There is nothing worse in the world than when people die, and money is gone.
This classic line has been used by many people as a life creed since the Spring Festival Gala.
Indeed, life is too short to be happy.
Everyone in the entertainment industry should know the meaning of this sentence better.
However, our protagonist today is really "famous".
Her life has not been easy, and she herself says that she feels that death is a relief.
Xu Ting, a strange but distressing actress.
Many people haven't seen much of her work, because she didn't become a famous supporting actor until shortly before her death.
The entertainment industry carries the star dreams of many people, and so does her dream.
But along the way, everyone who has seen her feels distressed.
Maybe everyone thinks that the supporting role is not casual now, isn't it? How did you fight for so long and still play a supporting role.
Many young actors, like us ordinary people, start by playing tricks, even Stephen Chow.
Without capital and without self-loss, there is only "waiting" and endless efforts.
The young lady is dead
She was originally the daughter of a tea merchant in Zhejiang, but she was the family's money-making machine.
There are 7 children in the family, 6 daughters and 1 son.
Seeing this, everyone can see at a glance that "patriarchy" is true, especially in families that do business.
Xu Ting grew up in such a family, and she is the third.
To say that the eldest is always bullied, we can understand, after all, the others are younger siblings.
But how did she, who was ranked third, become the person who carried the banner in the family.
At home, Xu Ting's father always wanted a son, but he was always a daughter.
Even when choosing a name, Xu Ting became a father's wish, and Ting represented the female stop.
When she was a child, Xu Ting's father always said that it meant slim, but later netizens always had other remarks.
It wasn't until she died that her father said that it was indeed a woman's intention, and the news was like a bolt from the blue.
Maybe this was the last straw that crushed her.
Xu Ting has been outstanding since she was a child, with a standard goose egg face and big eyes, her academic performance is still very good, and she is still a famous tea merchant at home.
I have the impression that the daughter of a rich family should be like this.
Later, when she was admitted to university, she suddenly had the idea of wanting to be an actress.
Fate seemed to understand her very well, so she applied for the Sichuan Film and Television Institute.
She had no experience in studying as an actor at all, but she was admitted.
When she excitedly showed off the admission letter to her parents, her parents said that they were very happy, but they would not give her tuition.
For the first time, Xu Ting wondered why this was happening to her family.
After a night of thinking, she decided to earn her own tuition, and her dream still had to be persevered.
So she started her own way of running tricks.
Their parents' objections may have been justified, but they didn't know that it was the occupation they looked down on at the time that soon became the main source of income for their family.
Because, not long after Xu Ting started her career as an actor, her family fell into the middle of the road.
Not only was there nothing left overnight, but there was also a huge amount of arrears.
Xu Ting didn't say a word, saying that she would definitely help her family pay off her debts.
After working as an actor for many years, she not only helped her family pay off the loan, but also bought a super large house for her family
And it was this big house that symbolized the realization of her dreams that took away her young life.
Beauty pageant champion supporting role
I worked as an actor for a few years, paid off all my debts and bought a house.
Many friends may think that actors are making money.
But Xu Ting's success is really too difficult, if you read her story, you will understand the gold content of these words.
She is not like many celebrities who have their own resources, nor like many celebrities who have many opportunities and coincidences.
Along the way, she has been crawling and groping by herself, and she began to enter the entertainment industry without even finishing college.
It's almost impossible to get a role on her own, so she chose to get out of the circle through a beauty pageant.
In the beauty model competition, she became the top 50 in the Chengdu division, and she won the first place in the host competition.
But after participating in the model competition, she still didn't get many opportunities to act, and she could only receive some simple commercial performances.
As she continued to explore, she found that it might be easier to succeed if she directly participated in the casting competition.
won the top 20 in the casting decision of the drama "The King's Feast".
In the casting of "The Secret History of Xi Shi", it became one of the top 50 in the country.
From here, everyone should be able to feel the difficulty of ordinary people being stars.
Because I don't have my own resources, I can only participate in the national casting to get the opportunity.
The hard work paid off, and finally in the Miss Oriental beauty pageant, she won the eighth place in the country
It was also this beauty pageant that gave her some opportunities.
At this time, there were many entertainment companies or talent scouts who were interested in her and saw the potential in her.
Soon she signed with an entertainment company and officially began her own road to fame.
Maybe you will feel that she has finally come to an end, and she is finally getting closer and closer to her dream.
