Mobile phones are the progress of the times, and at the same time, they have also brought trouble to many families with children.
Why? Because mobile phones are easy to obtain, but difficult to separate!
When children encounter mobile phones, the machine does not leave their hands, affecting their eyesight and reducing their intelligence, and the old mother's heart begins to be anxious.
Many grandparents and grandparents have also discovered this artifact. I used to worry about not knowing what to say or play with my children, but now we look at our phones together. The grandfather and grandson are very harmonious.
In fact, most elderly people only know that mobile phones are harmful to children's eyesight, and they think that keeping a distance can avoid harm. And children like to look at mobile phones, children don't need adults to take them when they look at mobile phones, which is more convenient.
In fact, the elderly's kindness to their children is no worse than that of their parents. As long as we make it clear to the elderly, the impact of looking at mobile phones on children and the disadvantages of looking at mobile phones for a long time on children, and then provide coping methods for the elderly, most elderly people would rather be tired and hard.
After all, when people are older, they are better than their sons and grandchildren. When I went out, I said how good my grandson was, and the old man's face was bright.
The following method is for your reference.
1. Get a few kids' play cards near home.
It's the kind of naughty castle that children can play by themselves or with other children for hours in a big environment, and the elderly can sit next to them and rest. Children will no longer worry about mobile phones when they play, the elderly have a place to rest, and it will not be so hard to take care of the baby.
2. Prepare a few more brain-burning and educational toys.
For example, building blocks and puzzles allow children to create at will. Even if the child pesters the elderly to play with him, as long as he sits down and builds with the child, it is relatively labor-saving.
3. Run a few story members.
For example, the baby bus, Uncle Kai tells stories, shouts to read, etc., children listen to stories and play games, and they can also increase their knowledge. Children have something to do, so they don't grind.
Of course, no matter how well we think and prepare, the old man does his own thing, what should we do?
We can also start with children. Of course, even if the child is too young, it is estimated that he can't do it, and it is easy to be affected by the external environment, so it is better to bring it yourself!
For older children, you can make an agreement with your child to plan everything during the day and then execute it according to the plan during the day. If you can not look at your phone, you can give your child a small flower. This little flower is a reward, and the child can redeem items, or watch the mobile phone for a long time (we are five minutes per flower, Xiaobao is not changing it once it is changing, and Dabao directly changes books).
For children looking at mobile phones, no matter how old they are, they really need parental restraint, or find a way to help children overcome mobile phone addiction and keep the machine in their hands. Some adults can't resist the temptation of mobile phones, let alone children?
There are so many more things to consider as a parent now!
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