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50 years old, single, rich, but still anxious? ——The Happiness Code of Contemporary Women
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Hong Kong, the bright lights of Victoria Harbor reflect the skyscrapers, but also reflect the hearts of countless dreamers, in this city full of opportunities and challenges, Charmaine Sheh, a champion from Miss Hong Kong to TVB masters, and then to an independent woman with a successful career, her story seems to be the best footnote for modern women to pursue independence and realize self-worth, when the 50-year-old faced the camera and said frankly, "I still want to have a companion in my heart", but it is still difficult to hide my loneliness, we can't help but ask: what is it, Let this woman who stands at the pinnacle of her career and has financial freedom still feel anxious?
[The back of the pinnacle of career: a symphony of applause and loneliness]
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From the scheming Er Chun in "The Golden Branch" to the ruthless concubine in the center of "Yanxi Raiders", Charmaine Sheh has created classic roles with superb acting skills, and has also won the title of "TVB First Sister" for herself, debuting for more than 20 years, she has won numerous awards, is worth more than 100 million, has her own mansion in Hong Kong, where every inch of land is expensive, and lives an enviable life
In an interview, Charmaine Sheh admitted: "In fact, I will also envy those friends who are married and have children, although their lives are ordinary, but they are very happy" Between the words, there is a desire for family warmth
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For many women, career success is important, but the warmth of family and the companionship of family are also indispensable, especially in the dead of night, when you take off your glamorous coat and face an empty room alone
[The pressure of age: the double shackles of fertility dilemma and social prejudice]
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At the age of 45, Charmaine tried to freeze her eggs, but was unfortunately told by doctors that she had missed the best time, which was undoubtedly a heavy blow to her desire to have a child of her own
In modern society, the postponement of women's childbearing age has become a common phenomenon, and many elderly women are facing great challenges in childbearing due to physiological limitations, the pressure of public opinion and competition in the workplace
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What's even more frustrating is that society always has a variety of prejudices against women's age and marital status, and they are labeled as "leftover women" when they are over 30, and they will be considered "incomplete in life" if they are over 40 years old and have not yet married and have children
As the writer Beauvoir said, "Women are not born, but shaped" and society's stereotypes of women are like an invisible net that binds them to a predetermined orbit and makes it difficult for them to breathe freely
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[Breaking the Shackles: Reinventing Yourself and Defining Happiness]
44-year-old Liu Yan, after experiencing the ups and downs of his career and emotional twists and turns, also issued a similar emotion: "When I return home, I feel that I don't have any thoughts about the future, I don't know where the meaning of life is" This sentence may also express the voices of many contemporary women
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There is not only one definition of happiness, marriage and having children are happiness, pursuing a career and enjoying solitude can also be happiness, it is important that we listen to our inner voice and find a lifestyle that truly suits us
Instead of being defined by society and kidnapped by age, it is better to bravely break the shackles, reinvent yourself, and explore more possibilities in life
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We can be like Yang Liping, for the dance career we love, give up childbirth, and dedicate our lives to art;
We can be like Dong Mingzhu, overcoming obstacles in the shopping mall, proving the strength of women with strength, and living a wonderful life;
Like countless ordinary and great women, we can also find a balance between family and career, manage our own lives with our hearts, and reap our own happiness
[Conclusion: There is no standard answer to happiness, live your true self]
At the age of 50, Charmaine Sheh is still constantly challenging herself on the road of acting, and she has proved with her actions that age is just a number, and the charm and value of women will not diminish with the passage of time
Life is like a marathon, everyone has their own rhythm and goals, don't lose yourself because of the evaluation of the outside world, and don't give up your dreams because of temporary difficulties
May all women be able to live their true selves and bravely pursue their own happiness
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