Yu Guangzhong said:
"It is said that life is impermanent, but it is also the permanence of life."
To live, people need not only wealth, but also so-called economic resources.
At the same time, there is a greater need for spiritual satisfaction and the need for dignity.
At the end of the day, if you want to live this life well, you have to be satisfied with many things.
Therefore, in the face of the impermanence of life, a person with a normal state of mind can make himself stable output.
Only by allowing yourself to achieve stable output, in a sense, can you get a stable harvest.
Finally, in an unhurried, calm and calm state, maintain a good state of life.
As the writer Jiang Xun said:
"The most beautiful life is not a life that is constantly accelerating, but a life in which speed is balanced between acceleration and slowness.
When we find the balance between fast and slow, we will probably explore the rhythm of our own life. ”
In this way, in the face of frequent life changes, or accidental impermanence of life, our mentality is sound, rhythmic, and balanced.
Then, in the process of combining fast and slow, find out your own rhythm of life and pace of life, and you can naturally live this life.
Slow down and relax
Today's life is too fast-paced for ordinary people to adapt to.
In fact, the reason why many people feel that they can adapt is nothing more than giving themselves chicken blood.
Of course, they themselves don't think there's anything wrong with it, because they are still young, they still have aspirations, and they still have expectations.
But in fact, when a person has been in society for a long time, it is really hurt to be sophisticated and so-called worldly.
Then you will slowly feel that instead of being tired, it is better to slow down and relax your mind.
Don't make yourself rush for quick success and quick profit because of the gains and losses in life and the success or failure of your career.
Instead, you should be more sober to stop losses in time, and at the very least, you have to consider whether your body can withstand it.
Too many people, busy with work during the day, and tossing and turning at night, watching short videos, playing games, thinking that this is a way to vent.
However, the more I looked at these things, the longer I fought, and the more my body collapsed.
John · Lennon once said:
"When we are struggling with life, life has left us."
Life is like this, choice is more important than hard work, and direction is more important than persistence.
If you have too many bad habits, then when you realize the pressure, no matter how hard you try, it will not be enough to pay 1/10,000 of the cost of the mistakes you have made before.
That is, if you don't know what to work for, and you don't know what to pay for.
Then all your current actions can only be regarded as walking dead at best.
One can only slow down and observe, experience, and think.
In this way, you can slowly find your own direction and be more sure of your own approach.
Finally, know what you are working for and fighting, so even if you encounter some challenges and difficulties, your mentality is invincible and free and easy.
Bi Shumin wrote in "Loose as Cigarette Ash":
"Be loose like soot. Only by relaxing will the full potential energy be released and you will be able to achieve perfection. ”
Slow down, let your mind become relaxed, and let your state become calm.
In this way, in a seemingly loose but actually very calm state, they can release their own energy and ultimately create greater value.
Be calm and calm your mind
A good state of mind, a normal state of mind, must be soft and calm at heart.
People with a calm mind will stabilize themselves in the face of many changes in life and no matter how great the impermanence.
In other words, a truly powerful person is not born powerful, and a truly successful person is not born successful.
There are prerequisites for becoming powerful and successful.
One of the most important points is mentality.
When a person cultivates his mentality to become more and more mature and more stable.
Then, no matter what you encounter at the moment, you will face it with a pampered and unfazed mentality, and deal with it calmly.
In this way, you can calm down and calm down, and you can really do it as the writer Sanmao said:
"People and things in the world come and go at their own time. We just need to cultivate ourselves to be the best we can be, and then wait quietly. ”
In life, no matter if you encounter good or bad things, you must have such a mentality, that is, whether it is good or bad, it is conducive to your own growth.
Too many people are too concerned about gains and losses, too much about success or failure, so they lose and fail, and their mentality collapses.
Then, I will always be emotionalized in all kinds of ways, causing my mentality to become more and more unstable and unable to calm down.
In the end, I sank myself and fell into it, and I didn't even know what to do with the rest of my life and how I would live my life in the future.
In fact, there are always some changes in life, and there are always some impermanences that you can't change, and even things that make you feel heartbroken.
But no matter what, you have to hold on, at least you can't fall.
Because once your mentality falls, your life falls, and your life falls.
Choose to calm down, peel off the cocoon, find the essence of the problem, and find the direction of life.
Only by relying on yourself and defeating yourself will you have new hope and new possibilities in your life.
Stabilize and soothe your mind
Life is only a few decades, don't let yourself be trapped, burdened, and sinful for the rest of your life because of your fragility and incompetence.
Life is your own, time is your own, you must plan well and grasp it well.
As the old saying goes, the flow of water is not the first, the competition is endless.
This is telling us that being a man and doing things is not about being anxious, nor about being fast, but about being stable.
Only by keeping yourself steady can you really learn, gain experience, and even have wisdom.
Many things, the more urgent you are, the worse the result.
As Shakespeare said:
"When we chase something, we must not run too fast and run too fast, and if we run too far, we will not get it."
Therefore, let yourself awaken as soon as possible, and you must be reliable and down-to-earth enough.
In this way, we can rely on real efforts and efforts, while working hard, while making progress.
Moreover, as you become more experienced, you will be more relaxed, more confident, and even more likely to succeed in whatever you do next.
Because you have already mastered your own unique rhythm and pace of doing things, and you have really improved your personal cognition and strength, so as to truly improve the probability of achieving great things.
In this way, your mentality will become more and more stable, more and more normal, and naturally in the face of impermanence in life, you will walk more calmly, more determined, more confident, and more independent.