Who would have thought that a seemingly ordinary home environment could show such a "wonderful" dirty and messy scene?
When I saw those real-life photos posted by netizens, I was really a little powerless to complain.
Dirty and messy has become a way of life, and it is surprisingly "common".
Let's take a look at these stories, I promise, will make you sigh and want to eat melons at the same time......
1. My mother-in-law's house is full of clutter, and I want to "get started" and clean up when I meet for the first time
Netizen No. 1's trip to her mother-in-law's house became a "shadow" in her heart.
When I met my mother-in-law for the first time, I wanted to behave sensibly and decently, but as soon as I entered the door, the floor was full of all kinds of items, including shoes and magazine bags.
She smiled and greeted, but her heart was already crazy: "How the hell is this living?" "The living room is full of clutter, and even the place to settle has become a challenge.
It is said that the first meeting should leave a good impression on the elders, however, in the face of such a scene, she only thinks about it: "Isn't this really uncomfortable?" Wouldn't it be rude if I didn't do it? ”
In the end, she couldn't hold back and helped her mother-in-law tidy it up.
Although the whole process made her feel very "decompressed", she secretly swore that she would not want to stay in such a home for a second.
2. The mother picked up the rags and became addicted, and the daughter-in-law gave up directly because she "couldn't fight".
The No. 2 netizen shared that people felt the helplessness behind the "dirty mess".
She said that her mother-in-law had a special hobby: picking up things. Whether it's worth it or not, the mother-in-law thinks she should "reuse".
Every day, the house is full of miscellaneous items she has picked up, and even the ground is almost out of sight.
In her words: "I don't know, I thought my house was a rag." ”
She bitterly stated that she repeated the cycle of "cleaning up" and "being angry" all day long.
She threw it, and her mother-in-law picked it up, threw it again, and continued to pick it up.
Although she has repeatedly communicated with her husband and mother-in-law, this habit that has been cultivated for decades is even more "solid" than housework.
The house of 200,000 has also become a utility room, I really don't know how long she can last.
3. After Mom died, Dad turned his home into a "memory museum" by himself
The story of netizen No. 3 is poignant. Since Mom's death, Dad has lived alone in the old house.
Every time she marries away and goes home to visit relatives, Lele feels a wave in her heart. It is said to be a home, but in fact, it is more like a "memory museum".
Mom's old clothes, shoes, and miscellaneous items are piled up. Lele pushed the door in, saw the mess of that place, and couldn't see his father's tears, but they flowed in front of this scene.
Maybe Dad didn't want to touch those things, and felt that throwing them away meant saying goodbye completely.
In a sense, this "dirty" is somewhat a different kind of remembrance and longing for the deceased relatives.
Lele didn't blame too much, just silently accepted this fact, after all, this state of life is emotionally speaking, and she is powerless to change.
4. Looking at a house and buying a house, I was surprised to see that the "garbage heap" is worth 5 million?
If you think that dirty mess is just a habit of life, then the experience of viewing the house shared by netizen No. 4 makes you doubt life.
5 million house, I wanted to see if I could get it, but I didn't expect that as soon as she stepped into the door, the scene in front of her really stunned her and the intermediary.
From the hallway to the living room, everything is piled up with all kinds of miscellaneous items.
Clothes, books, plastic bags, and all kinds of tools were scattered like a kaleidoscope, and she didn't even dare to go inside the bedroom door.
Listening to the intermediary's prompt "the house is a little messy", I didn't expect this "a little" to be so exaggerated.
She complained and left in amazement, but who would have thought that such a house could be sold?
She said faintly: "Perhaps, people are not buying a house, it is a garbage dump." ”
5. Four years after the divorce, even the children can't stand it
Netizen No. 5 shared a home where her ex-husband lived alone for four years after his divorce.
When she went to pick up the children's clothes, she walked into the living room and saw images that she almost thought she had strayed into the ruins: garbage everywhere, greasy pots and pans on the kitchen countertops as if they had never been washed, oil drums emptied, cockroaches rampant.
The wooden floor was covered with dirt, and there was a smell of decay in the air.
Seeing this, the child couldn't help but say, "My dad doesn't cook for a week, and the leftovers on the pot table are enough for him to eat for several days." ”
She replied with a wry smile, and couldn't help but secretly rejoice in her heart: "Fortunately, I left, otherwise this mess would have crushed me sooner or later." ”
6. Mom's "bottles and cans" have become a permanent landscape in the kitchen
Netizen No. 6 fled from home not because of family conflicts, but because he was really helpless against his mother's kitchen that had not been cleaned for several years.
