Broad is too annoying, the middle class has the suffering of the middle class, and the bottom has the difficulty of the bottom!
In the hit drama "Mortal Song", when Bai Hanning, who married into a wealthy family, was caught by Shen Lin and dismissed, he made a bold statement: With this salary, it is not enough to buy cosmetics for the old lady. The old lady is gone, I wish you to work until you die!
But now in the deep mansion compound of a wealthy family, depression and grievances are obviously not as happy as Shen Lin, who was the sister-in-law of the month.
Shen Lin went from being a human resources director with a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan to just going home and giving birth to a child, and after 5 years, she couldn't even find a job with a monthly salary of 6,000!
In order to survive, Shen Lin kept going down, and then down. She used to speak sonorously and powerfully, with delicate makeup, and walk with the wind; But now, I can only abandon my family and my children to be a confinement lady and show my children to others!
Is it because Shen Lin doesn't work hard? Is it because she doesn't like to study? Is it because she can't let go of her body? No, she let go of her dignity and bent down, but life just refused to spare her. Even if she is involved at the bottom and goes to be a confinement lady, life still refuses to let her go!
The first employer of the confinement sister-in-law turned out to be a former colleague of her original company, and she personally opened this patron Bai Hanning back then. Now she slapped her face and came to be Bai Hanning's confinement sister-in-law to help her take care of the child. It's embarrassing to think about this scene.
However, because it was Bai Hanning's mother-in-law who paid the money and interviewed her, of course her mother-in-law didn't know the origin between the two of them, and asked Bai Hanning, "What about this person?" ”
Of course, Bai Hanning was not happy, and he wanted to step on her to death.
Of course, now that the high-ranking human resources director has been able to be her confinement sister-in-law, it is enough to make Bai Hanning ridicule in her heart for a while.
However, before Bai Hanning could express her position, her two daughters made a fuss downstairs, she and her mother-in-law were busy pulling the rack, and her son was crying upstairs again.
Shen Lin picked up the child and coaxed her out of her mother's heart, but she didn't expect that maybe Shen Lin's motherhood infected the child, and the child actually fell asleep in her arms.
When her mother-in-law heard her daughter-in-law Bai Hanning talk about the previous festival between the two, she also hesitated, afraid that Shen Lin would be bad to the child.
However, after the two went upstairs, they found that the child was very relieved in her arms, which made this strong mother-in-law very happy and insisted on keeping Shen Lin.
Bai Hanning saw that this strong mother-in-law was also afraid of three points, so she was silent.
Of course, Shen Lin also had concerns, afraid that Bai Hanning would deliberately make things difficult for her, and her life would not be easy. But she can't take the initiative not to do it, the confinement center has rules for introducing work, if you pick and choose, the confinement center will not recommend good resources to you!
If she does, she may have to continue without income for a while. Besides, my mother-in-law's salary is still very high, with a salary of 12,000, which is quite good.
Therefore, even if Shen Lin has a hundred reluctances in his heart, he will fight for himself in the face of money.
So, she sincerely told Bai Hanning, telling her to rest assured, she didn't have to worry about being bad, and she would definitely take care of her son.
What Shen Lin didn't expect was that she encountered a problem on the first day of work.
The mother-in-law didn't seem to care about Bai Hanning's body and rest at all, as well as whether her appetite was good or not, but kept her three words about breastfeeding, and it seemed that all her energy revolved around one thing: her grandson hadn't drunk breast milk for the fifth day.
Therefore, all of Bai Hanning's meals were to drink soup, and she wanted to vomit when she drank it, but her mother-in-law was still dissatisfied with Bai Hanning who had no milk, and she was all blamed!
Bai Hanning wanted to eat some appetizing dishes, but her mother-in-law didn't let her, so she could only swallow her anger.
Shen Lin was caught in the middle, not knowing who to listen to, so embarrassed.
At night, Shen Lin had to take care of the children and live in a room with Bai Hanning.
Because Bai Hanning didn't sleep well, he took the initiative to chat with Shen Lin.
Bai Hanning asked Shen Lin if she was abandoned by her husband and came out to be a confinement wife? Shen Lin said no, we're fine!
Bai Hanning asked again, did he give up his high-paying job in order to go home and have a son and stabilize his husband? Shen Lin said, no, whether it is a son or a daughter, she wants to have two!
Bai Hanning babbled about himself over the years, living to be forty years old, as if he was giving birth to children in addition to studying, complaining that his stomach was not angry, first gave birth to two girls, her husband and mother-in-law were patriarchal, and she had thought about divorce and taking away her two daughters, but she had no ability to support her two daughters.
If she doesn't take away her two daughters after the divorce, then her husband will immediately remarry and have sons with other women, and her two daughters will be discriminated against, so she will endure it.
I didn't want to have a third child at all, but in order to improve the status of the family, I went to fight for a third child, and finally gave birth to a son, so I felt relieved! But I'm in my 40s......
But this suffocating mother-in-law originally used to spend 100,000 yuan to go to the confinement center for confinement after giving birth to a child, but later refused, saying that she had no money.
In the middle of the night, Shen Lin made milk powder for the child, but was reprimanded by the baby's grandmother! Give your child breast milk!
The next morning, Shen Lin heard Bai Hanning crying in the bathroom. Sister Chen, the nanny, later told Shen Lin that it was really not easy for Bai Hanning, she had a hard time in this family, and she was actually a fertility machine for a wealthy family, as for how many to give birth to, and to give birth to boys and girls, it was up to her mother-in-law to decide.
At the time of 4 months of pregnancy, after the fetal sex was determined, it was confirmed that the boy had sealed his belly, otherwise Bai Hanning would have to give birth all the time. If Bai Hanning refuses to have another child, her husband will have to find a woman outside to give birth!
Bai Hanning's marriage does not have the slightest warmth of husband and wife, she is a machine for the wealthy family to continue the incense, her husband doesn't care about her at all, he just thinks that she is idle at home, so she can't do it.
Such a seemingly glamorous wealthy lady seems to be no better than Shen Lin's life as a confinement lady.
Zhang Ailing once said profoundly: "No matter how a woman is in a country and city, talented, or graceful, once she chooses to beg with her palm upwards in a posture of dependence, at that moment, she will lose the position of self-domination." ”
Bai Hanning in "Mortal Song" is a true and vivid portrayal. She also tried to resist in order to resign from the confinement sister-in-law and resist the strong intervention of her mother-in-law, but she had no financial ability, her husband's position was offset, and she also realized that economic status is what determines the status of the family!
Looking at Shen Lin again, although she went from a monthly salary of 20,000 yuan to a monthly salary of 6,000, and then to a sister-in-law of the month, serving others, her life has changed from glamorous to trivial, but her world is enriched by love - her husband's affection, her mother-in-law's understanding, children's laughter, and parents' care......
These are enough to make her every day, although full of hard work, but full of the sweetness and satisfaction of being loved.
In "Mortal Song", Shen Lin is not the saddest protagonist.
Bai Hanning is the most resentful woman in the deep boudoir.