Starting from the square of a small town, there are always a few uncles and aunts dancing in the square, and a group of people who love to play cards gather next to them, they laugh and laugh, and occasionally shout "why is your wife late again", which makes people wonder: what kind of emotional story is hidden behind the wife and wife?
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Xie Guangkun's live broadcast room became popular, and netizens watched one after another, saying that in the live broadcast, the uncle angrily scolded netizens, and did not forget to add a sentence: "Finding a 30-year-old wife is my own ability," This sentence really caused a heated discussion, everyone sighed at his confidence and courage, while secretly pondering the deep meaning, but the question is, why is Xie Guangkun so confident? What kind of social mentality is reflected behind this concept?
Nowadays, many middle-aged men are arrogant and show off their young female partners, and even call "young is good", but the reason behind this is not easy to talk about, the imbalance between men and women in rural areas, the formation of bride price and marriage pressure, are the reasons for the development of this phenomenon, coupled with the influence of traditional concepts, resulting in the double pressure of economic burden and expectations on the man
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Many rural women seem to have become "spare tires" in this reality, people often ignore them, and some people even complain that women of marriageable age are like stones on the side of the road, they are stepped on and don't care, if they deviate slightly from the "traditional concept", they will be blamed, how can such pressure be fair? Therefore, in order to reverse this situation, some uncles use the heroic way of "finding a 35-year-old wife" to maintain their face and authority
Let's go back and talk about Xie Guangkun, his words can't help but make people think, what is the psychology behind it? Obviously, behind this choice, there is more of a manifestation of the desire to control, he regards marriage as a transaction, using his own economic conditions in exchange for the youth of young women, just to satisfy his already decadent heart, this view of marriage is actually very dangerous, because in such a choice, women are objectified, and they cannot get the respect they deserve, how long can such a marriage last?
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In a blink of an eye, I thought of the old couples who have gone through the wind and rain together, although the couple had quarrels, and even the idea of divorce once, but in the end they are still together until they grow old, the essence of marriage is not only the romance of youth, it is also a kind of companionship and understanding, is to face the challenges of life together, laugh and cry together, therefore, the real "wife" is actually the fit and tacit understanding of the soul, is the companionship of each other, not a simple game of age or economic conditions
In this noisy society, we are often confused by a pursuit of success, people pursue wealth, the pursuit of youth, but ignore the most precious emotion, the old companion, should not be just a "companion" word, but mutual understanding, mutual care for each other's life travel companions, they pay silently behind each other, in times of difficulty to give each other a solid backing, is the most enviable state
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Through this turmoil, we should think more about what we want when we move towards marriage and the other half of our lives? Is it the glitz of the material, or is it the blending of the heart? This kind of thinking is not only applicable to the choice of partners of the uncles, but also to everyone, because the core of marriage is always the emotion that goes deep into the bone marrow
Let's stop in our busy lives and listen to our inner voice, is the old companion we look forward to a simple companion, or an eternal companion? In these questions, we may be able to find a more authentic version of ourselves and explore the most valuable things in life
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Therefore, Xie Guangkun's live broadcast room incident is not just a simple online interaction, it is also the epitome of thousands of rural men and women in the marriage relationship, and each of us should also reflect on our own understanding and choice of relationship, perhaps only in this way can we harvest that true happiness in the process of pursuing love