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A photo has set off a lot of waves in the online world. In the photo, Tian Pujun and his wife shared dinner with former United Kingdom Prime Minister Tony Blair and his wife in Greece, behaving intimately and talking and laughing. Netizens have a lot of discussions, some people envy Tian Pujun's strong circle of friends, some people question that she is just "taking advantage of the situation", and some people compare her with another legendary woman, Deng Wendi, trying to get a glimpse of the survival rules of "Vanity Fair".
Tian Pujun, this name seems to be born with topics and controversies. From the "woman of Wang Shi" when she was first known to the public, to the "independent woman" who is now active on the international social stage, her journey has been full of drama and contradictions. Some say she is shrewd and knows the rules of the game in Vanity Fair; Some people also say that she is independent, strives to live her own life, and is not willing to be just a "woman behind the big guy". So, what is the real Tian Pujun like? How did she transform step by step from a "king's woman" to an "international celebrity"?
"The King's Woman": a sweet burden, a label that can't get rid of
Back in 2012, Wang Shi was over 60 years old at that time, and he was the "Godfather of Vanke" admired by everyone in the real estate industry, while Tian Pujun was a little-known post-80s actress. As soon as this "year-old love" with an age difference of 30 years was exposed, it immediately caused an uproar. In the field of public opinion, doubts and ridicule are endless, and words such as "hype", "superiority", and "plotting property" are mercilessly smashed at the lovers, especially the young Tian Pujun, who seems to have been burdened with heavy moral shackles overnight.
It is undeniable that Wang Shi's social status and resources have opened a door to a larger world for Tian Pujun. At first, Tian Pujun seemed to be happy to enjoy this "sweet burden". She accompanied Wang Shi in a low-key manner, attended various business events, and met celebrities from all walks of life. However, deep in Tian Pujun's heart, there is always a flame that is unwilling to be ordinary. She knows that the label "King's Woman" may bring temporary attention and convenience, but it cannot become the whole of her life. She is eager to tear off the label, prove her worth, and live her life to the fullest.
Take the initiative: go from behind the scenes to the front of the stage and create your own stage
"A soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier", this sentence seems to be equally applicable to Tian Pujun. She did not feel at ease to be a "canary" as speculated by the outside world, but actively sought self-improvement and development, and worked hard to create her own stage. She first went to New York, United States to study screenwriting and production at the prestigious New York University Film School, which helped her prepare for her future career in the film and television industry.
After returning to China, Tian Pujun began to experiment with different identities and roles. She started her own studio, worked as a producer, columnist, and even published her own book. She is no longer satisfied with being the "woman behind Wang Shi", but bravely walks to the front of the stage to show her talent and ambition to the world. She actively participates in various public welfare activities, speaks for women, and has won more recognition and respect for herself.
In 2018, Wang Shi announced in public that Tian Pujun was "my wife", and this belated confession seemed to announce that Tian Pujun officially got rid of the label of "Wang's woman" and became an independent woman standing side by side with Wang Shi.
Business network: build a strong "circle of friends" and weave your own "relationship network"
"Who you know is more important than who you are", this wise saying in Vanity Fair has been vividly reflected in Tian Pujun. She understands the importance of connections and sees them as the "secret weapon" for her career success. However, unlike those "celebrities" who are keen on "sugar daddy" and "hugging their thighs", Tian Pujun has his own set of "methodology" in terms of managing contacts.
First of all, she never hides her appreciation and learning attitude towards "excellent people". In her opinion, associating with excellent people is a kind of learning and improvement in itself. She has publicly said, "I like to be with people who are smarter and better than me", "They are like a mirror, which can reflect my shortcomings and make me constantly reflect and improve". It is this sincere and humble attitude that has won her the recognition and favor of many bigwigs.
Secondly, she is good at using various occasions to expand her social circle. From following Wang Shi to attend various high-end banquets and forums, to independently participating in international film festivals and fashion weeks, she is like a tireless "social butterfly", shuttling through various Vanity Fairs and dealing with celebrities from all walks of life with ease.
What's more, she is not just a "familiar face", but focuses on building real friendship and trust with these "network resources".
For example, at a dinner party with Mr. and Mrs. Blair, Tian Pujun not only had a good conversation with Mr. Blair, but also had a very speculative conversation with Mrs. Blair. As can be seen from the photos, Tian Pujun and Mrs. Blair are smiling, chatting happily, and their body language is also very close, without the restraint and embarrassment of meeting for the first time.
Previously, Tian Pujun also had close interactions with former Japan Prime Minister Yukio Hatoyama, Thailand CP Group Chairman Xie Guomin and other international dignitaries and business tycoons. It is reported that Tian Pujun's interactions with these "big shots" are not just a simple "dinner social", but based on common interests and values.
