When their children reach the age of kindergarten, many parents are hesitant whether it is better to let their children go to private kindergartens or public kindergartens.
Because although private kindergartens and public kindergartens are both kindergartens, they are not the same, and there are differences in many places.
Should my child go to a private or public kindergarten?
The parents hesitated and almost missed the big thing
In the early days, parents were most concerned about the "survival" of their children, after all, in the previous famine years, it was not easy to be able to eat and clothe and ensure that their children lived healthy and healthy.
With the development of the times, people's living conditions have been greatly improved, and what people pursue is no longer "living", but "living", which is a quality life.
Subsequently, parents' concepts in raising children have been sublimated, and they have gradually become very concerned about children's education.
For example, Xiao Mang has paid great attention to children's education since he was a child, and when the child goes to kindergarten, Xiao Mang has made difficulties.
Because there are now public kindergartens and private kindergartens, Xiaomang doesn't know whether it is better for children to go to public kindergartens or private kindergartens.
"The public is good", for the hesitant Xiaomang, the child's grandfather put forward his own opinion.
And when Xiaomang asked the child's grandfather why public kindergartens were good, the grandfather gave the most "heavyweight" reason: "Because public kindergartens are run by the state, the state-run ones must be good." ”
I have to say that grandpa's feelings for the motherland are very deep, but such reasons make Xiaomang somewhat "uneasy", because grandpa did not give some reasons in the field of education.
"Private is good", the child's father said, because the child's father thinks that some of the better kindergartens are private, such as bilingual kindergartens and so on.
Moreover, Bao Dad also heard that private kindergartens are also known as "aristocratic kindergartens", and their teaching quality and services must be good, otherwise how could they be called so?
"The public ones are good", the child's grandmother said, "The public kindergarten fees are cheap, and the private kindergarten fees are too tricky, and they are simply cheating money." "Grandma is a real person.
"Private is good", the child's aunt said, because the child's aunt thinks that most of the children of those rich people go to private kindergartens, so private kindergartens must be better than public ones, otherwise why would rich people let their children go to school.
Everyone's different opinions and reasons made Xiaomang really a little overwhelmed, and he didn't know what kindergarten to let his child go to.
And when Xiao Mang was hesitating, he happened to meet his neighbor Xiao Zhu, Xiao Zhu's child was the same age as Xiao Mang's child, so Xiao Mang immediately asked Xiao Zhu whether the child went to a public kindergarten or a private kindergarten.
"Do you still need to think about it? Naturally, it's a public kindergarten", after saying this, Xiaozhu seemed to think of something, and continued: "You haven't registered your child yet, right?" It's going to be a lottery soon, and if you don't go, you won't have a chance. ”
"Lottery?" Xiao Mang was a little confused.
"The current public kindergarten is too popular, everyone is sending children to the public kindergarten, but there are only so many places in the kindergarten, and they can only be screened by lottery, don't say it, hurry up and sign up, it's too late and even the lottery is not qualified." Xiaozhu said eagerly.
Public kindergartens don't teach anything, why do so many people have to go to school?
These five "hardcore" advantages cannot be compared with private kindergartens, but many people still don't know
In the face of Xiaozhu's urging, Xiaomang still seemed puzzled, "Isn't the public kindergarten teaching nothing?" Why are there so many people who want to break their heads? ”
Seeing that Xiaomang was still hesitating at this juncture, Xiaozhu gave Xiaomang several advantages of public kindergartens:
(1) The fee is low, and it is not easy to cause financial pressure on the family
The reason why private kindergartens are called "aristocratic kindergartens" is not because the quality of private kindergartens is higher, but because the fees are very high, so they are nicknamed "aristocratic kindergartens".
There are many factors that lead to the high fees of private kindergartens, such as private kindergartens are mainly for profit, and the main source of income for private kindergartens is tuition fees, so high tuition fees must be charged to maintain the development of kindergartens.
However, public kindergartens are different, the economic resources of public kindergartens are diverse, the most important thing is that public kindergartens have financial support from the state, so their dependence on tuition fees is not so high.
In addition, as an important part of the education system, public kindergartens can only afford high-quality early childhood education by low fees, which is also one of the contents of national education.
Therefore, the fees of public kindergartens tend to be much lower than those of private kindergartens, which basically does not cause financial pressure on any ordinary family, and parents do not need to worry about not being able to pay tuition fees.
(2) Food hygiene, nutrition, health, satiety, and safety
After the child goes to kindergarten, it is usually daycare, that is, he is sent to the child in the morning and taken home in the evening. And during this day, the child needs to eat in the kindergarten.
