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Should the elderly tease their grandchildren? No kidding!
Sheng Hailin, who is in her seventies, doesn't think so.
More than ten years ago, this 60-year-old "novice mother" stunned everyone and gave birth to a pair of lovely twin daughters.
Now the little sisters are in junior high school, and they are very smart.
With a deposit of 7 million and a talented daughter, this grandmother's life looks beautiful.
But is it really as rosy as it seems?
Do you think Sheng Hailin's life is so smooth sailing?
That's really a too young, too simple Tucson break!
Let's rewind the clock more than a decade ago and see how this "old urchin" came down this crazy path.
In 2009, the Spring Festival should have been happy, but it brought a bolt from the blue to Sheng Hailin.
Her 29-year-old baby daughter Yingying and her son-in-law, who had just entered the palace of marriage, both passed away forever in an accident.
This bad news was like a heavy punch, which directly stunned Sheng Hailin.
Can you imagine? Yesterday I was still chatting on the phone about the menu of the reunion dinner, and today I will prepare a wreath for white things.
Sheng Hailin's world collapsed in an instant, as if her soul had been sucked away by life.
Every day, I can't sleep or eat for several days.
She even had the idea of committing suicide, thinking that there was no point in living.
But this stubborn old lady has a spirit in her bones that refuses to admit defeat.
She thought that since God had taken away her daughter, then she would have another one!
That's right, you heard it right, 60-year-old Sheng Hailin wants to be a mother again!
The idea was a fryer.
Relatives and friends thought she was crazy and persuaded her to take a good look at the calendar, what age is she still thinking about having children.
But Sheng Hailin was determined to do this, her stubborn temper came up, and no one could persuade her.
I searched for medical advice everywhere and traveled all over the country, and finally found a doctor in my hometown of Anhui who was willing to take risks.
The doctor was also a ruthless man, and even agreed to this seemingly impossible task.
On October 13, 2009, Sheng Hailin lay on the operating table and began her great cause of "making people".
The process of IVF surgery is not a joke, it is called a difficult one.
After three months of drug conditioning, various hormones hit Sheng Hailin's body like a roller coaster.
High blood pressure, edema, nausea and vomiting, these side effects took turns, and she was miserable.
But she just gritted her teeth and survived, as if there was an endless amount of energy in her body.
Finally, on May 25, 2010, a miracle happened!
60-year-old Sheng Hailin successfully gave birth to a pair of lovely twin daughters!
This pair of hard-won treasures, Sheng Hailin named them Zhizhi and Huihui.
The name not only expresses the memory of the deceased eldest daughter, but also hopes that they can be as smart and clever as their older sister.
Sheng Hailin's courage and perseverance are simply a realistic version of "I am not the god of medicine"!
It's just that she is not saving other people's lives, but reinventing her own life.
Sheng Hailin thought that giving birth to twins would be done? That's naïve!
It's easy to have a child, it's hard to raise a child, and this sentence is simply true for a 60-year-old "novice mother".
As soon as the twins were born, Sheng Hailin felt like she was on a roller coaster, and she couldn't stop at all.
Changing diapers, making milk powder, and coaxing children to sleep are all physical tasks for young mothers, not to mention Sheng Hailin, an old man with a sixtieth birthday.
Every day I was so busy that I was spinning like a spinning top, and I was so tired that my back hurt but I didn't dare to stop.
Sometimes woken up in the middle of the night by the crying of a child, Sheng Hailin got up faster than a 20-year-old boy.
But the biggest thing for Sheng Hailin is the problem of money.
The money for milk powder and diapers for the two children, plus all kinds of daily expenses, is simply a bottomless pit.
Pension alone? No kidding, that little money isn't enough to even stuff your teeth.
In desperation, this old man decided to re-emerge and started his own "worker" mode.
Sheng Hailin is running around giving lectures and teaching, which is even harder than 996.
All year round, sometimes I have to run more than 20 cities a month, and I even take the work of going abroad!
Where is this being a grandmother, is it simply being a salesperson?
Sometimes she was away from home for several days in a row, and when she came back, the children didn't recognize her.
Hard work is hard work, but the thought of creating a better life for her daughters gives Sheng Hailin endless motivation.
She always told herself: "It's good to get through these years, and when the children grow up, it's easy." "
But fate always seems to refuse to let her go, and always has to give her a "surprise".
In 2016, the bad news struck again, Sheng Haiqin's husband unfortunately suffered a stroke and was paralyzed in bed.
This is better, and the already not easy days are even worse.
Taking care of her paralyzed wife and raising two young daughters, Sheng Hailin's life is simply playing "extreme challenges".
I wake up at 5 a.m. every morning, turn my wife over, scrub it, and then prepare the children's breakfast.
After sending her children to school, she rushed to work non-stop.
When I go home at night, I have to help the children with their homework and take care of my wife.
I was often busy until late at night and had to wake up early the next day, day after day, year after year.
Sheng Hailin's life was sad, but she never complained in front of her children.
She always smiled and said, "Mom is fine, Mom is happy." "
But who knew that when no one was around, she often secretly wiped her tears.
