Singer Bai Xue: Divorced at the age of 38, raising a child alone, and her career is stagnant, but she married her husband who is 8 years younger at the age of 44, what is her charm?
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2024-08-06 22:45Published in Beijing
In the 90s of the last century, the well-known singer Bai Xue appeared on the Spring Festival Gala 7 times and was known as "Little Mao Amin".
The popular songs "The Man Who Lost for a Long Time" and "The Swan Song of the Ages" are all her works.
Just when Bai Xue's career was in full swing, she married her wealthy husband, but divorced shortly after the birth of her son.
Bai Xue, who is middle-aged, raises a son alone, and his career has come to a standstill, and it seems inevitable that he will disappear.
But she never thought that her career would become popular again, and she married her current husband who was 8 years younger, which can be described as a double harvest in love and career.
What happened to Bai Xue, who was in his 40s, to have such a peak and turn?
Successful transformation, all the way.
In 2019, Bai Xue's songs changed from the old style to become stylish, passionate, and slightly rock.
Her songs "Burning", "New Eternal Swan Song" and "Pear Blossom White" were deeply loved by the audience as soon as they were launched.
Many people attribute Bai Xue's successful transformation to her current husband, the famous composer Yuan Yi.
But in an interview, Yuan Yi said that all this stems from Bai Xue's unremitting efforts.
Bai Xue left home at the age of 12 and went to other places to study Yue Opera.
She once recalled that it was very painful during that time, she got up at 6 o'clock every day to practice, and she had no food to eat if she couldn't practice well, she often practiced during the day, and hid in the bed at night and cried secretly.
Bai Xue was able to persist in this kind of life for two years, relying on her father's encouragement to "hold on a little longer".
Bai Xue's father is a literary soldier in the military region, and the perseverance of a soldier makes him always ask Bai Xue not to give up lightly.
With hard practice and solid singing skills, Bai Xue was soon promoted to a junior student.
She thought that the future was promising, but because of her rapid height, the whole group couldn't find a boy to play.
No matter how good Ren Baixue is in singing, she can only play tricks in the group.
Looking at the classmates blooming wantonly on the stage, Bai Xue was both envious and depressed.
Bai Xue, whose talent is useless, often goes to sing karaoke to dispel his discouragement.
Maybe the heavens are really pitiful for her, and the balance of "luck" tilts in her favor.
Bai Xue casually participated in a karaoke competition in Wenzhou City and won the first place.
Tenacious people are like that, as long as you give her the slightest chance, she will desperately grab it and not let go.
After this experience, Bai Xue came up with the idea of singing pop songs, as long as she can sing, she doesn't care whether it is Yue Opera or popular.
Bai Xue has sent countless cover letters to many art troupes in Zhejiang Province.
The letters that sank into the sea seemed to have no effect on Bai Xue, she just stubbornly insisted on writing and sending.
In 1991, the Art Troupe of Zhejiang Military Region recruited popular singers, and Bai Xue got what she wanted and successfully entered the Art Troupe.
At that time, Bai Xue was only 15 years old, and she was supposed to be a cardamom girl who grew up under the wings of her parents, but she knocked on the door of popular songs with this determination.
After years of hard work, it seems that it is the harvest season, and Bai Xue's life is like a hanging, all the way forward.
Soon after joining the group, Bai Xue won the first place in the audition of the "Stegosaurus Cup" singer competition in Zhejiang Province.
Subsequently, she was favored by the Second Artillery, the Maritime Administration, and the General Political Department at the same time, and finally she chose the General Political Department.
Not long after entering the General Political Song and Dance Troupe, Bai Xue won the first prize in the National Young Singer Competition.
On the night of the awards, she was signed by the organizer Tianxing Music Company, and then released an album, performed abroad, and went to the Spring Festival Gala......
Bai Xue quickly became popular all over the country, and was once known as "Little Mao Amin", and his fame was close to Mao Amin himself at that time.
All things backfire may be a surprise foreshadowing, and all perseverance will eventually be rewarded by the years.
At this moment, his father's resolute character gradually melted into Bai Xue's body, waiting to sprout.
Marriage frustration and career downturn, but encountering "sister and brother love"
"Lady Luck" pays attention to Bai Xue's career, but seems to have forgotten her feelings.
Bai Xue, whose career is thriving, did not meet her rich husband until she was 28 years old, but it ended in divorce within a few years.
In 2003, at a banquet, the rich husband fell in love with Bai Xue at first sight, and then launched a fierce pursuit of Bai Xue, asking her to dinner, buying her various gifts, and caring for her meticulously.
Bai Xue, who has been single for 28 years, soon fell, and the two entered the marriage hall in the same year.
The next year, their son An An was born, which should have been a sweet thing, but it became the fuse for the breakdown of Bai Xue's marriage.
It turned out that soon after marriage, Bai Xue's husband wanted her to return to the family, but Bai Xue categorically refused.
And the arrival of her son and Bai Xue's poor care caused her husband to be extremely dissatisfied with her.
For a while, the contradictions between the two intensified, and they refused to give in to each other, which eventually led to the collapse of their marriage.
Since then, Bai Xue has started a life of working and taking care of the baby.
Where she is, An An will be taken, what time she gets up, what time An An has to get up.
In a year, An An slept in the car for most of the year, and the scene of the performance.
Bai Xue looked at her son who was running around with her, feeling extremely guilty, but the only thing she could do was to minimize work, reduce socializing, and spend more time with her son.
