There are many college students on the Internet complaining: The living expenses given by their parents are too little, but if you look closely, the amount is around 3,000 yuan.

In fact, many children only go out of school, really experience the hard work of making money, to understand the difficulty of their parents, thinking back to the school when they were ignorant, but also ashamed: when they went to school, they thought that 3,000 yuan of living expenses was too little, and they wanted to work hard again, giving their parents 3,000 yuan of living expenses, but they found that they did not have the ability to repay their parents' kindness.

There is a female classmate on the Internet who posted a photo of a new nail art, but the accompanying text is incompatible with the photo: I can't afford to eat, my parents only give 5,000 living expenses, the comment area has completely fallen, and the classmates and neighbors who know the girl have directly picked up the girl's past, which is embarrassing.

"I can't afford to eat, my parents only give 5,000 living expenses", the secondary school girl showed off her new nails, and the comment area fell

What is the concept of 5,000 yuan a month? After graduation, many college students may not be able to earn a monthly salary of 5,000 yuan, but this female secondary school student does not know how to be satisfied in the face of the 5,000 living expenses given by her parents.

In addition to not knowing how to be content, female classmates don't like to study, and attribute their poor grades to their illness, but if it's just bad grades, it's secondary, and during school, they are disgusted by their roommates and persuaded to quit by their school.

After that, the female classmate asked her father to spend money to take her to study at a secondary school, and it didn't take long for her to be persuaded to quit, and then she found a vocational school on the Internet, and her father paid him tens of thousands of dollars more, but he was persuaded to quit again within a few months, and the whole four years of youth were wasted.

It is reported that the parents of the female classmate have an annual income of about 100,000 yuan, not only actively taking their daughter for treatment, but also bearing their daughter's living expenses of 5,000 yuan per month.

Compared with the hard support of their parents, girls in addition to complaining about their parents, is to squander living expenses, as a girl from an ordinary family, all the money for meals is used to buy clothes and do nail art, there is nothing wrong with girls who love to dress up, but this level of squandering is really unbearable.

bought 400 yuan a piece of clothing, but went to the aid station to eat when the living expenses were squandered, and his face was full of disgust: why does the aid station eat this kind of food?

If she doesn't study hard and doesn't actively treat her illness, the girl's life can be imagined, but she doesn't reflect on herself at all, but puts all the fault on others, blaming her parents for their poor conditions, and she can only give herself 5,000 yuan a month, which makes her unable to eat.

It is reported that the girl in the back has developed to this point: looking for a boyfriend everywhere on the Internet, meeting with male netizens, the other party can send her away for 20 yuan, a girl with no self-esteem and no self-love, let alone love, will not be truly respected wherever she goes.

"Abundance" requires not only material enrichment, but also spiritual enrichment

Some netizens' comments hit the nail on the head: Who is to blame? It's all bad for parents, it's not good for parents to give 5000, netizens can become boyfriends if they give 20, it seems that it is not the poor and rich who open the gap between people, and the girl who is rich for 5000 yuan will still be deceived by yellow hair.

Nowadays, many parents advocate that girls should be rich, but is it enough to blindly give more pocket money for "wealth"? In fact, the real "wealth" is not to raise a white-eyed wolf who does not know how to be grateful and squander the depravity for 5,000 yuan a month, but also to use spiritual wealth on the basis of material abundance.

Some netizens also think: Maybe the girl's parents know what the consequences of spoiling are, but in general, when the child is not in good health and sick, the parents are reluctant to educate strictly, not only distressed, but also guilty, feeling that they did not give the child a good body.

It is said that the love of parents is far-reaching, and if it is really good for the child, it should not be overly spoiled for the child, and only let him grow into an adult who can take charge of himself, is the real "far-reaching".

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