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From Rural Jiangxi to Bank Executive: How Can a Woman Written Her Own Destiny by the Torrent of the Times?
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In the 90s of the 20th century, the land of China experienced the pains of reform and opening up and rebirth, in a remote village in Ji'an, Jiangxi, the story of He Meizhen quietly kicked off, she is not born with a golden spoon of the proud daughter of the sky, nor is she the pioneer of the times shining in the spotlight, she is just an ordinary rural girl, in the torrent of the times and strive to pursue their own light, this extraordinary journey of life, intertwined with struggle and struggle, opportunities and challenges, love and betrayal, in the end, she with tenacious perseverance, completed the transformation from a rural girl to a bank executive, and composed a symphony of fate
Chapter 1: The Daughter of the Mountain Village
In 1966, He Meizhen was born in an ordinary peasant family, her hometown, is a small village of only more than 50 families in Ji'an, Jiangxi Province, surrounded by mountains, traffic blockage, information lag, as if isolated from the world, generations of villagers living here, sunrise and sunset, living a simple and repetitive life
As the second daughter in the family, with older brothers and younger brothers, He Meizhen's childhood was not easy, and the lack of material things made her experience the hardships of life since she was a child; As a girl, she also felt invisible pressure from her family and society in a patriarchal environment
Although she is introverted and not good at words, He Meizhen has been sensible and obedient since she was a child, and she is a "good girl" in the eyes of her parents
Although life is hard, a flame of hope has always burned in the depths of He Meizhen's heart, she longs for knowledge, longs to get out of the mountains, and longs to change her destiny
Chapter 2: Knowledge Changes Destiny
In that era of lack of educational resources, reading was the only way to change fate, He Meizhen was full of desire to learn since she was a child, she cherished every opportunity to learn, worked hard, and her grades have always been among the best
"Mei Zhen, this child, has been smart and clever since he was a child, studies hard and hard, and his grades have always been very good, which is the pride of our family" Talking about He Meizhen's learning experience, her brother still remembers it vividly
In the eyes of the teacher, He Meizhen is a good student with excellent character and learning; In the eyes of her classmates, she is a diligent and studious role model, and at parent-teacher conferences, He Meizhen's parents always come to school early, listen carefully to the teacher's teachings, and have a proud smile on their faces
"At every parent-teacher meeting, I feel very relieved to see Mei Zhen's parents, although they are farmers, they attach great importance to their children's education, which is also an important reason for Mei Zhen's excellent academic performance" He Meizhen, the junior high school homeroom teacher, is still impressed by this simple rural couple
She is grateful for her parents' support, and she knows that only by studying hard can she live up to her parents' expectations and change the fate of herself and her family
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, He Meizhen completed her primary and junior high school studies, and was admitted to a local technical secondary school, a commercial school, with excellent results, majoring in statistics
Chapter 3: Confusion and Choices at the Beginning of the Workplace
In 1985, He Meizhen graduated from secondary school and was assigned to Wujiaohua Company, a county in Yichun City, to engage in statistical work
At the beginning of her career, He Meizhen was full of longing for the future, but the reality poured cold water on her, and the assigned unit was not her favorite place, far away from her hometown and relatives, which made her feel lonely and uneasy
"When I heard the distribution results, I had mixed feelings in my heart, including expectations for the future and fear of the unknown."