The music scene is a stage of big waves, and with the continuous influx of newcomers, singers in the 90s gradually faded out of the screen.
Bai Xue could not escape the fate of being swallowed by the tide, and her career also entered a state of stagnation.
His father's belief in "not giving up" seems to have taken root in Bai Xue's body and grown into a towering tree.
With her back against the tree, although Bai Xue is middle-aged, she did not admit defeat.
Bai Xue began to sort out what she had learned, and it seemed that the Yue Opera, which had been enlightened since childhood, never came in handy.
She tried to perform opera in some variety shows, but it was limited to Xiuxiu and did not make much breakthrough.
It wasn't until 2015 that Bai Xue met her second husband Yuan Yi, who was 8 years younger, and she touched the door to crack.
Bai Xue and Yuan Yi met in the program "National Color and Tianxiang", and the first time the two met began with a "quarrel".
At that time, Bai Xue wanted to record the adapted "Swan Song of the Ages" in advance, but Yuan Yi, as the music director, was resolutely opposed.
No matter how Bai Xue negotiated, Yuan Yi was unmoved.
Bai Xue, who was angry, quarreled with Yuan Yi regardless of his image, and accused him of "not understanding music at all".
After the show was recorded, Bai Xue unexpectedly learned that Yuan Yi hadn't slept for several days and nights for the show.
His persistence and seriousness made Bai Xue feel admired, and at the same time, she also deeply regretted that she almost increased the workload of others because of her own selfishness.
The next day, Bai Xue took the initiative to apologize to Yuan Yi, and Yuan Yi generously accepted.
As the saying goes, if you don't fight, you don't know each other.
After this time, the two became good friends, and Bai Xue also held a concert with the help of Yuan Yi and changed the style of singing.
In 2019, Bai Xue's rock-style "Burn" topped the charts of major platforms as soon as it was launched.
Subsequently, the duo's combination "Oriental Mythology" debuted, and at the same time, Bai Xue and Yuan Yi officially announced their relationship.
The singers of the same period have disappeared, but Bai Xue has returned to the top with unremitting persistence, and has also gained "sister and brother love".
Fight for a career like a tiger, but life is calm and elegant
Don't look at Bai Xue like a desperate Saburo in her career, but she is peaceful and gentle in life.
In her words, she is like a father in her career, but she is like a mother in life.
Bai Xue's mother is a typical Jiangnan woman, gentle and soft, and Wu Nong softly.
When she was a child, Bai Xue was very naughty, often using pillows as sleeves and sheets as cloaks, running around the house, and the house was always messed up by her.
Mother cleaned up silently every time, never yelling at her or scolding her loudly.
In a show, Bai Xue said that her father always asked her to continue to insist, but her mother made her calm and tolerant.
Until now, Bai Xue often receives advice from her mother: "Be plain when you encounter things, be tolerant of others, money is endless, and your body is the most important." ”
Although Bai Xue's first marriage broke up unhappily, she and her ex-husband got along very well, and sometimes the two would eat and chat together.
Bai Xue's way of educating her son also comes from her mother's peace and joy for her own hopes.
Guo Degang once asked Bai Xue: "It's hard to take care of children alone, right?" ”
Bai Xue replied with a smile: "It's okay." ”
Her expectations for her son are not as high as those of other parents, she just wants him to be happy.
An An also understands his mother's generosity to him, and he loves his mother very much.
He knew that Bai Xue liked sapphires, so he made a wish, and when he grew up, he wanted to give his mother a house made of sapphires.
Once, An An even shouted in an astonishing voice: "When I grow up, I want to marry my mother." ”
Wang Fang once said that she was particularly envious of Bai Xue's good attitude towards her son's education.
Wang Fang said that every time the two contacted, she was staring at the child with her homework, but Bai Xue persuaded her not to be so tired, it was better to go out for a cup of coffee if it was okay.
Although Bai Xue did not give An An a complete home, she soothed her son's heart with her gentleness and tolerance.
Since childhood, under the influence of her mother, Bai Xue's gentleness is engraved in her bones.
Once in the show, the host was curious about Bai Xue, who is always soft-spoken, what is it like to get angry?
Bai Xue broke the news to herself, and when she and her husband were angry, the most she would say: "I'm angry now" and then left.
And her husband always joked to her: "Can you make me feel that you are angry." ”
In addition to this, Bai Xue also pays special attention to maintaining a light and elegant state of mind.
Singing, she says, can be easily irritating and getting lost in the compliments and spotlight.
So after getting off the stage, she likes to sit quietly at home to read books, play the guqin, and let herself in a light environment in life.
Some time ago, Bai Xue fell in love with painting again, and also held an exhibition of "Girlfriends Are Poison" with her friends.
It can be seen from the photo of her and her best friend that she has a quiet smile on her face, elegant and beautiful.
Write at the end
Bai Xue's career and love have had twists and turns.
But with her stubbornness not to give up, she just broke out of her own willows.
Today, Bai Xue is not only thriving in her career, but also met the second spring after the divorce, and harvested a sweet "sister and brother love"
It can be seen that adversity cannot destroy the firmness of the heart, and time cannot steal the enthusiasm for life.
I hope that the rest of the snow will only be like this for years, day by day.
May everyone who is on the road of chasing their dreams persevere, and keep the clouds open and see the moon as soon as possible.
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