When you mention Wang Yuyan, who do you think of?
I think there should be Li Ruotong among those figures.
Wang Yuyan played by her is beautiful, vulgar, gentle and intelligent, which is unforgettable.
This role has also become one of Li Ruotong's classic screen images.
However, Li Ruotong himself did not like this role.
She once said: "Wang Yuyan has no outstanding character, she is always stupid, there is only one cousin in her eyes who doesn't care about her at all, even if the other party is ruthless, she is willing to stay by his side." ”
Li Ruotong didn't approve of Wang Yuyan's "stupidity" in love, but unfortunately, she embarked on Wang Yuyan's old path.
When her career was in full swing, she retired for love, but after 10 years of wholehearted dedication, she only got a sentence of "inappropriate".
Fortunately, in the end, like Wang Yuyan, she saw through everything soberly.
Leaving behind the past, we ushered in a new life.
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Li Ruotong has been outstanding in appearance since he was a child.
The facial features are three-dimensional and deep, very similar to a mixed-race child, and they are beautiful without powder.
With such beauty, he could have run for Miss Hong Kong, stepped into the entertainment industry, and gained fame and fortune.
But when he was young, Li Ruotong didn't have much pursuit of being famous, and just wanted to be an ordinary flight attendant.
But the magic of fate lies in the fact that some roads are destined to go, and even if you go around and around, you will still return to where you need to go.
In 1990, 24-year-old Li Ruotong got the opportunity to star in a movie by chance, cooperated with Ren Dahua and Wang Zuxian, and participated in the movie "Romantic Killer Free Man", thus officially entering the entertainment industry.
Subsequently, Li Ruotong was favored by director Tsui Hark, and cooperated with Liming, Jacky Cheung, and Li Jiaxin to shoot "Demon Beast City".
After emerging in the entertainment industry, Li Ruotong did not immediately take filming as his main business, but still worked as a flight attendant, filming part-time in his spare time.
Until one time she fell ill and went to the airline to ask for leave, but the person in charge asked her to increase the dosage and continue to work.
The company's indifference and pressure made Li Ruotong feel cold, and she handed in her resignation letter when she was seriously ill.
Since then, Li Ruotong has completely devoted himself to the entertainment industry.
After that, she successively filmed films such as "Burning Red Lotus Temple", "Flying Tiger Ambition", "An Ordinary Sunday", "Spark of Youth" and so on.
She began to understand what acting is all about, and gradually found the joy of acting and accumulated experience.
In 1995, Li Ruotong met the most important role in his acting career - Little Dragon Girl.
She is dressed in white, cold and arrogant, like a fairy descending to earth, which is amazing.
Holding a lady's sword in her hand, she punishes evil and promotes good, and is beautiful in the world.
Li Ruotong vividly interpreted the coldness, alienation and transparency of Xiaolongnu, which amazed the time of several generations.
Jin Yong, the author of the original work, couldn't help but praise: "This is the little dragon girl in my mind." ”
Since then, Li Ruotong has become a national goddess and is known as the "most beautiful little dragon girl" in all dynasties.
Fame soared, and invitations poured in.
Two years later, Li Ruotong created a second classic role - Wang Yuyan.
Wang Yuyan has a beautiful appearance and a dusty temperament, and she is obsessed with her cousin Murong Fu, and she is familiar with the secrets of martial arts of various schools for him, but it is a pity that she is infatuated with the wrong money, leaving a sad heart.
Fortunately, she met Duan Yu and saw Murong Fu clearly, and finally let go in a chic manner and found her love.
After the broadcast of the drama, Li Ruotong gained a lot of attention, and his career ushered in a peak.
But at the peak, she had the mind to stop shadowing.
Because, she is in love.
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In 1998, Li Ruotong met Guo Yingquan, a wealthy businessman.
Although Guo Yingquan is rumored to be a rich man, he has long been in debt.
Before they met, Guo Yingquan's company was already experiencing financial difficulties, and soon after they fell in love, the company was liquidated.
But at that time, Li Ruotong was immersed in love, and he was reluctant to break up at all.
He is even willing to lower his posture to cater to the needs of the other party.
Give up work for him; Be on call for him; disconnected from friends for him; For him not to have children.
Even when he failed to start a business and owed a huge amount of debt, he came back to help him pay off his debts, regardless of the peaks and troughs.
As long as he doesn't like it, she doesn't do it; As long as he wants her to do it, she will do it.
She is like a 24-hour model girlfriend, obedient, well-behaved and obedient.
However, even though she is so affectionate, her boyfriend still does not want to get married.
What she didn't expect was that she treated each other with all her heart for ten years, only in exchange for a sentence of "inappropriate".
In 2008, Guo Yingquan proposed to break up.
Li Ruotong was grief-stricken and couldn't get out of the pain for a long time.
Unexpectedly, the house leak happened to rain overnight, and not long after they broke up, her father was found to have had a stroke again.
The blows that followed made Li Ruotong physically and mentally exhausted.
She could only cheer up, waiting at her father's bedside day and night, and taking care of his diet and daily life.
But no matter how much she prayed, it didn't stop death from taking her loved ones.
Under the double blow of love and family affection, Li Ruotong's body began to have problems.
She was sick and depressed.
During that time, she couldn't control her emotions, almost broke down, and even had suicidal thoughts.
She is still young, but she is so old, as if the road of life has come to an end.
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Fortunately, there is no endless road, and the appearance of a child has made Li Ruotong hope for life.
Her sister gave birth to a daughter, but because she was busy with work, she left the child in her care.
In order to take care of her niece, Li Ruotong learned to breastfeed, change diapers, and also studied child psychology.
In the process of accompanying the child's growth, Li Ruotong felt the power of life and learned to let go and let go.
At the same time, she actively treats and insists on exercising.
Running, climbing, cycling, planking, muscle building......
The dripping sweat relieved the pain in Li Ruotong's heart.
With her continuous efforts, her condition was gradually brought under control and stabilized.
Perhaps, when you are determined to change, the world will open its arms to you.
Not long after, Li Ruotong met Chow Yun-fat by chance when he was on a plane, and at his suggestion, decided to return to work.
In 2013, she was invited by Zeng Zhiwei to star in "Women's Club" and officially made a comeback.
Since then, Li Ruotong has slowly had new film and television dramas broadcast.
In "Chen Qingling", she is the chivalrous head of the family, Blue Wing.
In "Let's Try the World", she is the ambitious Queen of Baili.
Although there are not many scenes, she is still very happy and cherishes.
Over the years, Li Ruotong has not talked about love anymore, and has remained unmarried and childless.
She filmed, sports, traveled, and did public welfare, and managed her life to a good time.
Although she has no regrets about her past life experience, she also warns everyone to keep themselves.
The girl who was extremely humble in love back then finally knows how to take happiness firmly in her own hands.
Relying on the happiness of others, like a thatched hut in the wind and rain, is at risk of collapsing at any time.
Only happiness in one's own hands can stand like a vast building with a solid foundation for many years.
May we all remember to love ourselves before we love others.
Author丨Mo Xiaowent
Editor丨Mo Xiaowent