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On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The bitterness behind the glamour: the "invisible victim" of the female celebrity entertainment industry?

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

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I'm chasing a drama, the actresses in it are forced to the point where they can't resist, it's really distressing to watch, this kind of plot is not an isolated phenomenon, in reality, the actresses and singers we see often hide countless bitterness behind the glamorous and glamorous, and just when Zhang Ziyi encountered the so-called "groping pig's hand" incident abroad, although everyone is concerned about her reaction, has anyone ever thought about why female stars often choose to be silent? Is it because they have no way out or is there something else going on?

We have been instilled since we were children, and we must believe that behind everyone who succeeds in the entertainment industry, there is hard work and countless efforts, but what is hidden behind the frenzy of public opinion and the shadow of unspoken rules? Here's what I'm trying to say: behind the spotlight, there's so much unspeakable suffering

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

Is the entertainment industry really that glamorous?

Believe it or not, when watching the drama and seeing the appearance of those famous stars under the flash, many people can't help but think, "Wow, it's so enviable," think about it carefully, what kind of life is behind those tears and laughter? Who knows how much pressure they have to face every time they appear on camera? In this circle, resources, status, and connections are the focus of contention, and you may not believe that in order to get ahead, these female stars sometimes have to be vigilant, and even endure those unspeakable harassments

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

Take Zhang Ziyi as an example, she didn't fight back vigorously after being touched abroad, and many people began to talk about her, and some people will say, "Isn't this just worrying about being obsessed with your own career?" But in fact, behind her choice, there are a lot of unknown pains, in her world, perhaps every voice is a bet with the future career, such thinking, you and I are no strangers

I remember that not long ago, there was a little actress who spoke out bravely, but because of a moment of courage, she was blocked by her seniors in the circle, which can't help but remind me of another actress, her description of the outside world, always full of helplessness, she bluntly said: "Sometimes, it's not that you want to shout the truth, but you have to choose silence, because it's related to your future," I think, each of us, will silently regret this helplessness in our hearts

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

The reason for silence is precisely because of the environment in which we live

The stereotype of women in society is deeply ingrained, and many people think that women are to be gentle and tolerant, which not only makes many women feel at a loss in the face of sexual harassment, but also makes them afraid that they will accidentally be classified as "victims". In such an environment, many girls have to learn to hide their stories, and the sour pain can only be borne silently by themselves

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

For example, have you ever noticed that when the media reports on women, especially when they are in trouble, public opinion is often quick to blame, instead of "Why is she doing this?" Instead, they will say that "she is the victim and she is not angry", this old concept makes us fall into a strange circle of silence, in this circle, actresses are desperately trying to improve their abilities, but at the same time have to face the ruthless questioning of the outside world, which is really an unsolvable situation

Speaking of this, there is always a trace of resentment in our hearts, can't we think from a different perspective and respect those who make weak voices? In this materialistic circle, people always have too high expectations for women, and even have completely different rulers for their bodies and makeup, if she has some twists and turns, public opinion will immediately force her to obey, this phenomenon is chilling, should their voices be listened to?

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

I would like to mention here that this is a circle that needs emotional support

Many female stars experience unimaginable pain when they lose their spiritual support, they are often isolated, suppressing all the grievances in their hearts, and over time, they form an unhealthy psychological distortion, sometimes they hear them talk about their lives in front of the camera, all of which are heart-wrenching, there is an actress who was once popular at her peak, she said frankly in an interview: "I actually have no friends, the people around me are just partners, whenever loneliness strikes, I can only cry silently, Then continue to smile and face"

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

Be brave and say no, let's fight together!

Maybe we can't change the status quo of the entertainment industry, but what we can do is to try to promote social attention and reflection on this phenomenon, women's rights and interests are by no means optional additional terms, but the basic rights that everyone should cherish, it's time to awaken the consciousness of more people, let us embrace the power of the group on this topic, and support those women who are brave enough to speak out

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

The responsibility of the media is to promote the positive development of society, and we, these ordinary audiences, also have a role that cannot be ignored, every like, every comment, can convey our attitude, we want to make those oppressed actresses feel respected, let them know that no matter where they are, there will always be people who pay attention to them and are willing to speak for them, maybe, this will not immediately change anything, but every bit of our hearts will eventually converge into a voice that cannot be ignored

In this era, what we need to do is far more than this, calling on the society to pay more attention to women's rights and interests, and improve everyone's consciousness, this is our common responsibility, the voice of every actress is worth listening to, perhaps in their silence, there is a desire for life and an expectation of respect, what we can do is to let this voice be heard, so that every girl can bravely say "I am no longer silent" in the face of difficulties

On this night abroad, Zhang Ziyi, who was suspected of being a "salty pig's hand", made people see the "forbearance" of female stars

The picture comes from the Internet

Looking forward to the future, I believe that with the gradual progress of society, women will be more recognized and respected, we are no longer just a foil in the spotlight, but can be on their own stage, confidently voice, bravely pursue their dreams, everyone's efforts, are the driving force of this change, I believe that the future of the road will be broader, so that every woman can be in this land, bloom their own brilliance

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