For example, Tian Pujun and Yukio Hatoyama are both very concerned about environmental protection, and the two have met at various environmental forums and had in-depth exchanges on related topics. The acquaintance of Tian Pujun and Xie Guomin stems from the fact that both of them have a strong interest in traditional Chinese culture.
Tian Pujun: From the "king's woman" to an international celebrity, what does she rely on?
It is undeniable that Tian Pujun's "circle of friends" has indeed brought her a lot of resources and opportunities, and also made her walk more smoothly on the road to Vanity Fair. However, it also made her suffer more skepticism and criticism.
"Relying on men to get on top", "socialite", "powerful plaything"...... These piercing labels, like lingering shadows, have always shrouded Tian Pujun's head. Whenever she posts a photo with a certain bigwig on social media, or attends a high-end party, there will always be netizens who jump out and sneer and question her ability and motivation.
What's more, Tian Pujun was compared with another legendary woman, Wendi Deng, trying to find out some clues of the "Vanity Fair Survival Rules".
Wendi Deng, a legendary woman who also came from an ordinary background but traveled in the world with extraordinary courage and skill, seems to have become synonymous with "independent women" in the minds of many people.
However, compared with Deng Wendi's "decisive killing" and "ambitious", Tian Pujun is more "soft" and "wise". She rarely talks about her ambitions and goals in public, and rarely has head-on conflicts with others, but always maintains a posture of "not fighting or grabbing", overcoming rigidity with softness, weaving her own network of relationships quietly, and steadily moving towards her goals. If Wendi Deng's success is like a thrilling "Game of Thrones", then Tian Pujun's success is more like a well-planned "layout". She is well versed in the rules of Vanity Fair, but she also knows how to hide her edge at the right time and advance by retreating. She is not in a hurry to prove herself, nor does she disdain to argue with others, but devotes more time and energy to self-improvement and value accumulation.
She keeps learning and trying, from an actor to a producer, from a columnist to an entrepreneur, she constantly breaks through herself, challenges new fields, and accumulates her strength and contacts step by step, and finally occupies a place in Vanity Fair.
Looking back on Tian Pujun's "upper history", it is not difficult for us to find that her success is not accidental, but stems from her clear understanding and positioning of herself, as well as her firmness and persistence in her goals.
1. Clear goals, unwilling to be ordinary:
This is evident from her early experience. Tian Pujun was not born in a famous family, and he also experienced a period of confusion and struggle in his early years. However, she has never given up her yearning for a better life and is willing to work hard for it. She knows very well that in this era of "looking at faces", beauty can be a stepping stone, but it cannot be a forever pass. If you want to gain a foothold in Vanity Fair, you still have to rely on strength to speak in the end.
2. Be good at learning and improve yourself:
In order to make up for his own shortcomings, Tian Pujun has always maintained the habit of studying. From going to Hong Kong to study acting in her early years, to studying in the United States later, she has never stopped learning. She not only learns professional knowledge, but also pays more attention to improving her inner cultivation and social skills. She is well-read, pays attention to current affairs, and is keen to participate in various high-end forums and lectures, constantly enriching herself and improving her knowledge and pattern.
3. Manage contacts and weave a network:
Tian Pujun is well versed in the truth that "connections are resources" and regards them as a "booster" for his career success. She is adept at taking advantage of various occasions to meet and build good relationships with celebrities from all walks of life. However, unlike those "social experts" who are keen on "mixing circles", Tian Pujun pays more attention to "precision" and "effectiveness" in managing contacts. She will selectively make friends with people who are helpful to her according to her needs and goals, and establish a long-term and stable relationship with them.
4. Good at packaging and creating personal IP:
In the era of information explosion, the creation of personal IP is particularly important. Tian Pujun is well versed in this, and she is good at using various platforms to showcase her talent and charm and build her own personal brand. She is not only Wang Shi's wife, but also an independent producer, columnist, and public welfare person, and her transformation of multiple identities has also made her more recognized and respected.
Conclusion: Live your own life and define success
Tian Pujun's road to success may not be replicated, but it can be used as a reference. Her experience tells us that women's success is not only about "marrying well". In today's society, women have more choices and opportunities, as long as you work hard enough, brave enough, and confident enough, you can also live your own wonderful life.
As for the doubts and criticisms, let them go with the wind. After all, life is your own, and you only need to be responsible for yourself.
As Tian Pujun himself said: "I'm not afraid of what others say about me, I just want to be myself and live my own wonderful life." ”
Information sources:
Securities Times2024-01-06Wang Shi: I have a 3-year-old daughter! talked about Tian Pujun, saying that he "pong" his daughter-in-law with a lot of money
Beijing Times2014-08-12Tian Pujun: I am richer than Wang Shi I may not be a worldly successful woman
Shangguan News2014-09-24Tian Pujun: True independence or false self-improvement