Under a pear tree, a beautiful girl beckoned to him.
It's a dream, and it's not just a dream.
This is Yang Jun's way home, he always remembers that he was abducted, although his adoptive parents are very good to him, but he always thinks about his biological parents who are related by blood.
Because Yang Jun has a clear understanding - "He was abducted, not abandoned." ”
But how can a 7-year-old remember so much?
The road to abduction
Yang Jun only vaguely remembered what happened in his memory, in a normal street alley, he and his father were walking together, and suddenly someone rushed into them, and the flow of people separated them.
A 7-year-old child, in the rush of people, looking for his father.
Because I was so short at that time that I couldn't see the road ahead, I didn't know where I was going as I walked.
Then he sat on the side of the road and cried loudly, crying for his father until a stranger came over.
The stranger told Yang Jun that he could help him find his father, and Yang Jun believed the stranger's words, and then got into an unknown pickup truck, fainted, woke up again, and was sold to his current hometown.
Displaced from place to place, coupled with the lack of adaptation to the soil and water, the child's memory of the past slowly faded, and he only vaguely remembered that he should not be here.
"Buy" for adoptive parents
Yang Jun's adoptive parents found out that they were infertile after a hospital examination, so they always wanted a child of their own.
On this day, I heard that people passing by had a child in their hands, and they could buy this child to be their own child, and the old couple bought Yang Jun at that time.
I feel distressed about this child, because he is stubborn, he has suffered a lot of beatings, and he also has his own selfishness, this child's eyes are simple and familiar.
In addition, the old couple didn't understand the law at the time, and they didn't think that human trafficking was a crime, so they bought the child by such a coincidence and slowly raised it as their own child.
But they also know that this is always a bought child, and they will always find their roots, so they have not forced the child to give up the search, but supported the child to find his biological parents when he grows up.
I can't tell you love or hate
At the beginning, Yang Jun was actually a little resentful of his adoptive parents, if they hadn't bought him, he might have been rescued by the police and reunited with his parents.
But in the process of growing up later, I came into contact with the society and found that the truth was not as simple as I thought, and many children died before they grew up, because that group of people would not treat children as real children, but only as goods.
In addition, the adoptive parents treat themselves sincerely, sincerely raise themselves as children, read and write for themselves, marry their daughters-in-law, and find their biological parents.
Slowly the hatred dissipated, and it was more of a bond between gratitude and family affection, so when he walked to the back, Yang Jun couldn't tell whether he hated or loved his adoptive parents.
However, he was still concerned about his biological parents in his heart, because Yang Jun knew that he was not abandoned.
It's a pity that we couldn't see each other again
By chance, Yang Jun dreamed of a vague woman sitting under a pear tree waving to him.
In the dream, Yang Jun wanted to see the woman's face clearly, but he couldn't see it clearly, but Yang Jun was always haunted by the dream.
Yang Jun always felt that this woman was very important to him, so with the consent of his adoptive parents, he started the journey to find his parents, because he always had an answer in his heart, this person would definitely be the person closest to him.
This search has been for more than ten years, and I haven't given up until I started a family, but how easy is it to find a pear tree in the vast sea of people?
After getting married, Yang Jun's wife saw that her husband was so uncomfortable and wanted to help her husband, and accidentally learned that she could ask for help through the TV media platform, so she quickly contacted the TV media and found that place through TV media publicity.
But there was only a lonely old man waiting in that place, who was Yang Jun's biological father, and they had been looking for their biological child all these years.
Because she couldn't find her son, her mother waited under the pear tree every day, and when she waited, she went crazy and died within a few years.
It has been 4 years since Yang Jun contacted his family, and Yang Jun learned that his mother had died 4 years ago, and he burst into tears.
How can children find their parents quickly?
If the child can learn the right way, maybe the child will be able to find his way home, even if he is sold far, far away, and the adoptive parents are willing to find the child's way home, and the child remembers these things, then it will not be far to find the way home.
1. Telephone number, home address
At the beginning of the child's memory, it is necessary to let the child memorize the phone number, the phone number must be the first place, not necessarily the child remembers the name of the parents, but the phone number of the parents must be remembered.
Because this is the best and fastest way to connect in modern society.
The second point is to remember your home address, which is specific to the number, and be able to recite the specific address of your home address fluently.
Even if the child gets lost with himself one day, he can find his home address in time and meet him in time, if Yang Jun can recite his home address at that time, he will not miss it with his mother, and he will not regret it for life.
Second, the first lesson in life, call the police
From an early age, we must educate our children to find the police uncle as soon as they encounter something, and at the same time don't intimidate the child, so that the child is afraid that the police uncle will scare the child every day, and I will arrest the police uncle if he says anything.
Instead, he said, "Uncle police is to catch bad guys, but also to help the people, and the first time you encounter something, you have to find the police uncle." ”
We must establish a very deep police and public feelings, let the children learn to call the police, choose to call the police as soon as they encounter something, and let the police send the children back.
Even if you are caught by the bad guys, don't worry, find the right opportunity, and when you see the police uncle on the road, you rush to the police uncle and choose to call the police.
In this process, you must learn to analyze things calmly and calmly, and even simulate many times in this process to simulate the process of escaping and life-saving rescue.
As a parent, you definitely don't want these things to be used, but just in case, you still have to learn, at least let your child clearly express the whole process of calling the police.
An ordinary gratitude tears a family apart, a mother waits under a pear tree, and finally fails to wait for her child to see each other for the last time.
People who buy and sell children are guilty, but for children, it is difficult for them to hate the person who buys them, so when they encounter such a thing, many times there is no solution, and the best way is to let the child not encounter it.
Author: Wait for the wind to come
A working mother of two children, holding a pen in her left hand and a baby in her right hand, she likes to read, write, and paint, and firmly believes that even if she lives in a chicken feather, she must have her own poetry and distance in her heart.
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