Therefore, the safety, nutritional matching, taste, hygiene, and portion of kindergarten meals are the most concerned issues for parents.
Public kindergartens have a strict system, so in terms of diet are very good, hygiene, nutrition, health, portions and food safety, etc., can be better guaranteed, children can not only eat well, but also be able to eat enough, eat at ease, eat at ease.
Private kindergartens are relatively more "open", which may allow children in private kindergartens to eat a more "rare" diet, but at the same time, there may be some food safety problems.
In contrast, the eating conditions of public kindergartens are more reassuring.
(3) The quality of the teachers is relatively high and the professional skills are proficient
Teachers in public kindergartens are strictly screened and only need to be certified to work.
Therefore, teachers are generally excellent in terms of professional skills, and they are also relatively good in terms of professionalism.
When a child has a responsible and professional teacher, he will naturally be able to start a better kindergarten life.
However, this is not the case for teachers in private kindergartens.
The quality of personnel in private kindergartens is more complex, and some teachers may be senior preschool teachers hired by kindergartens for a lot of money.
At the same time, there may be some teachers who do not have any certificates at all, "miscellaneous people", "social people", so the quality of teachers in private kindergartens can not be 100% guaranteed.
(4) The park has complete facilities and perfect sites
Because public kindergartens are official, there are certain requirements for the construction of sites and equipment, and they must meet certain standards.
Therefore, public kindergartens generally have a more ideal geographical location, and the facilities in the kindergarten are complete, and there will be no embarrassing situations such as "insufficient space" and "incomplete equipment".
However, the venue and equipment of private kindergartens depend on the strength of the kindergarten.
For example, some "poor" private kindergartens are likely to have very small venues and do not even have some basic activity equipment.
Of course, there may also be some "local tyrant" private kindergartens with huge venues and a variety of equipment and facilities.
To put it simply, public kindergartens are very stable, and private kindergartens are uneven.
(5) Strictly implement the national kindergarten syllabus, and the educational content is in line with the growth characteristics of preschool children
One of the most important features of public kindergartens is that they strictly abide by the national kindergarten education syllabus, aiming to cultivate children's development in an all-round way, and will not teach children too much cultural knowledge.
However, private kindergartens are different, most of the private kindergartens will use "teaching cultural lessons" as a gimmick to attract students, and many parents are also very comfortable with this, thinking that children can learn some cultural knowledge in advance, and they can win at the starting line.
But in essence, the teaching content and teaching philosophy of public kindergartens are more correct, after all, this is the result of many years of research by the national professional department, for the comprehensive ability of children, and to ensure the healthy development of children, is what kindergartens should do.
If the kindergarten does not teach knowledge, what should I do if the child can't keep up with it in the future?
Don't be stupid, the dangers of "learning ahead of time" will gradually become apparent in primary school
Many parents are worried that their children go to public kindergartens and do not learn knowledge, will they fall behind those who go to private kindergartens after going to school?
In fact, this situation does not normally happen, but those children who learn cultural classes in advance may fall behind for the following reasons:
1) Advanced learning will affect the formation of children's good learning habits
After children learn too much cultural knowledge in the preschool stage, they will find that they can learn the knowledge taught by the teacher when they go to primary school, so it is very easy to not listen to the lecture during class.
Over time, this bad habit will be formed, and when the teacher teaches the child what he has not learned, the child will maintain bad study habits, thus delaying his studies.
2) Advance learning can make children overly "confident"
Learning cultural knowledge in advance will make children blindly arrogant in primary school, feel that they are a "genius", and the knowledge taught by the teacher will be seen by themselves, so that they will not have a correct self-understanding, and they will become vain.
This situation may lead to children not taking their studies seriously, and even when they find that they can't keep up with their studies, what they think about is not how to study hard, but how to hide the fact that their grades are poor.
3) Advance learning will bring greater negative emotions to children
Preschool children are not suitable for learning cultural knowledge, which is determined by the characteristics of the child's physiological development.
If you forcibly instill cultural knowledge in children at this stage, it is very likely to cause greater pressure on children, so that children will have negative emotions about learning, which is very detrimental to cultural learning in the future.
epilogue
Should children go to private or public kindergartens? In fact, in the eyes of most people, the state will definitely not cheat people, so public kindergartens are the safest choice for ordinary families.
Of course, if there is a suitable private kindergarten, and the environment and facilities, teachers, reputation and evaluation, close to home, and the cost is within the family's affordability, then this is also a good choice.
Whether it is a private kindergarten or a public kindergarten, you should consider it comprehensively according to your actual situation and needs, so as to choose the most suitable kindergarten for your child.
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