The current married life is really embarrassing! Reading this story, I couldn't help but fall into deep thought. In recent years, people's views on love and marriage seem to have changed a lot.
Some people say that the age of 40 is a hurdle, and many people will suddenly feel anxious and lost when they reach this age. Pepe's story may be a microcosm of this midlife crisis. She originally had a happy family, married her lover at the age of 25, had children, and lived a plain but warm life. But at the age of 40, she suddenly felt that life was boring and began to yearn for a more exciting life.
Let's put ourselves in their shoes, if we live the same life every day, watching the colorful lives of others in the circle of friends, will there be ripples in our hearts? As people reach middle age, the increasing pressure of work and family, coupled with the influence of social media, it is easy to have a feeling of "I am missing something in my life".
Pepe may have been driven by this complex psychology to meet Li Zhe, who is 16 years younger than her, on the Internet. The two had a heated conversation before they met, and Pepe even felt that he had found a soulmate. The illusory and fresh feeling of online dating makes her seem to regain her youth and find the meaning of life.
However, how can feelings be so simple? It's too hasty to abandon a ten-year marriage after only 20 days of acquaintance. Pepe's behavior is embarrassing, but it also makes us have to reflect: in this fast-paced society, are we too easily confused by short-term stimuli and ignore long-term relationships?
Pepe's husband is particularly pitiful in this story. In order to marry Pepe, despite the opposition of his family, he worked hard to buy a house by himself and worked hard every day to support his family. Although life is not rich, it is also worry-free. is such an honest man, but in the end he ended up being abandoned. This makes people sigh, in today's society, is a person like him who pays silently less and less cherished?
What is even more distressing is the two children. The originally happy family was shattered by the impulse of the mother, how much impact this will have on the growth of the child! Studies have shown that parental divorce can have long-term negative effects on children's mental health. While Pepe pursues her ideal life, does she consider the feelings of her children?
To be honest, Pepe's behavior is indeed somewhat selfish. For the sake of a netizen who has known each other for less than a month, it is too irresponsible to abandon the husband and lovely children who have been together for ten years. She said that she would leave the house and leave her children and property to her husband, which may sound very courageous, but if you think about it, isn't this evading responsibility?
However, we cannot completely deny Pepe's courage to pursue his ideal life. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and the key is to pursue it in the right way. If Pepe feels that her current life is not satisfactory, she can communicate with her husband well, or learn new skills, find a job, and realize her self-worth. Instead of pinning your hopes on an immature online relationship.
The ending of this story is also a wake-up call for us. After the divorce, Pepe did not live the exquisite life she imagined, but fell into financial difficulties. This shows that fantasy life is often far from reality. Before making a big decision, we need to think calmly and weigh the pros and cons, rather than being swayed by the impulse of the moment.
From another point of view, this story also reflects some of the problems that exist in today's society. For example, many people's attitudes towards marriage have become more and more casual, and it seems that they can change it at any time if they feel that it is not suitable. In addition, social media gives people a sense of unreality, which makes it easy to have unrealistic expectations. These are all worth pondering.
What should we do in such a situation? I think there should be more communication between husband and wife. If Pepe had spoken out to her husband about her grievances earlier, she might not have come this far. Secondly, we must learn to cherish the people and things in front of us, and not be confused by the ethereal online world. Finally, when making big decisions, consider the feelings of others, especially the impact on your child.
Looking back on this story, we can't help but ask: what is the essence of love and marriage? Is it a vigorous passion, or a bland stay? The answer may vary from person to person, but I believe that true love should be about understanding each other and growing together. Marriage is not a fairy tale, but a life that requires two people to run together.
In this materialistic society, we should cherish those sincere feelings. Don't be fooled by the superficial brilliance, and ignore the people around you who are silently giving. At the same time, we must also learn to reconcile with ourselves, not always compare ourselves with others, but to find our own happiness.
In the end, I want to say that no matter how ordinary life is, as long as you work hard, you can always find your own beauty. Instead of envying other people's lives, it is better to cherish what you have. After all, happiness is not elsewhere, it is in your heart.