher's teaching and nurturing also affects the child
In school, teachers are one of the most influential characters in a child's development. The teacher's words, deeds, and values will imperceptibly affect the child. Teachers are not only imparters of knowledge, but also guides of education. The teacher's education style plays a crucial role in the child's development.
Parents and teachers should understand and respect each other
A child's growth is inseparable from the foundation of the family and the help of the school. Parents and teachers are two important roles that must respect and understand each other, and only in this way can we work together to promote the healthy growth of children. Parents should set an example of respecting their teachers, so that their children can also learn to respect their teachers.
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What should parents teach their children to respect their teachers?
Lead by example
As the saying goes, a child's behavior is a mirror of the parents. The words and deeds of parents in front of their children, children will involuntarily imitate. Therefore, in order for children to learn to respect their teachers, parents must first become role models of respect for teachers.
At home and in front of your children, you should show respect to the teacher and not slander the teacher at will. Otherwise, the child may think that since both parents do not respect the teacher, they do not have to respect themselves.
Educated from an early age
Teaching children to respect their teachers is a long-term process that needs to be cultivated from an early age. Don't miss out on any educational opportunities, such as teaching your child to say hello to their neighbors and help when they see their younger siblings. Only when children develop the habit of respecting others from an early age can they respect others more naturally when they grow up.
Learn from the strengths of others
To teach children to respect their teachers, they must first learn to discover their strengths and learn from them. The teacher is the embodiment of knowledge in the eyes of the child, and only when the child sees the good in the teacher, will he respect the teacher from the bottom of his heart.
A message from Guo's mother
Children's growth is inseparable from the joint efforts of parents and schools. Parents and teachers need to cooperate with each other to create a good environment for the healthy growth of children.
Educating children is a long process that requires the joint participation and efforts of parents and teachers, and the responsibility cannot be shifted to any party. It is only on the basis of mutual understanding and respect that children can thrive in love and care.
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About author:Guo Ma, a family education instructor, focuses on sharing parenting knowledge, parent-child education experience, marriage and family insights, welcome to pay attention.