Speaking is an instinct,
Being able to speak is a skill.
When talking to people,
Pay attention to the proportions of your speech,
That's what the wise do.
Trouble comes from the mouth, and many words cause trouble,
Your mouth often determines your fate.
So keep in mind at all times,
Don't ask, don't discuss, don't say anything,
Be merciful and accumulate virtue.
1. Don't ask, it's kindness
At the bottom of everyone's heart,
They all have their own hearts and secrets,
Maybe it's a heavy past,
Maybe a bad experience,
I don't want to talk to others,
I don't want others to get to the bottom of it.
If to satisfy your curiosity,
without regard for the feelings of others,
Keep asking,
is undoubtedly revealing people's scars.
It's also cruel to others.
So a lot of times, others don't want to say,
Just keep your mouth shut and don't ask any more questions.
Respect others, don't ask questions,
It is also a kind of kindness.
2. Don't argue, it's self-cultivation
There are many people in life,
Without knowing others,
Without knowing the truth of the matter,
Speak of others according to their own ideas,
Causing trouble and distress to others.
Without going through the affairs of others, without knowing the sufferings of others,
For other people's things,
Without knowing anything,
Don't talk about it.
As a bystander, keep your mouth shut,
Don't talk about it, it's self-cultivation.
3. Don't say it, it's wisdom
In the process of getting along with people,
It is not necessary to say everything.
To leave room for everything is to leave a way back for yourself.
Otherwise, see through and debunk, see through and say through,
not only makes the other party feel bad,
will make enemies and invite calamity.
It's not stupid to see through it and not to say it,
It's a kind of wisdom and proportion.
Be able to think from the other person's point of view,
Consideration of the dignity and dignity of others,
in order to harvest true feelings and get respect
In life, everyone has a mouth,
But they may not all be able to keep their mouths shut.
As the so-called:
A good word is warm in three winters,
Bad words hurt people and June cold.
I hope we can all keep our mouths shut,
Know how to be silent, grasp the measure,
in order to stay away from the calamity of right and wrong,
Have a good destiny!