1.
The other day, my mom called me and asked me if I was having fun.
I haven't answered yet.
My dad said on the side: Girl, if you are not happy, go home, and Dad will raise you.
I quickly said that I was very happy to do it, and my employer also sent me a big red envelope during the Mid-Autumn Festival to reassure them.
The reason why my parents are so worried about me is because I do a different job than others.
In the eyes of many people, this is the work of serving.
In my eyes, it's a job to serve others.
Because I help a family, tutor two children in their studies, do housework, and cook.
I got acquainted with them in the first semester of my junior year.
The daughter of Sister Chen, the head of the household, has just entered the first grade of primary school and is looking for a tutor.
And I was the tutor who was recommended to come to the door and try to teach.
At that time, Sister Chen's daughter Duoduo began to learn pinyin, and the child had a hard time learning.
Before going to the trial lecture, I learned that the child had just entered the first grade of primary school, and I also looked up various skills on the Internet on how to teach children to learn pinyin.
Because of the lot of preparation I did, I was lucky enough to be hired.
Seeing that my daughter liked me, Sister Chen also asked me if I could teach English and mathematics.
I am very good at English, I passed the sixth level early, and when I heard this, Sister Chen was also very satisfied.
I'm a science student, and I don't know anything about math.
Since then, I have been home to help my children with their homework every weekend.
A month later, Sister Chen said that she was quite busy with work. Ask me if I can help with my children's homework every day.
Because of tutoring homework every day, she was about to break down. Seeing that it is easy for me to teach, she tutors by herself, and she can't help but want the Hedong lion to roar.
I took a look at my class schedule. It just so happened that semester that most of the classes were in the morning, and there weren't too many classes in the afternoon.
2.
Since then, I have taken over from Sister Chen and tutored Duoduo's homework every afternoon.
Duoduo whispered to me that she finally didn't have to be scolded.
She said that her father would rather take a new employee in the unit than help her with her homework.
Because Dad said that new employees can yell, but yelling at her, she will cry. Deferringly, or not, Dad is going to collapse. Mom is going to break down even more.
And, the more they yelled at her, the more confused she became.
I went to counseling, and Duoduo said that she felt very relaxed, and she didn't feel a lot of pressure from her parents.
Because in the eyes of her parents, there are some simple topics, if she can't do it, they will hate iron and steel. Whenever this happens, she feels like she is carrying two mountains on her back, which makes her breathless.
And I will encourage her, I will praise her, and I will make her feel fulfilled.
Duoduo's words also gave me a lot of encouragement, making me understand that being a good tutor is not only as simple as teaching children to learn something, but more importantly, paying attention to children's mental health.
So, at that time, I just went to the library and read some parenting books. Some books that are not available in the school library, so I go to the provincial library to borrow them.
The reason why I work so hard is that I really want to teach Duoduo well, and secondly, I want to form a long-term cooperative relationship with Sister Chen's family.
Because Sister Chen is still very generous in giving money. Even if Duoduo's midterm exam results are good, she will send me a red envelope reward.
That's what I use.
3.
I happened to be short of money at the time. Because my mom was sick and had breast cancer.
In order to treat her, the family's savings were all spent.
My dad was a high school teacher in a small county town, and my mom was a housewife.
Originally, I was planning to go to graduate school.
As soon as my mother fell ill and looked at my emaciated and old father, I began to understand that as an only daughter, the responsibility on my shoulders was very heavy.
As for the graduate school entrance examination, that is not the most important thing. Right now, what I want to do is to try not to ask my parents for money and finish college smoothly.
In addition, I also want to make more money to help my parents share the pressure.
Sister Chen gave me an hourly salary at the beginning, and since I went to tutor Duoduo every day, she gave me a monthly salary, 4,000 a month.
Tutor Duoduo with homework from Monday to Friday, and teach Duoduo English on Saturday.
At that time, this money was enough for my living expenses, and I could save most of it as tuition fees.
After working for a year, I got along very well with Sister Chen's family. Sometimes, on holidays, when they learn that I am not going back to my hometown, they will invite me to dinner at home.
In the first semester of my senior year, Duoduo's younger brother was also in the first grade of elementary school.
When Sister Chen asked me if I could come, she also tutored my brother's homework, and she gave me 8,000 a month.
Because Duoduo is under my guidance, she is the top few in the class in every exam, and her basic skills are very solid.
This treatment is already very good, and I am naturally willing.
Also, I'm not in a hurry to find a job.
4.
In order to better counsel my children, I also went to the home education instructor exam and took a course in adolescent psychological counseling.
Sister Chen saw that I taught seriously and loved learning so much, so she rewarded me even more. The most important thing is that her youngest son has also been taken well by me, and his grades are relatively high.
This exceeded the expectations of Sister Chen and her family.
In their eyes, the younger brother is more stupid, and as for studying, they can just keep up.
In the second semester of her senior year, Sister Chen's live-in nanny had to go back to her hometown to take her grandchildren, and she couldn't help them anymore. Sister Chen interviewed several housekeepers, but they were not satisfied.
One night, the children were hungry, and Sister Chen and her family were stranded at the airport because of the heavy rain.
I made simple meals for the kids based on the ingredients in the fridge. Sister Chen, she also asked me to stay with them.
That day, the children all said that my food was delicious and better than the original live-in nanny.
