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preface
In 1990, 24-year-old He Zhengjun went to Yunnan to shoot a TV series. At that time, he was already a young actor who graduated from Chinese opera, but he was still unknown, living a life like a passerby. However, this time the location shooting has brought his life into a new trajectory.
At the start-up ceremony, an outstanding-looking hostess appeared in He Zhengjun's field of vision. She was Fan Yu, a new host of Yunnan TV at that time. The graceful and intelligent atmosphere gives people a charm that is difficult to let go.
He Zhengjun, who was standing in the crowd, was deeply attracted by the hostess's demeanor. An unprecedented impulse prompted him to take the initiative to get closer to this beautiful but unconventional woman.
Although his shy and introverted personality made He Zhengjun look clumsy in the opening remarks, Fan Yu saw through his simplicity and kindness, and the two met and met. From that day on, a romantic marriage chapter slowly kicked off.
March is full of foam
In just three months of filming, the relationship between the two quickly warmed up. After work, He Zhengjun often invited Fan Yu to play together. The two of them strolled through the beautiful local town, had a picnic in a quiet park, and occasionally chartered a singing inn for easy entertainment.
The more they got along, the more He Zhengjun was impressed by Fan Yu's wisdom and kindness. And Fan Yu was also attracted by this young man's humility, courtesy, enthusiasm and simplicity. So, despite the differences in age and background, a wonderful force of fate still pulled the two together.
When the filming period was about to end, He Zhengjun finally twisted the stem and outline of history and proposed to his favorite beauty. Although the economic conditions of the two were still very average at that time, the love at first sight was already in love with each other and the concubine was intended, which made them full of beautiful hopes for the future.
So, under the witness of all the crew, the two entered the palace and opened a new chapter in their lives hand in hand. No one thought that this was just a beautiful beginning, and more trials and sufferings awaited them.
The road of struggle is long, hand in hand to walk
After getting married, Fan Yu, who has a gentle and considerate personality, took the initiative to retire from home and became He Zhengjun's strongest backing. She is in charge of the new family's business, getting up early every day and taking care of the housework, giving her husband the greatest support and understanding.
Despite the embarrassment of life, Fan Yu has never been obsessed with it. At that time, He Zhengjun had not yet become famous, his income was meager, and the family of three could only rely on each other in a rental house. But as a strong woman, she did not complain about the poor environment, but worked hard to create a good living environment for her husband.
In contrast, He Zhengjun is much more immature. In order to share his wife's housework burden, in addition to working hard to make money from filming, he will also take the initiative to do some "feminine" housework, such as cooking, cleaning, and even teaching himself sewing skills.
Whenever he did all this and saw his wife's gentle eyes, he would feel happier than ever. Young people's minds are very simple, as long as they can get along with their wives, they are willing to be happy even if they are poor.
Although life is poor, the two never want to give up. They snuggled up tightly together, and used their diligence and perseverance to fight hard to create a world of their own.
The greatest joy comes from the birth of a daughter. After the cute little guy came to this world, He Zhengjun and Fan Yu's lives had a new meaning and sustenance. In order to give children a good environment for growth, they live and work more diligently.
Especially Fan Yu, who completely gave up his career after the birth of his daughter, and devoted all his energy to his family and children. I worked day and night, but I never complained, but enjoyed it. And when He Zhengjun is filming in the crew every day, his wife and daughter often appear in his mind, which has undoubtedly become his biggest motivation.
It is with each other's support and tolerance that this ordinary couple has been able to overcome the obstacles of life. Although the process is quite difficult, the joy and happiness in my heart are always pure and beautiful.
Bitter and sweet, career take-off
In 2007, He Zhengjun suffered a heavy blow in his life. The death of his beloved father, which brought him great mental trauma. Once lost, he was mired in the quagmire of darkness.
The only pillar around him is his wife Fan Yu. She understands her husband's pain, patiently heals his wounds, and constantly cheers him on in her own unique way. It was his wife's spiritual sustenance that allowed He Zhengjun to finally rekindle his hope for life and get out of the haze.
Since then, he has devoted himself to his career. He worked hard to shoot every drama and won more and more people's appreciation with his professionalism. It wasn't until 2007 that he played the role of Political Commissar Zhao in the TV series "Bright Sword", and finally became a blockbuster with his outstanding performance and became a great success.
People talked about the superb acting skills of this "drama bone" actor and spoke highly of him. And seeing her husband's shining figure on the big screen, Fan Yu was extremely proud in her heart. Her husband's years of hard work have finally paid off, and this joy undoubtedly belongs to her.
It is with the spiritual support of his wife Fan Yu that He Zhengjun was able to regain his confidence at a low point and finally achieve a take-off in his life. Without his wife's support, his career might have died and never shined.
epilogue
In the blink of an eye, time flies. The young couple who fell in love with each other back then have been together for more than 30 years. Along the way, they were full of stumbles and thorns, but in the end, they wrote a rare story with sincere love and tenacious character.
The years are ruthless, and they have added some traces of time to He Zhengjun's face. But whenever he looks back, his heart is still full of happiness and gratitude. Because, his wife Fan Yu is like a flame that will never be extinguished, warming his heart and illuminating his life journey.
This once energetic and beautiful woman is now a mother and a wife, but in her husband's heart, she will always be the smart figure when they first met. Without her, He Zhengjun would not have what he has achieved today; Without her, he would not have been able to have this hard-won happiness.
Today's Fan Yu has already given all his energy to his family and children. She is dedicated, has no regrets, and loves the family in her own unique way. And He Zhengjun also repaid his wife's deep love for him with his diligence and hard work.
Whenever asked what the happiest thing is, this once smash hit movie star will answer with a smile on his eyebrows: "It's a life with his wife and a beautiful life!"
His answer may seem ordinary, but between the lines, you can feel the deep love for his wife. This kind of love is not blind exclusivity, but a kind of admiration and gratitude to his wife from the heart. It is precisely because of his wife's support and tolerance that he can wholeheartedly pursue his artistic career, and eventually become what people call a "drama bone" actor.
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