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In 2024, another addition will be made to the chronicle of the entertainment industry, and this time the protagonist is Huang Xiaoming again.
After only two years of leaving, he got along with Internet celebrity Ye Ke, and announced it with great fanfare.
As soon as the news was released, the comment area exploded, and everyone began to speculate about Ye Ke's origins.
However, what is more eye-catching than the identity background is Ye Ke's appearance - big eyes, high nose bridge, and standard "goddess" configuration, which is very similar to Huang Xiaoming's "white moonlight" Zhao Wei in college.
For a while, entries such as "stand-in" and "difficult to peace" rushed to the hot search, pushing Huang Xiaoming to the forefront of public opinion.
This turmoil is not so much a trial of a new relationship, but a concentrated examination of Huang Xiaoming's emotional patterns over the years.
From the sensational "wedding of the century" to today's new love and old love, Huang Xiaoming has not walked smoothly on this road.
On this road, Zhao Wei has always been inseparable.
From campus crush to "Century Wedding", Huang Xiaoming's love ups and downs
The story takes place at the Beijing Film Academy in the 90s of the last century.
At that time, Huang Xiaoming was still a young and ignorant teenager, with a vision for his acting career, and stepped into the ivory tower of his dreams.
At that time, Zhao Wei was very famous in school, and her smart eyes and cheerful personality made her the focus of everyone's attention.
In 1996, Huang Xiaoming and Zhao Wei became classmates in the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy.
Perhaps it was fate, Huang Xiaoming fell in love with Zhao Wei at first sight, and this feeling, like a sprout breaking through the ground in spring, quietly grew in the heart of a young man.
In fact, from the beginning, he knew that he was just silently liking her.
Zhao Wei's pursuit of Huang Xiaoming has always maintained a polite distance, and only regards him as a friend.
Huang Xiaoming has always loved Zhao Wei deeply, even if he has been rejected repeatedly.
He has been silently guarding Zhao Wei, solving problems for her like a knight, and worrying about her in everything.
However, this affection has never been able to knock on Zhao Wei's heart.
"Deep Love and Rain" made Zhao Wei popular again in 2001, and her career also went to the next level.
At that time, Huang Xiaoming was still in the entertainment industry and was not famous.
The huge gap in their careers indicates that this relationship may not be smooth sailing.
In 2003, "The Son of Heaven" allowed Huang Xiaoming to gain a firm foothold in the entertainment industry.
has a successful career, but still feels that something is missing emotionally.
Over the years, Zhao Wei has always been an untouchable pain in Huang Xiaoming's heart, and it is also the white moonlight he will never forget.
In 2008, Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy met because of the movie "The Wind", and the two quickly fell in love.
After this relationship was made public, it immediately became popular.
Angelababy quickly became popular with her beautiful looks and mixed-race temperament, and became one of the most popular female stars at that time.
In 2015, Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy held a wedding in Shanghai, which became a sensation and became the most concerned event in the entertainment industry that year.
After marriage, Huang Xiaoming doted on Angelababy in every way, not only buying a mansion and a luxury car for her, but also often showing affection in public, proving that the relationship between the two was as sweet as ever.
But this marriage is not so fairytale.
After getting married, Angelababy's career is getting better and better, and now she is very independent.
Huang Xiaoming's popularity is not as good as before, and his image of a "domineering president" in the past is now greasy because of his acting style, and many people don't like it anymore.
In January last year, Huang Xiaoming and Angelababy divorced, ending their seven-year marriage.
Accounts differ about the breakdown of the marriage.
Regarding the end of Angelababy and Huang Xiaoming's marriage, some people feel that Baby is too desperate for his career and can't take care of his family; Some people also think that Huang Xiaoming's machismo makes Baby breathless.
Comparing Angelababy and Ye Ke, who is Huang Xiaoming's true love?
Take a closer look at Huang Xiaoming's ex-wife Angelababy and current wife Ye Ke, and you will find that they are really a bit similar to Zhao Wei.
's delicate facial features, elegant temperament, and goddess-like aura all seem to confirm Huang Xiaoming's obsession with "white moonlight".
However, under careful study, Angelababy and Ye Ke have completely different personalities and destiny trajectories.
Angelababy, an ordinary girl from Hong Kong, has climbed to the top of the entertainment industry step by step with her own efforts and opportunities.
She knows the routines of the entertainment industry very well, and knows how to promote her strengths and avoid weaknesses, make herself famous, and get good resources.
In her marriage to Huang Xiaoming, Angelababy has always maintained an independent personality, she works hard, actively expands her career territory, and is never willing to be a canary attached to men.
But Huang Xiaoming may feel that her independent personality seems a little cold and even a little strong.
Huang Xiaoming is used to acting as a domineering president, and in private he actually likes a gentle and considerate wife.
