September is the beginning of the school season, many 18-year-old female college students have just entered the college campus, and when they are not yet comfortable with college life, they will inevitably feel moved by the helpful seniors, and even start a sweet campus love.
It is said that college life is freedom, life is free, love is also free, no longer have to worry about being found by teachers to parents, you can hold each other's hands and walk around the campus with peace of mind, but who would have thought: the degree of freedom in love on the college campus has been high to the level of "gender freedom"!
There is a blogger with nearly 100,000 followers on the Internet, who often shares some inspirational videos on the Internet: telling the story of how he went from a student of three colleges and universities to a master's degree in 985 college, and then passed the law examination to become a qualified lawyer, which has gained the attention of many college students.
The 985 male master was pursued by the "senior", euphemistically expressing that he liked the girl, and the comment area fell
But recently, this 985 male master took the initiative to share an incident that happened during his graduate studies, which directly caused his video to receive more than 100,000 likes.
The blogger recalled: Before going to graduate school, when he passed the postgraduate entrance examination and was looking forward to his future graduate life, a senior in law school launched a crazy pursuit of himself, and for the first time in his life, he was pursued by a man, and the whole person was confused.
I also refused at the first time, and told the senior euphemistically that I liked girls, but the other party still refused to give up. At first, the male blogger thought that this was just an enthusiastic senior, and he had just been admitted to graduate school, and he also needed to understand some problems through his senior, so the two chatted often through WeChat.
This male blogger's appearance is not delicate, on the contrary, it is more of the roughness of northern boys, he never thought that there would be seniors who like him, and he thought that the enthusiasm of the seniors was just the friendliness between classmates, and he also treated the seniors as brothers, and also proposed to invite the seniors to dinner.
But the senior didn't rush to agree, but instead: "Is it just the two of us?" At that time, the blogger suddenly felt that this word was very familiar, and after realizing that something was wrong, he decisively refused, but he didn't expect the other party to still be unrelenting and stubborn.
After experiencing this experience of being pursued and entangled by male seniors, this male master of law who graduated from 985 also deeply realized that many female students have many similar experiences in school and the workplace, and they only understood the situation of female students after encountering them, and decided to use their professional abilities to speak up for more girls in the future.
But after the video became popular, the comment area was boiling, which was different from what everyone imagined, and there were many netizens in the comment area: Although bloggers feel that it is ridiculous for their looks to be pursued by seniors, but in fact, in that circle, they still like you.
Regardless of whether it is a male or female student, everyone has the right to protect themselves
Although there is a lot of ridicule in the comment area, as the 985 male master said: Whether male or female, the anger and helplessness of being harassed are the same, if there is any difference, it may be: female students will be more afraid when facing harassment of the opposite sex, because the difference in size and strength will only make female students afraid of being hurt more after being harassed.
But why are fewer and fewer people willing to speak out? As the blogger said, he recorded a video "bare-chested" at home, and obviously didn't miss anything, but was commented by some male netizens as "deliberately seduced".
The blogger immediately thought that after some female classmates were harassed and hurt by the opposite sex in life, they would be blamed: wearing skirts, or dressing up too beautifully, this typical "victim guilt theory" is the biggest mistake.
However, the current college campus, is really more "free" than you and I imagined, in the past, at most the parents of female classmates, to educate their children to pay attention to personal safety when going out, according to the development of this trend, the parents of male students in the future also have to remind their children: pay attention to safety when going out, especially wary of those overzealous seniors!
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