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What kind of woman do you think is a smart woman? You may say that a woman with a good career is a smart woman, and you may also say that a woman who knows how to manage her feelings is a smart woman.
You're all right, but in my opinion, a smart woman is not just about having these achievements that others think are great, but about being able to take control of her own life, to be able to manage her own life.
I'm going to talk to you about the smart women I've ever met, who may not be the prettiest or the most successful, but they are the happiest.
Because they are always able to do what they want to do when they need to, and they are always able to do anything they want to do.
They always seem to have a very easy life, because no one can handle them casually, and such a woman is a really smart woman.
Do you understand? Truly intelligent women must be mysterious, they know what to say and what not to say, and even more so what to do and what not to do.
Becoming such a woman rarely hurts, because the initiative in their lives is always in their own hands.
So, if you also want to be such a woman, take a look at these three pieces of advice I have for you, if you can do these three things well, then you will become a smart woman that no one else can handle.
Relationship status
It is easy for women to expose their emotional problems to others, because they want to seek help from others when they encounter emotional problems, and they also want to share them with others when they are happy.
But dear, you must know that there is no empathy in this world, and even the people closest to you have no way to give you unconditional love when you need it, let alone be happy for you together when you are happy.
I've seen too many women who have been backstabbed after talking to others, and I've seen many women who have been hurt by jealousy.
I really don't want your relationship status to be someone else's weakness to pinch you, I really hope that you can hold your destiny firmly in your hands.
So my dear, whether it is happiness or sorrow, keep it in your heart and don't tell others easily, because no one can really help you.
You may feel lonely and helpless, but people are originally lonely and lonely as they grow up.
And I have to tell you that the relationship between you and your other half is a matter between the two of you, and it may not be so complicated without a third person involved, but when a third person knows, things will become uncontrollable.
I really don't want you to get into trouble for these reasons, and I hope you can live this life sanely and sanely.
Emotional problems
A woman who can manage her emotions well is often able to manage her life well. But if you always become a slave to your emotions, then life will be a mess.
I always feel that it is important for women to learn to control their emotions. Because women are emotional, they are especially prone to being impulsive because of their emotions and can also get hurt because of it.
For example, when you are emotional, you may impulsively say hurtful things to your loved ones, or you may do irrational things.
Afterwards you feel extremely regretful, but some things are irreparable, so you blame yourself and suffer even more, and you fall into the mud.
I know you don't want to do this, so you have to change from now on, learn to put away your emotions, even if your heart is already pouring down, and your face must not be shocked.
I know you won't be able to do it for a while, but that's okay, take your time, as long as you can start learning to take control a little bit, you will be able to do it.
One of the signs of becoming a big woman is to be able to control your emotions, that is, to be able to deal with your own emotional problems, so that no one can pinch you because of emotional problems.
It's not easy to overcome sensibility, but you can do it, and I believe in you.
Future plans
Don't say what you want to do, others will naturally know after you do it, which is the best protection for yourself.
I've seen a lot of stupid girls who tell others about their future plans, let others destroy them if they want to destroy them, and make trouble if they want to, but they are helpless.
I've also seen a lot of silly girls who share their future plans with others, but don't do it, and are ridiculed for it.
Either way, I'm sure it's not going to be good, so it's really important to learn to keep your future plans in your heart and rot in your stomach.
In fact, when you are really mature, you will understand that telling others about your plans in advance will do no good, and learn to make a fortune in silence, which is what a smart woman should do.
Of course, I'm not saying that you don't share anything, it's smart to learn to show others the results you make.
That is, don't always think about letting others see the process of your work, it doesn't make sense, and when there is a real result, others will naturally see it.
It is not easy to be a smart woman, because to remain mysterious, you must be strong enough inside.
You may think this is boring, but that's what the adult world is, my dear.
There are no permanent friends and relatives, but there will always be people who want to hurt you, so hold the initiative in your hands firmly in your hands, so that you can live a easier and happier life.
I hope that every woman can not be manipulated by others, and I hope that every woman can control her own life.
Let's do it together.
I'm Xiyan, a columnist, an older girl who is neither old nor old, likes to write warm words, do emotional programs, and has published "The Rest of Your Life, Related to Me", if you have a story, remember to come to me.