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At that time, work was distributed, and obedience to the assignment was the obligation of every graduate, and there was no room for pickiness
In the new environment, He Meizhen worked hard to overcome her inner timidity, actively integrated into the collective, and humbly learned business knowledge from her old colleagues
She Meizhen has always been a little lost in her heart, although the statistical work is stable, it is not challenging, and it is not in line with the career direction she desires
Fate always seems to like to play tricks on people, and just when He Meizhen felt lost about her career development, a chance chance completely changed the trajectory of her life
Chapter 4: A Turning Point in Fate
Aunt Li is an experienced old accountant, warm and kind, who cares for He Meizhen and often gives her guidance and help in work and life
"Xiaohe, you work conscientiously and responsibly, have strong learning ability, and have great potential, don't be limited to statistical work, you should develop in a broader world" Aunt Li often encouraged He Meizhen
With the encouragement of Aunt Li, He Meizhen came up with the idea of changing careers to become accountants
"Aunt Li, I really want to change careers to become an accountant, but I don't have a foundation, can I do it?" He Meizhen confided her heart to Aunt Li
"Okay! How not! You're so smart and willing to learn, you can do it! Aunt Li said firmly, "I'll teach you, you follow me to study hard, there will be no problem!" ”
Under the careful guidance of Aunt Li, He Meizhen began to use her spare time to learn accounting knowledge, she was hungry to learn professional books, earnestly consulted Aunt Li on problems in her work, and with her extraordinary talent and diligence, she soon mastered the essentials of accounting work
Aunt Li was very pleased with He Meizhen's progress, and she decided to create better development opportunities for He Meizhen
Chapter 5: The Carp Leaps Over the Dragon Gate
In 1993, when the reform of China's financial system entered a critical period, Bank of China opened up to the public to recruit talents in order to expand its business
"Xiaohe, Bank of China is recruiting accountants, this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, you must seize it!" Aunt Li said excitedly to He Meizhen
"Bank of China? Can I do it? He Meizhen hesitated
"Believe in yourself, you can do it!" Aunt Li encouraged, "I have already inquired for you, this recruitment mainly focuses on professional skills and work experience, you have followed me in the past two years, and you have made great progress, and you are fully qualified."
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With the encouragement and help of Aunt Li, He Meizhen plucked up the courage to sign up for the recruitment examination of Bank of China, and with her solid professional knowledge and outstanding performance, He Meizhen successfully passed the written test and interview, and became a glorious employee of Bank of China
When the news came, He Meizhen's family and friends were happy for her
"Mei Zhen is really the pride of our family, it is not easy to come out of the countryside, be admitted to the secondary school, and now enter the Bank of China!" He Meizhen's parents said excitedly
"Xiaohe, I knew you would do it! Work hard in the bank and strive to make some achievements as soon as possible! Aunt Li is also proud of He Meizhen
Joining Bank of China is not only a job for He Meizhen, but also a new starting point, and she knows that this is a stage full of opportunities and challenges, and she will start a new life journey here
Chapter 6: The Encounter of Love
After joining the Bank of China, He Meizhen devoted herself to her work, she humbly learned from her old colleagues, actively participated in various business training, and constantly improved her business skills and comprehensive quality
With her excellent work ability and diligent and hard-working attitude, He Meizhen soon emerged in her new position, won the recognition of her leaders and colleagues, and also gained her own love
In a social activity organized by the unit, He Meizhen met Zhang Zhihua, who worked in the supply and marketing cooperative, Zhang Zhihua was tall and handsome, and talked extraordinary, which deeply attracted He Meizhen's attention, and He Meizhen's gentle, kind and empathetic personality also left a deep impression on Zhang Zhihua
The seeds of love quietly germinated in the hearts of the two, and after a period of getting along, they decided that each other was the other half of their lives, and entered the palace of marriage hand in hand
After marriage, He Meizhen lived with her in-laws, in those days, housing conditions were limited, living with her in-laws was the choice of most newlyweds, fortunately, He Meizhen's in-laws were reasonable people, they regarded He Meizhen as their own daughter, and cared for her
In the second year of marriage, He Meizhen gave birth to a lovely son, adding more laughter to this happy family
Chapter 7: The Tide of the Times and the Changes of the Family
At the end of the 90s of the 20th century, China's economic system reform continued to deepen, the wave of market economy swept in, and all walks of life were experiencing unprecedented changes
He Meizhen's Bank of China, with its keen market insight and flexible business strategy, has gained a firm foothold in the fierce market competition and continues to grow and develop, while Zhang Zhihua's supply and marketing cooperatives have gradually declined due to rigid systems and poor management