Her mom is very good at hoarding all kinds of bottles and cans, especially kitchen spices.
Once, she saw with her own eyes that there were a few small flying insects flying in the vinegar bottle, but the bottles were still well placed on the table, and even her mother planned to continue using them.
Xiaole couldn't help but remind a few words, but her mother's attitude was resolute: "If it's not broken, don't throw it away." ”
Pots and pans are piled up in the corners of the kitchen, and the stove has not seen a cleaner in I don't know how many years.
Every time she came home, she felt a sense of horror, and her attempts to help her mother clean up were always rejected.
In the end, she chose not to be out of sight and out of mind, and went back a few times.
7. Teaching Mother-in-law's "Material Limit Challenge"
The 140-square-meter house of netizen No. 7's mother-in-law's house was used by her to pile up all kinds of items.
The mother-in-law turned out to be the school's dean, but after retiring, this "intellectual" became the "director of the museum of miscellaneous objects".
The four rooms of the house, the living room, and even the kitchen are full of books, old clothes, and all kinds of messes.
To say that she is living is not so much to find a trace of pleasure in the extreme challenges of materialism.
Xiaodou described that every time he went back to his mother-in-law's house, it was like walking through a maze of debris, and the fatter people even had to cross the corridor sideways.
The coffee table in the living room is completely unclear, and the meal can only be solved by standing with a bowl, and the dining table has long become a display shelf. She herself didn't understand how her mother-in-law had lived in such an environment for so many years.
8. The university dormitory is "cow ghosts, snakes, and gods", and it is too much to stay for one night
After the 8th netizen lived in the university dormitory, he found out that the dirty mess was not just a family problem.
The boys' dormitory is a "garbage dump", with all kinds of wrappers and drink bottles piled up on the floor.
She and her female roommate also could not escape the "disaster", one of the female classmates with exquisite makeup, but she completely let herself go in life.
Cosmetics and food packaging are scattered on the desk, and expired skincare products are intertwined, and there is no tidy area in the wardrobe.
In the end, Mu Mu couldn't stand this environment, so he could only move out of the dormitory and rent a room outside.
9. At the grandmother's house where the "smell of urine is permeated", the daughter-in-law quietly wept
On the 9th, netizens went back to their grandmother's house for the New Year, but they were stunned by a strong smell of urine.
It turned out to be a child at home, because it was cold in winter, and the toilet was too far away, so he urinated directly on the ground and didn't even pick up a container.
The cement floor of this old house has long been full of urine, and there is a lingering smell all over the house.
She has always been strong on weekdays, but she covered her nose and cried that night.
As for the quilt at grandma's house, it has long been so stinky that it can't be covered anymore.
10. 17 years of life in the "garbage mountain".
Finally, netizen No. 10 shared a distressing story: she spent 17 years in such a home that was almost flooded with garbage. This home is not only a dirty and messy nest, but also a reality in which her struggle is fruitless.
Growing up, her living space was almost squeezed by belongings. The room was littered with all sorts of old clothes, cardboard boxes, plastic bags, and countless worn-out miscellaneous items, and every attempt to clean it up was met with an indifferent and even violent reaction.
I want to resist but can't do it, and my youth is spent in this endless mountain of garbage.
She admits that every time she comes home, she feels depressed, and the air is filled with an unbearable musty smell and the smell of debris.
In 17 years of patience, she experienced too much powerlessness, and finally she only had one goal left - to grow up as soon as possible, escape from this life full of "garbage", and start her own clean life again.
Write at the end
After reading the sharing of these netizens, it was really a spiritual shock and impact.
Dirty mess is not only cluttered on the outside, but also reflects the contradictions between many family members, emotional entanglements and the inability to change their lifestyles.
Sometimes, as bystanders, it is easy for us to feel puzzled or even helpless, "Why would anyone want to live in such an environment?" "But when you really dig into it, you find that a lot of the situations are not that simple.
Everyone's definition and standard of "home" is different, and some people's home may seem lawless, but it may be a refuge and safe haven for their emotions.
And for those who are forced to live in this environment, escaping or changing the environment seems to be their deepest inner calling.
However, then again, life still needs to be orderly and comfortable.
If you have been like these netizens, facing the mess but powerless to change, you might as well try to start small. A clean and tidy home can bring peace of mind and happiness to people, and make life brighter.
After all, who doesn't want to come home every day with a fresh and warm place to live?
But if you really can't change it – then stay away, after all, not all "bad circumstances" can be redeemed by love and patience.
There are times in life when leaving is another relief.
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