Original: Xianxian
For such parents, they don't know what they're thinking, don't they just want their daughters to have an interview? After that, if you continue to find fault, you have to suspect that this is a stepmother, and you can't see that your daughter is good, and there is really no adjective to say that this is not crazy.
This reply reminds me of the saying "The emperor is not in a hurry, and the eunuch is in a hurry", but I always feel that it is not quite right. I have to say that this mother should belong to menopause, and for her children, there will be an incomprehensible attachment to her husband's problems, and it can be said that it is a kind of paranoia.
I have to say that this netizen really has policies and countermeasures, and he cured his mother just by one thing. However, this kind of thing will really make his mother very sad and sad, but then again, this incident can be regarded as a huge lesson to his mother, don't move things that shouldn't be moved, next time you may really be unable to afford to smash the pot and sell iron.
This matter is too empathetic, since I was a child, I said the night before and said not to call me the next day, but I was still woken up early the next day, or I was woken up in various jobs in table tennis, I really don't understand why I can't understand the words? Or did they do it on purpose? Later, the nerves were weakened.
The saddest point in life is that there is no regret medicine, some children are young, in fact, they don't know what they want, at this time they really need their parents to help find a capable person to help make a choice, and at the same time don't interfere. After all, no matter how much you regret it now, it's useless, and the child's life is so decided, and there is no going back.
Indeed, sometimes we need to have a hard fight with our parents, and only through crying, fighting, and arguing may we no longer regard our ideas as naïve, but will listen carefully and try to understand. Even if you don't understand, you can give us the most space by defaulting, and really, for children, sometimes letting it go may be the best support.
In this regard, I can only say that my mother has become a little fairy, but the little fairy has become your mother when she is old. For this kind of glass-hearted mother, the best way is to let it go for a while, maybe she will be sad and sad, but there are some things that the mother needs to understand that she is not her husband and will not always get used to her! After that, she will have her own life, and she will learn to be independent!
Everyone has their own tastes, if you don't like to eat it, don't force it, why let others do things you don't like? What's this? In the end, everyone is unhappy, so why bother!
From this, we can know that this mother is now a person, and it may be because she lives alone that she pays more attention to her daughter's life, but this attention has become pathological and paranoid, and there are all kinds of doubts and suspicions about her daughter, which is really desperate, after all, for daughters, they always want to trust their mother the most, but the mother is like this, how can she be embarrassed!
This method can only be said to be a real absolute, but it is not suitable for everyone. And this kind of parents always think that they are the smartest, and others are stupid, living in their own world and unwilling to come out, I can't help but remind me of Mr. Lu Xun's famous saying: You can't wake up the person who pretends to be asleep.
Such parents always feel that they are sent by God to punish people, not to support each other, to say kiss, but also feel more foreign, but not to kiss, when they have a problem, they will also take the initiative to help, except for speechless words to say nothing else.