Who hasn't experienced the ups and downs of married life?
A few days ago, a "scandal" about actor Dai Xiangyu exploded on the Internet. Everyone is speculating whether this handsome actor has really done something sorry for his wife. Just when the rumors were rampant, his wife, Chen Zihan, who is also an actor, stood up and rehabilitated her husband with a simple and powerful sentence: "Rumors stop at the wise, I hope everyone will stop using false rumors." ＂
These words instantly left those who chewed the root of their tongues speechless. Many netizens have praised: "What a sensible wife!" ＂
Speaking of which, the couple Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu have always been known for their affection in the circle. From acquaintance, love to marriage and childbirth, they have experienced a lot of ups and downs along the way, but they have always been close to each other. In the face of gossip this time, Chen Zihan did not hesitate to stand up for her husband, which made people see her responsibility and wisdom as a wife.
I think back to my neighbor, Sister Wang, whose family had encountered a similar situation a few years ago. Someone chewed his tongue behind his back and said that her husband had a "little three" outside. Sister Wang didn't panic when she heard these words, but said to everyone with a smile: "My old man is so wooden, he can't even talk to me, where does he have the ability to hook up with other women?" When he said this, everyone laughed, and the gossip was self-defeating.
In fact, how can married life be smooth sailing? It is inevitable that there will be such and such turmoil. The key is for couples to trust each other and face together. Just like Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu, when they encounter difficulties, they do not blame each other, but work together to overcome difficulties. This kind of tacit understanding and trust is the foundation of maintaining a marriage.
Speaking of which, the old Zhang couple I know is like this. They have been married for more than 30 years, and their relationship is still very good. Once I curiously asked Lao Zhang what the secret of their husband and wife was. Lao Zhang said with a smile: "There is no secret, just trust each other, and put everything on the table." Quarrels are quarrels, but they never hurt feelings. ＂
Listening to Lao Zhang's words, I couldn't help but think of Chen Zihan's attitude when he responded to the "scandal". She did not get angry, nor did she make trouble unreasonably, but used reason and trust to resolve the turmoil. Isn't this the way husband and wife get along?
But then again, things in the entertainment industry are always confusing. Some people say that Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu are showing affection, and it is a well-planned "public relations show". I don't think there's any need to speculate too much. After all, if the relationship between husband and wife is good, is there anything wrong?
Think about it, what would we do if we were ordinary people in this situation? I'm afraid most people will be like Chen Zihan, firmly on their partner's side. This is not blindness, but stems from the trust and tacit understanding accumulated in daily life.
In fact, whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, it is inevitable to encounter all kinds of problems in married life. The key is to learn to communicate and learn to empathize. As Aunt Li, whom I know, often says, "Marriage is like a pot of soup that needs two people to season together." If it's too light, add some salt, add some water, and mix it slowly to make a good soup. ＂
Back to Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu. After this turmoil, I believe that their relationship will be stronger. Because they have proved with their actions that in the face of external doubts, each other is the most solid backing.
In fact, everyone has a wish in their hearts, that is, to find someone who truly loves them and is willing to spend their lives with them. The story of Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu may give us some inspiration: true love is not vigorous, but a long stream; It's not rhetoric, it's silent; It's not smooth sailing, it's all in the same boat.
Think about the old husbands and wives around us, they may not have a vigorous love story, but they support each other and face the bits and pieces of life together, isn't it the most beautiful love appearance?
So, instead of envying other people's flowers, it is better to cherish the people in front of you. Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, chai rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, plain and plain is true. Just like Chen Zihan and Dai Xiangyu, working together to face the ups and downs of life together, this is the most precious feeling.
In the final analysis, marriage is not a one-man show, but a joint creation of two people. We need to trust each other, understand each other, and grow together. Whether it is a celebrity or an ordinary person, as long as there is love in his heart and love in his hands, he will definitely be able to write a beautiful marriage chapter of his own.
What do you think? In the face of life's challenges, how do you work with your significant other to overcome them? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences in the comment section, maybe your story will bring inspiration and strength to others!