At this time, fate still did not treat her well, and her interpretation did not become smooth sailing after signing with the company
The performances that her company received for her were all performances from the countryside.
Sometimes when I receive TV series or movies, I play an unknown little supporting role in the play, which is what we now call a dragon actor.
They often live in a dormitory in a group of people, and the living conditions are very difficult.
Xu Ting often posts on Weibo to share her life with everyone, and from many Weibo, we can see the conditions of her life.
If you open her Weibo, you will find that she is a girl who loves life very much.
Many people who have dreams of being actors have gradually begun to give up, and many of her friends around her have begun to return to normal life.
But for her, being an actor seems to mean more than just a career, but also a childhood dream.
No matter how hard and tired she is, she gritted her teeth and persevered, and even when she was sick, she still had to play small roles that were not exposed.
Some people often say that if it is gold, she will definitely shine, and if she works hard, she will definitely be seen.
She is like a template for inspirational copywriting, and finally ushered in her own spring in 2012.
In "Daddy Comes Home", she became a supporting character with a name.
In this way, her acting career slowly improved, and she began to cooperate with some big-name actors.
There are only a few scenes in a play in the crew, but they often can only sleep for two or three hours.
When filming in winter, my body is often frozen because the weather is very cold.
But the profession of an actor is like this, no matter how hard and tired you are, you have to endure it, but if you are a little distracted, it is very likely that your efforts will be in vain.
And being an actor is never a stable career, and no one rules what you can do will be stable forever, so you need to look for new opportunities while enjoying success.
She also often interacts with her fans on Weibo and jokes that she will feel distressed when she meets herself a few years ago.
Even a small supporting role often faces the need to have scenes cut or other obstacles.
Probably because everything is done by herself, so she is never afraid of offending anyone, and she will boldly speak for herself when she encounters injustice.
Maybe at this time, many people will think that she is working so hard, and we don't seem to have much impression of her, and we haven't achieved much success.
In fact, Xu Ting has been in contact with many of our current popular stars and has cooperated together.
It's just that in that era, they hadn't been out of the circle yet, for example, Di Lieba, Zhang Zifeng, Zhang Yishan, and Liu Yan had all cooperated with her, and the evaluations were all very good.
It is because he takes every work seriously that her interpretation path is getting better and better.
From an actor who no one cares about to an actor who can choose scripts later, she is really getting better and better.
A girl abandoned by fate
Just when her career was booming and getting better, fate seemed to be playing a joke on her again.
Although her parents have always regarded her as a cash cow, and the whole family has been crazy about sucking blood on her, she has always repaid her grievances with virtue.
He loves his parents and family very much, and even when filming, he will consider whether to be close to home and choose the script.
She also always interacts with her family in Weibo.
Soon she bought her own house and couldn't wait for her family to enjoy happiness.
But it was this house that had been fighting for a long time that cost her life.
Because of the decoration of the new house, there is formaldehyde in the house, but the formaldehyde in their house exceeds the standard.
The poison gas in the house did not dissipate in a short period of time, so the family had problems shortly after moving in.
Because of the perennial filming, Xu Ting is the weakest in the family, so it is also the most harmful.
Soon she found that she was always coughing, so she went to the hospital for a check-up and it was finally confirmed that she was lymphoma.
After getting the news that she had cancer, she struggled for a long time and finally decided to make it public.
After her illness, she began to meet many of her patients online and kept encouraging them.
After falling ill, her family gradually realized the seriousness of the problem and began to seek medical treatment for her.
But the family's perception makes them think that believing in Buddhism is the best way.
So they chose the most conservative treatment method, Chinese medicine and acupuncture, and the whole family went to the monastery to pray for blessings.
In fact, it seems to me that the whole family is really very stupid, or they have always thought that they have no opinion of their own.
Traditional Chinese medicine has been based on nourishment since ancient times, what is the operation of such an urgent disease without using Western medicine to curb the progression of the disease first?
Xu Ting even changed her name when she was dying.
Xu Jiani was only 26 years old when she died, and her body was ulcerated and left in pain.
Maybe death means a new rebirth, her life seems to be too painful, even she herself says it is a relief, what do you think?
Information sources:
1. Zhongyan Puhua Finance and Economics Post-90s actress Xu Ting died of illness She once posted on Weibo to disclose her condition, saying that I am going to be relieved
2. Huashang.com A 26-year-old actress died of cancer and the stars mourned