After Xiao Chen married his Lao daughter-in-law Xiaomei, the two lived quite happily. Now Xiao Chen took his father and Uncle Qi to help Xiaomei's mother's family build a house, and recently Xiao Chen bought a car, which is still in Xiaomei's name. In other words, Xiaomei is the winner in life, if she and Xiao Chen are separated later, then she can be regarded as a person with a car and a house.
What makes many people wonder is that Xiao Chen usually looks like a person who picks the door, why is he so generous to Xiaomei? I think it's mainly because Xiaomei's emotional intelligence is very high, she listens to Xiao Chen's words on the surface, which makes Xiao Chen feel that she is a very virtuous daughter-in-law, in fact, Xiaomei hides her desires, and through getting along with Xiao Chen, she also knows how to let Xiao Chen satisfy her desires.
Take the latest video as an example, Xiao Chen and Xiao Mei went to the supermarket to buy moon cakes and other things, and when they passed by the gold jewelry store, Xiao Mei looked around, and Xiao Chen said, "What are you looking at all this?" "If it were another woman, she might just ask her husband to help her buy gold jewelry, after all, they didn't have a make-up wedding, and it was right to buy some gold jewelry.
But Xiaomei said: "I'll take a look, and when I have money in the future, I'll buy it for you." Xiao Chen was very happy when he heard this, and then said to his little sister: "I'll buy it for you, I'm not interested in gold jewelry." From this one detail, it can be seen that Xiaomei knows how to provide emotional value to Xiao Chen, and also knows how to make Xiao Chen willing to spend money for her.
Xiao Chen sometimes lacks tendons in his head, and he doesn't think through his brain when he speaks. So how long this couple can go is not to look at Xiao Chen, but to see Xiao Mei. If Xiaomei is willing to go down with Xiao Chen, she will behave well, and if she is unwilling, she will dump Xiao Chen sooner or later. Xiao Chen is lacking in emotional intelligence, not as good as Brother Li, and even inferior to his father.
On the day of the Mid-Autumn Festival, Lao Chen called his wife, and his words were very numb, saying that he missed his wife and couldn't wait to go home early. But Xiao Chen has never said anything to Xiaomei, and he has to learn more from Lao Chen in the cultivation of husband and wife feelings.
In that case, will Xiao Mei really leave Xiao Chen one day, she looks much smarter than Xiao Chen. Now that Xiao Chen has helped her family improve their lives, Xiaomei can still live well in the rest of her life as long as she is self-sufficient. It depends on whether Xiao Chen can find a more suitable job after and whether he can afford to support this family, Xiao Chen is now seizing the outlet of self-media, so he can make a lot of money, but he also exposed a lot of shortcomings in the video, he is lazy and boring, once he is out of the self-media, he may not even be able to find a job to make a living, and he can't rely on Xiaomei to support his family alone.
The other thing is to see if Xiao Chen will listen to Xiaomei. Judging from the video, it seems that Xiao Chen is in charge of many things, and Xiao Chen spends money. But I feel that in private, Xiaomei is the leader, and her idea is even bigger than Xiao Chen. If Xiao Chen wants to do something and discuss it with Xiaomei, the couple will get better and better, and once there is an estrangement, the two of them will not go far.
In fact, in the process of building this house, they may also have some contradictions, but fortunately, Xiao Chen's father is here, and he can adjust the contradictions between the two, otherwise it will be really difficult to go on. Therefore, Xiao Chen is still smarter and learns a little more, otherwise Xiaomei may really leave.