In 1998, the supply and marketing cooperatives were restructured, Zhang Zhihua was laid off, and the sudden change cast a shadow on this originally happy family
After being laid off, Zhang Zhihua experienced a period of confusion and loss, he tried all kinds of jobs, but they all ended in failure, the pressure of life, the setbacks of his career, so that Zhang Zhihua's spiritual world completely collapsed, he began to indulge in alcohol, borrowed wine to drown his sorrows, and was in a state of confusion all day long
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In the face of her husband's decadence, He Meizhen was anxious, and she tried hard to persuade her husband to cheer up and start over, but Zhang Zhihua was indifferent, but intensified, and even vented the resentment in her heart to He Meizhen
"You know what? How can you, a woman, sitting in an office, understand the bitterness in my heart? Zhang Zhihua roared at He Meizhen
"It's not that I don't understand, I just hope you can cheer up and let's face difficulties together, okay?" He Meizhen pleaded bitterly
He Meizhen's dedication did not exchange for her husband's understanding and change, but made him even worse
Chapter 8: Difficult Choices
Seeing that her former gentle husband has now become an alcoholic who drinks heavily all day long and does not want to make progress, He Meizhen's heart sank little by little, she was full of disappointment in this marriage, and she lost hope for the future
"Is my marriage really coming to an end? Am I really going to give up on this relationship? He Meizhen asked herself countless times
When she thinks of her young son, He Meizhen can't bear it, she can't bear to let her child grow up in an incomplete family, and she can't bear to deprive her child of the right to enjoy his father's love
For the sake of the children, He Meizhen decided to give her husband another chance, and she found her husband's family and friends, hoping that they could help Zhang Zhihua out of the predicament
With the help of family and friends, Zhang Zhihua seems to realize his mistake, and he has reversed himself, quit alcohol, and began to try to start over
Seeing the change of her husband, He Meizhen ignited a glimmer of hope in her heart, and fate always seemed to like to joke with people
Chapter 9: Broken Mirrors Are Hard to Complete
Just when He Meizhen thought that her life would gradually improve, a thunderbolt from the blue completely shattered her last hope
Zhang Zhihua became addicted to gambling, he hid from He Meizhen, secretly lost all his family's savings, and even owed a huge debt
When the creditor came to the door, He Meizhen learned the truth, she was like a lightning strike, and she couldn't believe that all this was true
"How can you do that? How can you do this to me? To children? He Meizhen asked hoarsely
"I ...... I was wrong, I won't dare again, please, forgive me this time! Zhang Zhihua knelt on the ground and begged with bitter tears
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Looking at the man in front of her, He Meizhen's heart was completely dead, she was completely desperate for this marriage, and she had completely lost trust in Zhang Zhihua
In order to protect herself and her children, He Meizhen resolutely chose to divorce
"I won't give you another chance, let's get a divorce!" He Meizhen said coldly
In 1999, He Meizhen and Zhang Zhihua went through divorce procedures, ending this marriage in name only
Chapter 10: Phoenix Nirvana
After the divorce, He Meizhen raised her son alone, and the burden of life did not crush her, but inspired her to be strong and independent in her heart
She puts all her energy into her work and her children, works hard, and accompanies her children to grow up
In the unit, He Meizhen is conscientious and diligent, with excellent work ability and good professionalism, step by step, from an ordinary employee, gradually grow into a business backbone, and finally embark on a leadership position
In life, He Meizhen is a loving mother, she takes good care of her son, cares about his study and life, and does her best to create a good environment for her son to grow up
Under her careful care, her son grew up healthy and happy, excelled in his studies, was admitted to a key university, and became an excellent young talent
Watching her son become a talent, He Meizhen felt extremely relieved, all her efforts were worth it
Epilogue: The resilience of life
Looking back on He Meizhen's life process, it is full of legends, she went out of the mountains step by step from a girl in a remote mountain village through her own efforts and realized the value of her life
In her, we see the tenacity, independence and self-improvement spirit of Chinese women, and also see the ups and downs of personal destiny in the context of the changing times
He Meizhen's story tells us that even in the face of adversity, we should not give up hope, as long as we make unremitting efforts and have the courage to fight, we will be able to create a wonderful life of our own
Today, He Meizhen has retired, but she still maintains a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, she actively participates in social welfare activities, and warms more people in need with her love
"Life is like a marathon, until the last moment, you never know how far you can run" He Meizhen said, "No matter what difficulties you encounter, you must go on bravely, believe in yourself, tomorrow will be better!" ”
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