Some time ago
Young people rectify the "People's Park Blind Date Corner"
aroused heated discussions among netizens
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Young people developed again
Belong to their own "People's Park Blind Date Corner"
Youth Daily · Youth Shanghai reporter found
Blind date live broadcast room
A gust of wind blew among the young people
Internet microphone, cyber emotional socialization
Young people gather in cyberspace
For them
Blind dates are no longer limited to the traditional model
The Internet also represents the possibility of fate
On Douyin, the topic of "dating and taking off singles" has 4.31 billion views
On Xiaohongshu, the topic of "blind date and friends" has reached 630 million views
What is the blind date live broadcast room like?
How is it different from the offline blind date model?
Why do young people fall in love with online blind date live broadcast rooms?
Let's take a look
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The popularity of the live broadcast room has risen, and young people are in love
Different from the public's impression of the traditional blind date dull and restrained, the blind date live broadcast room is interesting and fun, and because the blind date live broadcast room is online, it is not limited by time and space, and there is no need to fix the meeting place.
At 9 o'clock in the evening, the blind date blogger "Literature and Art is Very Positive" live broadcast room officially opened, hundreds of people watched the blind date scene, and the host announced the opening of the blind date. In the live broadcast room, a girl shyly turned on the camera and introduced herself on the microphone: "I'm here in Beijing, and now I work in a big factory, and I want to make friends......" After she introduced herself, the host repeatedly outlined her situation and requirements. This is the live broadcast process of the blind date live broadcast room: each guest needs to turn on the video, introduce themselves, and perform a talent show. Onlookers who want to get on the microphone will have to wait in line in the live broadcast room. If onlookers find a favorite guest, they can also "blow up the lights", send "I want to connect" and "I want to confess" in the live broadcast room, and communicate with the guests on the microphone.
The blogger "Literature and Art is very active" in the live broadcast, calling his blind date live broadcast room a "blind date talk show". The blind date bureau lasted for two to three hours, and the atmosphere was relaxed, with guests showing their talents, picking up guitars, playing and singing by themselves, and guests sharing their offline strange blind date experiences, which caused laughter in the live broadcast room. Love stories, music performances, etc., anything interesting can be staged in the blind date live broadcast room.
With the live broadcast room as an emotional connection, they fall in love and make friends
But it is also necessary to pay attention to "character over time"
In the blind date live broadcast room
Someone successfully found their significant other
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Fang Xun, who was born in the 90s, was a teacher, and at first, she just unintentionally brushed up on the blind date live broadcast room of "tired of going on a blind date", and clicked in to take a look, but she bumped into the "favorite object" in the microphone. "He is still studying for a doctorate in Japan, and he usually likes to hunt (with a gun license)." This sense of contrast attracted Fang Xun, who is also an extreme sports enthusiast herself, loves diving, and runs around the world. Moved by her heart, she took the initiative to attack: "I will go to the microphone to blend into their group and break into the interior." After getting to his WeChat account, she was pleasantly surprised to find that it was very chatty. After knowing for a while, she took advantage of the holiday to go abroad and came to the place where her favorite object was, the two met, confirmed their relationship, and ran to success.
Fang Xun and her boyfriend
Prior to this, Fang Xun had also gone on an offline blind date. She described that offline blind date is like "opening a blind box", it is difficult to open a good object that can be developed directly, she once met someone who asked about flash marriage at the first meeting, which scared her, after all, offline blind date is more about the right person, knowing the roots, and not paying attention to establishing a relationship foundation. In contrast, online blind dates gave her a platform that offered her greater possibilities. There are all kinds of people here, and through chatting, you can get to know each other's personalities and interests and build relationships. In addition, the blind date live broadcast room provides a platform for communication and chat anytime and anywhere: "It only needs to use fragmented time, and you can watch it at night while lying in bed." ”
Of course
The blind date live broadcast room is more than just love
There are also people who pass the blind date live broadcast room
Found like-minded friends
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97-year-old netizen sauce sauce has gained friendship. An accidental overtime made her click on the blind date live broadcast room when she was bored, but she couldn't get out when she went in. Jiang Jiang said that friends in life are generally from schools and companies, which leads to limited topics: "It involves the influence of some practical factors, some things can't be said, and the topics of conversation are limited to some real topics." "The young people in the live broadcast room come from all over the world, open their hearts, and talk about everything, which is completely different from the feeling of meeting friends offline.
