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Review: The aunt on the bus knocked out the guy with cancer, and a slap ruined the happy life after retirement

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The Silent Battle: The Age Fight in the Bus Compartment

Review: The aunt on the bus knocked out the guy with cancer, and a slap ruined the happy life after retirement

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The hustle and bustle of the city is blocked by the window glass, the air is hot and heavy inside the crowded buses, everyone is like prisoners trapped in an iron box, silently enduring the long journey, and beneath the calm surface, a silent war is brewing

A weapon to "respect the elderly", or an excuse for "selfishness"?

An old man with silver hair staggered into the car, and she glanced at the carriage, finally landing on the young man sitting by the window

"Young man, can you give me a seat?" The old man's tone was tough, with an unquestionable order

The young man raised his head, a trace of impatience flashed in his eyes, but he didn't mean to get up, he took out his headphones and stuffed them into his ears, turning up the volume to the maximum, as if everything in the outside world had nothing to do with him

The old man's face suddenly became gloomy, she pestled the cane hard, and began to chant words in her mouth: "Young people nowadays, they don't know how to respect the old and love the young!" I want us to ...... back then."

Review: The aunt on the bus knocked out the guy with cancer, and a slap ruined the happy life after retirement

The picture comes from the Internet

The original calm in the carriage was shattered, and the passengers turned their eyes to this silent war, some with sympathy, some frowning, and others continuing to swipe their phones without their own attention, as if none of this had anything to do with them

Silent young man, invisible pressure

The young man never spoke, but his clenched fists and slightly trembling body revealed his inner struggle, perhaps, he was really unwell and needed this seat; Perhaps, he is just tired of the endless moral kidnapping and wants to fight for himself the right to refuse once

Under the heavy moral shackles of "respecting the old and loving the young", any explanation seems pale and powerless, and the accusatory gazes and whispering discussions of the people around him are like invisible mountains, which overwhelm him

"Respecting the old and loving the young" is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, but in real life, it is often distorted into a kind of natural demand, and even becomes a weapon for some old people to "rely on the old and sell the old".

The bus, a mirror that reflects social contradictions

Review: The aunt on the bus knocked out the guy with cancer, and a slap ruined the happy life after retirement

The picture comes from the Internet

This seems to be just an ordinary dispute over seat concessions, but it reflects the increasingly acute contradictions between the elderly and the young in the context of an aging society

With the advent of an aging society, "respect for the elderly" has become an unavoidable social issue, and there is no doubt that the elderly need love and care, but we cannot ignore the pressure and plight of young people

High housing prices, fierce competition, and fast-paced life have overwhelmed young people, who are burdened with heavy responsibilities, but are often labeled as "selfish" and "indifferent".

This silent war on the bus is just the tip of the iceberg, in real life, similar contradictions are staged every day, how to find a balance between "respect for the elderly" and "respect for the elderly", is a difficult problem in front of us

Understanding and respect are the keys to resolving conflicts

For the elderly, we must learn to empathize and understand the difficulties of young people, not all young people are unwilling to give up their seats, maybe they really have something difficult to hide

Review: The aunt on the bus knocked out the guy with cancer, and a slap ruined the happy life after retirement

The picture comes from the Internet

"Relying on the old and selling the old" not only does not help to solve the problem, but will exacerbate the contradiction and damage their own image, and the truly respectable old people should use their words and deeds to influence and infect young people, rather than persecuting them with moral kidnapping

For young people, it is also necessary to understand the difficulties of the elderly, more tolerance and care, a simple greeting, a warm look, are enough to warm the hearts of the elderly

Building a harmonious society requires the joint efforts of you and me

"Respect for the old and love for the young" is not only a slogan, but should also be reflected in the practical actions of each of us

The government should increase the protection of the rights and interests of the elderly, improve the social pension service system, so that the elderly can rely on and take care of the elderly, and also pay attention to the needs of young people, so as to create a fairer and more just social environment for them

All sectors of society should also take active action to carry out various forms of activities to respect and love the elderly, carry forward the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and create a good social atmosphere of respecting and respecting the elderly

Everyone will eventually grow old, so let's start from ourselves and build a harmonious society full of love and respect with practical actions

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