Nowadays, with the development of society and the change of concepts, more and more people have begun to re-examine the definition of "happiness", flowers bloom and fall, time flies, unconsciously singer Yu Wenhua has entered the 50s of her life, once she, with the song "Slender Man's Love" popular all over the country, has become the goddess in the hearts of countless people, but now Yu Wenhua has become a topic of conversation after tea and dinner because of her remarriage, she was not born a topic of discussion, but her life choices have become the focus of discussion
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Put Wenhua's story in the background of life, we see not only an individual's emotional journey, but a change of times and a change in happiness consciousness, after remarriage, she married an unmarried guy, which seems to add a new color to the life of this woman who has been married for a while, but around this marriage, the outside world has a lot of discussions, especially Yu Wenhua and her husband have walked together for 23 years without children, which often causes controversy and even makes people question her choice
What exactly is the standard of happiness today? Everyone's standards are different, and Yu Wenhua's story just leads us to think about such a question, can't a woman be happy without children? In such an open society, we might as well look at "happiness" from a more tolerant perspective
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In the blink of an eye, many people can see themselves in Wenhua, from her divorce experience, we can explore about dreams and love, each relationship has its own unique scenery, everyone is more or less in pursuit of their own happiness, on this road, some people choose to conform to the tradition, and strive to have children, and some people firmly choose to pursue themselves, live a wonderful life, even if the eyes of others are biased
Yu Wenhua's first marriage has experienced wind and rain, everyone is born can not be smooth sailing, life, career are a little twists and turns, choose to start over, her courage is admirable, in her remarriage process, chose to live with an unmarried guy, this is undoubtedly a earth-shaking choice in the eyes of many people, unlike this kind of repercussions, Li Nian did not receive too much blame, but Yu Wenhua became the target of public criticism, people are always speculating, Yu Wenhua's choice is rational, and even issued doubts:" Is it really cost-effective not to have children for love? ”
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In life, we all know that you may not be able to have children when you are old, many people may have this worry, in the face of all kinds of doubts from the outside world, Yu Wenhua still chose to stick to his own lifestyle, why? Because she understands that happiness is not the same, let alone a simple definition in the imagination of the outside world, for her, the standards and forms of happiness are diverse, as long as two people love each other, they never need the company of children
The life mode after remarriage is a little different from before, Yu Wenhua and Li Nian support each other, accompany each other, in different stages and life scenes, the tacit understanding and understanding between them are more and more aligned, whether it is facing the pressure of the stage, or the trivial things in life, the two of them spend together, sometimes they will travel and leisure together, enjoy the fun of life, Yu Wenhua enjoys her own life, and the happy appearance is written in her smile
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In this new era, the choice of Dink family is not a minority, more and more young people choose not to have children, but focus on career and personal growth, Yu Wenhua's story is such a case, although they have no children, but life is colorful, some people may question whether such a family model can be happy forever, real happiness comes from inner satisfaction and happiness, rather than simple external standards
With this choice comes the inevitable pressure and doubts of society, in the minds of many people, having children is almost a measure of the standard of marital happiness, living out seems to be writing a unified template for everyone's life, life should be a pluralistic performance, in the years with Li Nian, Yu Wenhua also gradually understood: happiness is not only necessary to have the company of children, the real sense of happiness may be in a moment of tranquility welling up in the heart, in every warm moment of warmth
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It's simple to say, but it's not easy to choose in reality, every choice means that you need the courage to face the doubts of others, as well as the loneliness and thinking that comes with it, Yu Wenhua breaks the barriers of traditional understanding through her own practical actions, showing the possibility and courage of each choice, in life, she advocates the pursuit of self and inner call, and encourages countless women to live more confidently and freely
Yu Wenhua, who has gone through ups and downs and experienced the ups and downs of life, has created a new model of happiness, and now she is still active on the stage, constantly working hard in her career, pursuing her own dreams, showing her own charm, and in the face of envious eyes, she will only respond with a smile, because she knows that the meaning of happiness is never static, but full of change, hard work and growth
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Interestingly, she often shares her daily life and fun in public, telling everyone that she has been working hard in her music career, sticking to her passion, and in her spare time, she also enjoys the joy of traveling, exploring different landscapes, and when it comes to simple days, it becomes a mark of happiness
Today's story of Yu Wenhua may make more people realize that the beauty of life does not have to have children to reflect, whether they are older or not, can not limit people's pursuit of happiness, everyone has the right to choose their own way of life, the pursuit of their own happiness, in this way of thinking, women and men enjoy the same freedom of choice, and should not be limited by media attention and traditional family concepts
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Look at Yu Wenhua today, although her life is not accompanied by children, but her heart has never been lonely, behind her smile, is the love of life and self-persistence, in the process of chasing dreams, her life is full of joy and vitality, she uses her own experience to tell the world, take the initiative to choose their own way of life, treat their own heart, is the true meaning of the pursuit of happiness
In this era full of choices, the meaning of happiness has become richer, and the key is to learn to embrace, understand and respect every choice, and hope that every woman can get rid of all kinds of shackles in life and pursue their own path to happiness
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