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Tired birds do not want to return to their nests: when "life" is no longer inevitable
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As the sunset fills the city, Lili, a young white-collar worker, returns home with her tired body in tow, a rented apartment of less than 30 square meters, but carrying all her hopes for the future
"When to get married? When to have children? The phone screen flashed with a message from her mother, like an invisible pressure, which made her breathless, getting married, having children, these choices that were once regarded as the only way in life, but now they are like boulders, weighing her breathlessly
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Data show that the global average fertility rate has dropped from 5 children in the middle of the last century to 2.4 today, and some countries and regions have even fallen below 1.5
The once lively big family is now becoming more and more deserted, and when "birth" is no longer inevitable, we can't help but ask: what is it that makes the tired bird reluctant to return to the nest?
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The Bondage of the Golden Wire Cage: The High Cost of Childbirth
In first-tier cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, high housing prices and high education costs are like invisible mountains, overwhelming young people
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"Raising a child, from birth to college graduation, it costs at least millions" In the circle of friends, a novice father posted a childcare bill, which attracted a sigh, milk powder, diapers, early education classes, interest classes...... Every expenditure is like a bottomless pit that eats away at the energy and savings of young parents
In order to provide a better life for their children, many parents have to work hard and sacrifice time with their children
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When childbirth becomes a heavy economic burden, when children are no longer the crystallization of love, but synonymous with "money shredder", how can we blame young people for not wanting to give birth and not daring to give birth?
Angels with Folded Wings: Women's Choices and Dilemmas
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With the development of society, women are becoming more and more educated, and they are becoming more and more outstanding in the workplace, but childbirth has often become a hurdle on the road of women's career development
"After giving birth, I was transferred to an idle job, and my income was not as good as before," a working mother said helplessly
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Childbirth not only means that women have to leave the workplace temporarily, but also means that they have to spend a lot of time and energy to take care of their children, which will undoubtedly affect their career development and personal value realization
With career pursuits on the one hand and family responsibilities on the other, many women struggle between the two and end up having to make difficult choices
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The Reconstruction of the Spiritual Home: The Value Pursuit of the New Generation
Compared with their parents, contemporary young people grew up in an environment with relatively favorable material conditions, and they pay more attention to the enrichment of the spiritual world and the realization of self-worth
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"I don't want to sacrifice my life for the sake of my children, I want to see the world while I'm young and pursue my dreams," says one girl who chose Dink
Travel, photography, learning new skills...... Today's young people are devoting more time and energy to personal interests and self-improvement, and they are pursuing a more free and diverse lifestyle, and childbearing is no longer a must on the life list
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The master is in the folk: the "fertility scripture" from netizens
On today's headlines, the topic of childbirth can always trigger heated discussions among netizens, and some people ridiculed: "Raising children now is more difficult than learning from Tang monks!" There are also people who seriously share their own birth experiences and give advice to new parents
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"Having a child, just do what you can" A netizen's comment received many likes, childbearing is a personal choice, we should respect everyone's decision, and should not use moral or social pressure to kidnap anyone
Choices in the Tide of the Times: Where Do We Go From Here?
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The decline in the global fertility rate is an inevitable trend of social development and a manifestation of the progress of human civilization
The government should introduce more policies to encourage childbirth, such as providing childcare subsidies and improving the parental leave system, to reduce the pressure on young parents, and the society should also create a more child-friendly atmosphere to provide more support and help for women, so that they can enjoy the happiness of childbirth while balancing family and career
For individuals, childbirth is an important life choice, and we should make rational decisions based on our actual situation and values, rather than blindly following the trend or succumbing to external pressure
We believe that with the joint efforts of the government, society and individuals, we will be able to find a path that can not only meet individual needs but also promote the harmonious development of society, so that every child can grow up healthily in an environment full of love and hope
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