After Sister Chen came back, Duoduo proposed to her: My cooking is super delicious, otherwise, in the future, let me cook.
Sister Chen was surprised at first, she didn't expect that I would also cook.
I said that when I was a child, there were a few years when my dad was busy with work and had to lead the graduating class, so he didn't have time to take care of me. My mom worked in a factory to earn more money.
So, I made my own lunch when I went back.
During the winter and summer vacations, I also cook for my parents.
Slowly, the cooking skills came out. Complicated will not, simple home cooking, will be made.
5.
At Sister Chen's suggestion, I made them a few home-cooked dishes. She tasted it and loved it.
Sister Chen said that if I wanted, their family would cook and do housework, and I would take care of it.
Of course, they give me 15000 a month.
This salary is much higher than I expected. Naturally, I would like to.
Sister Chen and her family are very busy and don't often eat at home. Occasionally they would come back for dinner, and they would tell me in advance that I would cook two more dishes.
The key thing is that I am more flexible, and I usually go to online learning what the children want to eat. At any time, you can change some new tricks. The children also felt that it was fresh.
In order to serve them better and be worthy of their own salary. I also went to learn storage and baking.
In the face of my unlimited potential, in addition to the surprise, Sister Chen's treatment for me has also risen to 18,000, and the most important thing is that their company also pays me social security.
These are all things that Sister Chen took the initiative to put forward after learning about my specific situation.
She said that I exempted her from her worries, so that she could go on business trips, play with friends, and go on a date with her husband when she had nothing to do. Under my tutoring, the children have developed a lot of good habits despite their good grades.
Two children, both love to read, and they like to read with me when they have nothing to do.
They live on their own and have no problems at all. Sometimes, my sister and I would learn to bake.
Because of trust and busy work, Sister Chen also asked me to join the class group as the child's sister.
Usually, I am the one who needs to come forward to communicate with the teachers.
Of course, I take the initiative to communicate with the teachers every month and ask how the two children are doing at school.
When I learned of the situation, I would also take the initiative to communicate with Sister Chen, and they would cooperate.
My sister and brother both said that their classmates were very envious of them, because I tutored my homework, never yelled, and was very good at praising them. They were happy.
6.
Now, every Monday to Saturday, I accompany the children, and Sunday is Sister Chen's family day.
This Family Day is what I suggested. Because I think that, after all, they are the parents of their children, and they still need to find time to accompany their children.
On this day, I'll just have a good rest.
This past summer vacation, Sister Chen and her husband were talking about a big project, and she asked me to take the children to Beijing to play. Before booking the ticket, she gave me tens of thousands of dollars to take the children to have fun.
It's just that I did a lot of strategies, and I still have a lot of money left, and when I come back, I will give it all to her.
I know they trust me and I only take what I deserve.
When my parents learned about my job, they often worried, they thought that I was like this, and I couldn't work if I didn't work, and they were afraid that I wouldn't be able to accumulate work experience like everyone else.
I said, "I'm also a job, or a new profession."
What's more, the work I do is omnipotent.
In the future, even if Sister Chen's two children grow up, my ability is all there, and I can do better if I go to other families.
For the convenience of me picking up and dropping off the children, Sister Chen also let me drive the car she didn't drive.
My driver's license was not in vain. Of course, I also hired a sparring partner and practiced for a long time, just for safety.
Some time ago, Sister Chen's best friend also asked me to introduce her to someone as capable as me.
I introduced my best friend because she worked and only 4,000 yuan a month. However, there is only one child in that family, and I give my girlfriend 10,000 yuan a month, and I do these things.
My roommate is the same as me, and he has a reliable character, so I introduced him.
This job has a high income, and my girlfriends are naturally working hard. The family was also very happy with her.
7.
Actually, I feel that I am still very free to do this job.
After waking up early in the morning, preparing breakfast for the kids, and dropping them off at school, I went grocery shopping on the way back. Then, go back to do the housework, do the laundry, clean up, and in two hours, it will be done.
Generally speaking, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m., this time is my rest time and my charging time.
I listen to lectures, learn new things, and prepare for English lessons. Because I teach the children's English.
At four o'clock in the afternoon, I started to prepare the food, and after I got it ready, I went out to pick up the children.
When the children come back, they do their homework first, and I stir-fry.
I tutor them after no homework.
At present, the learning progress of the two sisters and brothers is not bad. Most of the homework is okay, but I also have to check and check from time to time.
After the homework is done, we will play ball in the yard, do activities, and then go to wash, read books, and sleep.
Life is regular.
At the moment, I just consider myself lucky for this job. Because the treatment is very good, I am happy to do my job and realize my value.
I'm not worried about the future, after all, I'm only 25 years old, not to mention my ability, I think it's adapted to social development, and the future won't be too bad.
Telling my story is also about providing new ideas for young people.
Two days ago, I also learned that we also have alumni who are doing housekeeping.
My university is a book, and it's okay, which shows that young people's attitudes are constantly changing.
According to what I know, college students' housekeeping, compared with other housekeeping, is paid a little higher, because we have active brains and flexible work, and young families also like to use us.
In fact, as long as we are willing to let go of the so-called face, there are still many opportunities.
What's more, it's all work, and no one is more noble than the other.
As long as I'm happy to do it, I personally think it's all good!