Marriage, with the bundle of a paper certificate, has to bear more responsibilities and risks.
Love can be broken off, but marriage can't.
How many people have no love for their partners, but they still insist on the consummation of their marriage?
How many people, due to various factors, maintain a broken marriage?
Love or not is no longer the key to deciding whether the marriage should be maintained or not. After all, marriage is not maintained by love.
Women, knowing that men have changed their minds, but do not divorce, are mostly due to this.
still has a little old affection for the man, looking forward to his change of heart
In the TV series "Ordinary Road", Lao Chunxue is a woman who lives a very sad life.
Her husband cheated on her three times and twice, and she chose to forgive.
She felt that her husband was just a playful person who would come back one day. Wait until he changes his mind.
But in the end, in exchange for the worsening of the injury, the husband cheated on his daughter's best friend, and also had a child with the other party.
Lao Chunxue chose to self-harm in exchange for her husband's sympathy, but the other party sent her money away, but she was unwilling to visit, and finally she was extremely disappointed and chose to die.
Men are affectionate, women are affectionate, and when they fall in love with someone, they will not give up easily.
Thinking of the old relationship, I look forward to the man being able to change his mind, and I am waiting for him to come back.
For the sake of the child, I want to give the child a complete home
I know a woman who knows that her husband is cheating, but she is unwilling to divorce in order to give her children a complete home.
She feels from the bottom of her heart that children need to have a father, a mother, and a complete family in order for their life to be complete.
I don't want my children to grow up in a fatherless family and be looked down upon and ridiculed by others.
So, maintain a superficial husband and wife with a man, and play intimacy in front of the children.
For women, children are their lives, and they are willing to give their children all their love and give everything.
Even if I am disappointed in my husband and feel disgusting together, I am willing to endure it again and again for the sake of my children.
Dependent on men, it is difficult for strength to support life after divorce
In the TV series "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun chose to humbly seek peace when she learned that her husband Chen Junsheng was cheating and the other party insisted on divorce.
knew that the other party had betrayed her, but she still begged the other party not to divorce, not because of much love, but because she couldn't afford the life after the divorce.
Pampered, Mrs. Kuo has been a wife for a long time, and she has long been out of touch with society and has no ability to live independently.
Dependent on men, the strength cannot support the life after the divorce, and there are children to support, such a situation makes many women choose to retreat.
Without financial resources, women will have no confidence, and can only humbly seek peace and retain the current status quo of life.
looks down on marriage, lives with everyone else, and is disappointed in love
Marriage is the same as living with anyone, but it is just a life together.
Men are all the same, and if they are unreliable, they may betray them.
Women who can think like this are very negative and sober.
I have no expectations for love and marriage, but I just live on wontons.
Looking for the next one after the divorce may not be more loyal to yourself, it may not be as good as the current one.
I'm too lazy to re-acquaint myself with new people, re-adapt to a new marriage, anyway, it's just a good thing to turn a blind eye.
Love and love have long been seen through, and there is no passion in life, just make do.
The word divorce is really not just a casual talk, it is easy to say but difficult to do.
Wanting to end a marriage is by no means so easy, there are many considerations and obstacles.
I never advise people to divorce because I know the intricacies behind it.
But I hope that we can all live up to ourselves, listen to our hearts, make decisions that we think are right, and don't regret them.