There are people in the live broadcast room who are confused about their work, and everyone will patiently suggest and answer. Some people feel frustrated, and everyone encourages and comes up with ideas together. Hobbies also often become a topic of conversation, because there are often people singing and playing the piano, and under the influence of the musical atmosphere, many people's interest in musical instruments has increased sharply. A netizen celebrated his birthday, and Sauce Sauce sang Happy Birthday to him on the microphone with others. This friendship also extends to offline, sauce sauce and netizens will make an appointment to eat together, sing K, and sometimes pass by each other's cities on business trips, and everyone will also meet. "I think this kind of friendship is actually quite comfortable, and you will be very touched when you see everyone getting better and better." Sauce sauce said.
However, the live broadcast channel is not a panacea
It is also necessary to pay attention to "seeing character over time"
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Fang Xun and her boyfriend have been in love for two months now, and through the live broadcast room, Fang Xun feels that he has found his "soul mate". But Fang Xun also admitted frankly that not all people who fall in love through the blind date live broadcast room can do this, and the emotional condition of most people in the live broadcast room is not particularly stable. The live broadcast room is not a universal channel to ensure the success of love, how to go on after falling in love, online and offline blind dates face the same problems. Because it is the Internet, it is difficult for many people's private behavior to be detected, which also allows people with bad intentions to fish in troubled waters. It is not uncommon to set up different accounts and cast a wide net to chat with different people privately. How to identify this is also a problem faced by the blind date live broadcast room.
When squatting in the blind date live broadcast room, the reporter also carefully observed the rules of the live broadcast. The host in the live broadcast room stipulates that if someone wants to chat with other guests on the microphone, they must verify their identity and turn on the camera, otherwise they will not pass. Whenever someone wants to get involved, the moderator will emphasize the rules. Regarding private chats, the host will also remind in advance, saying that when you meet a heartwarming guest, you must learn to distinguish by yourself, because "you will see your character over time".
However, although there is a threshold for connecting the microphone in the blind date live broadcast room, there is no obvious threshold for the fan base in the blind date live broadcast room. Click on the homepage of a blind date blogger, and the fan group chat is divided into 21 according to the region, and each group chat is basically a scale of hundreds of people. The reporter tried to apply to join one of the groups in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and found that he could enter immediately. From time to time, some people report their height, work and other conditions, and try to find their other half in the group. There are also people who want to make friends, send out invitations for dinner and offline meetings, hoping to get together with those who are willing to get together offline and find a "partner". However, when you click on the homepage, many people do not disclose their specific personal information, or the homepage is blank. It is obviously necessary to have a heart and eye on strangers who do not know anything. "In fact, whether it is reliable or not has nothing to do with the channel. Or in person. "I don't think you need to treat the Internet too much, you are willing to try, just protect yourself, nothing else matters." ”
The blind date live broadcast room is a new trend, and you need to be cautious in chasing love
Why did it become popular in the live broadcast room of blind dates between young people? Lou Qiongli, vice president of the Shanghai Marriage Management Association and head of Meiyuan Marriage and Love, believes that the popularity of the blind date live broadcast room reflects the increasing diversification of young people's communication methods, and also opens up new channels for young people to make friends and fall in love in an economical and convenient way.
Lou Qiongli also pointed out the shortcomings of the blind date live broadcast room, such as strong network virtuality, weak platform data review process, and difficult to control authenticity, she said that if you want to truly understand individuals, going offline is an indispensable link, and in this regard, offline blind dates have significant advantages. Therefore, she also believes that the blind date live broadcast room is a new model of marriage and love, but it may not be able to replace offline blind dates.
Lou Qiongli suggested the partners
Marriage and love are major life events and need to be cautious
When I first met online
Don't over-invest in emotions
Further judgment and understanding of real individuals are required
"It's good to pursue love, but don't fall into the trap."
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Photo: Youth Daily · Youth Shanghai trainee reporter Lin Qianhui, the picture is provided by the interviewee, and some of the pictures come from the Internet
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