During a car trip in Maoming, Guangdong, a girl met a "little calf" in the social world, and he sang and laughed all the way, comparing the girl to a treasured card beauty in his hand, and the innocent praise was like a flower that bloomed inadvertently in Lucky Star Chinese Restaurant, although beautiful but slightly playful. The girl looked at the beautiful face outlined by the big eyes and high nose bridge on the card, but her heart rippled, and joy and confusion were intertwined into a complex emotional web, making it difficult for her to distinguish whether it was a praise or an alternative "joke".
In the daily trivialities, praise is like warm sunshine, which can instantly illuminate the heart, especially when this praise comes from the mouth of a six- or seven-year-old child, the innocence and directness can often hit the softest part of the heart, making people happy. However, the girl's state of mind is like the autumn sunset leaves, light with a hint of imperceptible heaviness.
In the video, the little boy is like a summer afternoon breeze, leaning leisurely on the side of the chair, smiling brightly like a blooming flower, and the card in his hand has become a bridge between reality and fantasy. He repeated over and over again: "It's her, it's her!" That conviction and perseverance make people laugh at the same time, but also make people think: Is the world in the eyes of children always so simple and pure?
However, when the girl's gaze touched the card, everything seemed to be clouded with a mist. She thought that she could accept the word "beautiful" calmly, but she never thought about the deep meaning behind the card, which made her fall into an embarrassing and helpless situation. Although the card is beautiful, it is full of streets, and the praise of the little boy becomes subtle and complex at this moment, like a double-edged sword, which is not only an affirmation of beauty, but also mixed with indescribable embarrassment.
The girl hurriedly posted a photo of herself, aggrieved and firmly clarified, that helplessness and embarrassment are like the brightest stars in the night sky, although dazzling but lonely. Netizens turned into detectives and jokers, guessing the source of the cards, ridiculing the "negligence" of parents, and those with high emotional intelligence used humor to resolve embarrassment, while those with low emotional intelligence were outspoken, which made this unexpected "praise storm" even more interesting.
In this vignette, we can't help but ask: should the innocence of children be amplified without limits? As a parent, should we protect our children's nature while also teaching them how to express their emotions in a more appropriate way? And that girl, perhaps, after experiencing this "crying and laughing" praise, will cherish those praise from the heart and without any strings attached.
As for the ballad that hummed silently in the girl's heart - "Listen to me, thank you, because of you, I shouldn't be in the car, I should be under the car", perhaps it is the most profound commentary on this unexpected journey: life is always full of unknowns and surprises, and sometimes, an unintentional word can set off a wave of the heart.