Angelababy's strong independence may make Huang Xiaoming feel a little uncomfortable.
Compared with Angelababy's strength, Ye Ke is more introverted.
As an Internet celebrity, Ye Ke does not have the strong career ambition of Angelababy, she is more willing to enjoy life, gather with friends, travel, share food, and show the quiet appearance of the years on social platforms.
This attitude to life coincides with Huang Xiaoming's image of a "man who cares for the family".
However, does Ye Ke's "gentleness" and "low-keyness" mean that she is willing to be Huang Xiaoming's "accessory"?
The answer may not be so simple.
Ye Ke's social account revealed that she has experienced a lot.
High-profile show of affection and living in the same community with Angelababy seem to hint at her ambition to challenge the status of "Zhenggong".
Angelababy and Ye Ke, one is strong and independent, the other is gentle and considerate, but they both finally parted ways with Huang Xiaoming.
This may show that in love, the similarity of appearance does not represent everything, and the fit of personality and the resonance of the soul are the key to maintaining a long-term relationship.
Huang Xiaoming's love puzzle: Is he obsessed with Bai Yueguang, or is he trapped in the circle of stand-in?
Why is Huang Xiaoming obsessed with "Zhao Wei face"?
Is it affectionate or evasive?
Huang Xiaoming's emotional experience is like a love movie with ups and downs, and "Zhao Wei's face" has become a metaphor throughout.
From Angelababy to Ye Ke, similar looks and different fates all point to the same question: why is Huang Xiaoming so obsessed with "Zhao Wei's face"?
Is it unforgettable affection, or is it subconscious evasion?
The feeling of first love can affect us for a long time.
For many people, first love is like a seed, buried deep in the heart, even after ups and downs, it will still quietly sprout at some point.
Huang Xiaoming's admiration for Zhao Wei began when he was young and ignorant on campus, when he was young and enthusiastic, and poured all his love and worship into Zhao Wei.
Although this relationship did not come to an end, it became his eternal thought, and it also changed his view of the relationship in the future.
In addition to the first love complex, the "idealized" concept of love is also one of the reasons why Huang Xiaoming is obsessed with "Zhao Wei's face".
In Huang Xiaoming's love world, Zhao Wei is the embodiment of the perfect goddess and the unattainable dream lover.
He longs to have a romantic and perfect love like an idol drama, and "Zhao Wei face" has become a projection of perfect love in his heart.
Love is not like a fairy tale, nor is it like in a TV series.
Love is like planting a tree, it requires two people to water and fertilize together, understand each other, and grow together.
Too idealistic love often only brings disappointment.
In addition to personal psychology, the influence of the social environment is also important.
In traditional social concepts, men are often given the label of "infatuation", while women are expected to be "gentle and virtuous".
It is generally believed that men are more unrestrained and enthusiastic in expressing their feelings, while women are more reserved and introverted.
Huang Xiaoming has expressed his admiration for Zhao Wei many times in public, and this "infatuated" image has won him a lot of goodwill, but it has also trapped him in the "affectionate personality".
In order to maintain this kind of personality, he needs to constantly look for a partner similar to "Bai Yueguang" to prove his "infatuation".
However, this kind of "performative" love is difficult to last after all.
The heat has passed, and the camouflage can't be maintained, only the tired and empty are left.
Huang Xiaoming, who is deeply trapped in the shadow of "white moonlight", can he find true happiness?
Huang Xiaoming's emotional experience reflects the love problems of many stars in the entertainment industry and even ordinary people.
We are always looking for the "perfect" lover, but we forget that the true meaning of love is not perfection, but acceptance and tolerance.
For Huang Xiaoming, if he wants to get out of the shadow of "white moonlight" and find true happiness, the first thing to do is to break the strange circle of "stand-in" and face up to the true desire in his heart.
Love is not a copy and paste, nor is it a compromise, but to find the person who can connect with your heart and spend your life together.
Secondly, let go of the past and cherish the people in front of you.
The love and hatred of the past are all gone.
Don't always think about the past, cherish the people around you, and manage the current relationship with your heart.
Finally, it is necessary to jump out of the "idol drama"-style love fantasy and embrace real and ordinary happiness.
Love is not an alliance, nor is it a fanfare, but a companionship of a long stream, and mutual support in ordinary days.
Conclusion: There is no standard answer to love, and everyone has the right to choose happiness
Huang Xiaoming's love story continues.
What his future holds, we do not know, and we have no right to comment on his decision.
Hopefully, he can learn from this and find his own happiness.
Happy love, there is no single model, everyone has the right to choose their own happiness.
Whether you are obsessed with "white moonlight" or looking for a "soul mate", as long as you follow your inner voice and pursue it bravely, I believe that everyone can find their own happy home.
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