In 2019, the disaster was not alone, and the youngest daughter suddenly fell seriously ill and issued critical illness notices several times.
Sheng Hailin almost broke down, and she began to question whether she had made the right decision in the first place.
"Am I being too selfish?" She often asked herself.
But as a mother, she can only grit her teeth and continue to persevere.
In the hospital, she guards her daughter day and night, while also taking care of her wife and another child at home.
During that time, Sheng Hailin was so thin that she was only skinny, but her eyes were still firm.
Time flies like a white horse, and in the blink of an eye, the twin daughters are 14 years old.
This pair of little sisters who broke Sheng Hailin's heart are now proper primary school bully.
The eldest daughter Zhizhi played the piano, which is called a flowing water.
The youngest daughter Huihui's hole flute is blown, which is comparable to that of a fairy.
Seeing the outstanding performance of her daughters, Sheng Hailin felt that beauty in her heart, and felt that all the efforts were worth it.
Every time she saw the children performing on stage, Sheng Hailin couldn't help but secretly wipe her tears.
There was relief in those tears, pride and more thoughts of the deceased daughter.
Sheng Hailin has not been idle over the years, and her bank account has been quietly changing.
Through unremitting efforts, she actually saved more than 7 million deposits, which is an astronomical amount in the eyes of many people.
She uses the money as an education fund for her daughters, intending to give them the best education possible in the future.
Sheng Hailin often said: "I have no culture in my life, but I want my daughters to stand on the shoulders of giants." "
But don't think that Sheng Hailin, who is in her seventies, has taken a back seat, then you are very wrong.
This "super granny" is still working, but she has switched from offline to online teaching.
You are not mistaken, the old lady in her seventies played the live broadcast, and this operation is simply 666.
At the beginning, Sheng Hailin couldn't even turn on the computer, and almost smashed the computer.
But she insisted on learning little by little, and now it's called a slip when it's broadcast live, and the fans are about to break 10,000.
In this way, she can not only earn money, but also take care of the family, which is simply killing two birds with one stone.
Whenever she sees the cheerful laughter of her daughters, Sheng Hailin will feel that all the hard work is worth it.
Sometimes the daughters will secretly beat their mother's back, not to mention how warm the scene is.
However, Sheng Hailin also had unspeakable worries in her heart.
She is in her seventies, and when her daughters grow up, will she still be there?
The thought often left her tossing and turning in the middle of the night and unable to sleep.
Her greatest wish is to see her daughters grow up and witness them fall in love, get married, and have children.
Sometimes Sheng Hailin would secretly write down her wishes in her diary.
"I hope to see Zhizhihui graduate from university", "I hope to participate in their wedding", "I hope to hug my grandson"......
Every time she finishes writing, she carefully hides the diary, for fear that her daughters will find out.
In order to fulfill these wishes, Sheng Hailin began to go crazy with her health.
Tai Chi and Baduan Jin, as long as she heard that it is good for the body, she has to learn it all over.
There are so many health products at home that they are about to catch up with the pharmacy, and even the daughters joke: "Mom, if you continue like this, our family will be bankrupt by you." "
But Sheng Hailin just smiled, thinking in her heart: "As long as I can live a few more years, it is worth it to accompany you more." "
Sheng Hailin's story is simply a realistic version of "Hello, Li Huanying".
Giving birth at the age of 60 and still struggling for children is enough to make people's jaws drop.
She interpreted the greatness of maternal love with her actions, and also gave a heavy blow to the concept of "what you should do when you are old".
But this story can't help but make people think deeply.
Is it really appropriate to have a baby at 60?
Not to mention whether the body can bear it, it is a problem whether the child will be there when he grows up.
Isn't that a bit too selfish to do that?
But on second thought, who can judge other people's choices?
Life is impermanent, Sheng Hailin's pain of losing her daughter is probably only experienced by those who have experienced it.
Her choice to be a mother again is not so much selfish as a desire and cherishing of life.
Isn't that the best side of human nature?
Besides, how can there be so many rules and regulations in life?
Who stipulates that at the age of 60, you should make fun of your grandchildren and enjoy your old age in peace?
Perhaps for Sheng Hailin, taking care of her children and struggling for life is her "enjoying her old age".
Her story tells us that there is no set script in life.
No matter how old you are, as long as you have a dream, you must be brave enough to pursue it.
Of course, we must also learn to cherish the present moment and cherish the people around us.
Because we can't control the length of life, but the width can be determined by ourselves.
Sheng Hailin wrote a love story spanning 60 years in her own way.
There is loss, rebirth, hardship and hope in this story.
She tells us with her actions: love is never too late.
And how do we write our own lives?
Is it to settle for the status quo or to be brave enough to pursue your dreams?
Do you go with the flow or live your own life?
I'm afraid everyone has their own answers to these questions.
But in any case, Sheng Hailin's story is worth pondering.
In her own way, she interpreted what it means to be "Lao Ji is in the bush, and he is determined to be thousands of miles".
Maybe we can still see Sheng Hailin, who is in her eighties, and she is pleased to see her twin daughters graduate from college.
What will her life be like then?
Let's wait and see this unfinished story.
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