I have heard the saying: "If the straw is thrown in the street, it will be worthless; But if it is bundled with cabbage, it is worth the price of cabbage;
This is true of objects, and even more so of people!
In our lives, we will meet many people, some optimistic and cheerful, some decadent and gloomy.
They are actually a mirror of us, reflecting our own appearance.
Life is a long road, and who we choose to walk with affects the scenery along the way, and also determines the direction of the end.
Surround yourself with positive people
As the old saying goes: "Flying with the phoenix must be a handsome bird; Walking with tigers and wolves will be beasts of prey. ”
What a person will become often depends on what kind of people he is with.
Like, if you go down with a butterfly, all you see are beautiful flowers;
But if you go down with the flies, you will end up in a dirty ditch.
I once heard such a story:
There was an old woman who had a sad face every day, and it was rare to see her have a happy time
The neighbor noticed and asked her, "Is there something bothering you, why don't you be happy all day?" ”
He said: "I have two sons, the eldest sells umbrellas and the younger sells straw sandals. ”
On a sunny day, I was worried that my eldest son's umbrella would not sell, and on a rainy day, I was afraid that no one would buy my younger son's straw sandals. How can I be happy. ”
After hearing this, the neighbor comforted: "Isn't it good, whether it's sunny or rainy, your family has money to collect." ”
When the old woman heard this, she suddenly felt that this was indeed the case, and her heart suddenly brightened.
After years of research, scientists have found that "man is the only animal in this world that can accept suggestion." ”
Positive hints often have a good impact on people's psychology, stimulate their potential, and better face the hardships of life.
In fact, the good or bad of a thing depends mostly on how you look at it
The moon shines because it is with the sun.
People with positive energy are like the sun, they always have the strength to rise up in setbacks and be strong in difficulties.
When they encounter problems, they always think about the bright side, and in their hearts, life is beautiful everywhere.
Walking with such people, you are also easily influenced by them, embracing wisdom and bravery, and becoming optimistic and positive.
Surround yourself with reliable people
A philosopher said: "If a mortal stands between heaven and earth, he must be honest when he encounters things, and future generations will believe that he is a human being, and he will have the value of being a human being." ”
The more reliable a person is, the easier it is to gain the trust of others, and the closer he can get to success.
Reliable people do not take shortcuts and harm others, but will take one step at a time to achieve their goals.
With such people and a solid heart, they will take their promises to you to heart and do their best to fulfill them.
I once heard a fable:
Once upon a time, dogs and foxes were inseparable friends.
The dog is honest and honest, loyal and reliable, has suffered a lot of losses, but never cares; The fox is cunning and shrewd, and loves to take advantage.
One day, they came out together to forage for food and were caught by hunters.
The hunter said to them, "You two guess the box, and whoever wins, I can let him go, but whoever loses will become my prey." “
The result was that the cunning fox lost and the dog survived.
The dog cried and said to the fox, "Why did you come out of the cloth when we had agreed to make the stone together, but I came out of the scissors?" “
A reliable person will always treat others with a kind heart, even if he suffers a loss, he does not want the people around him to suffer.
The old man said: "People are afraid of making the wrong friends, and they are afraid of giving to the wrong people." ”
In this life, people are in danger everywhere, and walking with reliable people is worth delivering with sincerity and moving forward side by side with you.
May all the people we encounter in this life be reliable people, and the things we do are worthy of the trust of those around us.
Surround yourself with kind people
The writer Rozov once said: The warm current of human kindness that touches the heart can heal the wounds of the mind and body.
Kind people have soft hearts, and people with soft hearts will show kindness and love to others
Those sorrows and pains in ordinary life, inadvertently, will always be healed because of these precious kindnesses.
I always have a lot of couriers at home and save a lot of cartons.
Every time, I would fold these cartons, put them away neatly, and wait for the cleaning aunt in the building to take them away.
Although these cartons don't sell for much money, they are useless items for me,
But compared to throwing it in the trash, giving it to the cleaning aunt will be cleaner, and it will also provide her with convenience.
We maintained this tacit understanding for a while. Recently, this cleaning aunt will send me some cold dishes she makes from time to time, and the loofahs she grows.
This makes me feel very warm, although these dishes are not worth much, but the friendship in them is difficult to buy for any amount of money.
The relationship between people is actually mutual
Be with kind people, always have good thoughts, always do good deeds, and the other party will also give you kindness in return.
It is not difficult for us to find in life that a kind person, no matter how poor he is, will not deceive you.
No matter how rich you are, you will not do bad things to you with a clear conscience.
In the "Taishang Induction Chapter", it is said: "The so-called good people, everyone respects them, God blesses them, and blessings follow." ”
Kind people are loved by those around them, and no matter what they do, they will be blessed in the dark
When you are able to make friends with good people, you are spreading the seeds of kindness and planting blessings for yourself.
Writer Liu Tong said: "What kind of person you are, what kind of person you will meet." The kind of person your friend is, the kind of person you will become. ”
A group of people will always be somewhat similar in order to come together and become friends, and after a long time, they will naturally influence each other.
We can't choose our origins, but we can choose the friends we want to make.
The rest of my life is not long, and the older I get, the more I will understand that being able to walk side by side with excellent people is the great happiness of this life
With people with positive energy, life has sunshine and scenery everywhere;
With reliable people, there is something to rely on in your heart, and you can rest assured that everything is at ease;
Surround yourself with kind people, get along comfortably, and heal the soul.
May we all be an excellent person, to achieve ourselves, but also to fulfill others, please forward and share with more friends around you, and carry forward the traditional Chinese culture!
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