Author: Xiao Huaiyu
"My Loyalty, My Life" – April 25
Editor's Note:
A few days ago, the editor was unwell and his inspiration was poor, so he "bid farewell" to the editing work of Brother Xiaowu's "Jiugongge Diary". Brother Xiaowu sent an email saying: "I received it, let's recuperate with peace of mind." There is no hurry. Give yourself time for body and soul to recuperate. Thinking about your child. I understand you better. You never let me down. Don't blame yourself! Give you a big hug to my son Huaiyu. You're my most competitive puppy. Love Cai Jing and take care of her. Brother Xiaowu. ”
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Just yesterday, when I saw Brother Xiaowu's "Jiugongge Diary" in the mailbox - "My Loyalty, My Life", this editor came to feel that it had shifted from "dry stool" to "a thousand miles".
After that, he quickly sent a text message to Brother Xiaowu and said, "Teacher, it's done." Huaiyu. ”
Brother Xiaowu replied: "Please read." This is the best edit. Handsome. Can you talk? If you're physically and mentally refreshed. ”
The moment I received the text message, I thought of my mom, no matter what I am, she will continue to give me the best of herself......
My teachers are like my mom.
Editor: Xiao Huaiyu
Call record with Mr. Wu Li:
Top 3 safeguards to ensure that your personal rhythm is not affected
Brother Xiaowu:
This is the best article you've ever written.
Do you know?
In the process of dealing with this kind of thing, I found that:
1. You can treat each other as the most perfect at all times;
2. At the same time, give the other party the most relaxed space;
Because once this thing is handed over to another person to do, his thing will appear in a bigger style.
The person I'm looking for must be her in the best condition, and then I have Yanbin to rely on... You know... For a child of your personality, it is possible that there will be a shadow in your heart, and you will easily blame yourself.
So, I was thinking to myself - "If you can wait, you can wait, if you can follow the rhythm of this child, you can follow his rhythm......"
I wish I could have prayed for you......
3. To complete the quality of the part that you can control with quality and quantity.
Why do I say it's under my control?
For example, when you make up "Jiugongge Diary", the emotional ups and downs in your middle, the ups and downs in your feelings, you know where my bottom line is?
1) I don't have a nine-square grid, I can also post articles.
Because I recently wrote "Diary of Nine Square Grids" and finally found it - "Nine Square Grid" is a record of the diary in my life.
Every time, there is a special soul, which is a whole piece of article,
So this kind of whole article, which a few of my friends say, is very much like the "Secret of the Hidden Elephant" and "The Secret of Heaven" that I had at that time.
So, I thought to myself - even the original text is enough.
2) My spare plan.
I have at least eight to ten friends, and if I give them the password to this email, they just "paste" it, and he blogs every day anyway.
3) Even this simple thing will be good.
The "Diary of the Nine Palaces" on April 25 was written to his spiritual mentor
Brother Xiaowu:
Today's article, in particular, is actually one of my most important ones, and it is the most important one written for me, which is the spiritual teacher.
Why did I not leave her for twelve years, no matter what he told me.
Also, it reminds me of Mr. Jianwei, Mr. Platform, Mr. Guoguang... Dozens of teachers in my life... Take it one step at a time......
What I am writing about today is: What is the vital role of a guru in our lives?
In other words... I can leave everything behind.
Because he can remove everything that I don't need to repeat and go straight to my ideals.
So I always try to give up my life to the fullest extent possible.
For example, you are like I called you today, I have been working for Wu Bai since I gave Wu Bai an identity in the past few days, and I feel my heart pounding. I haven't had this phenomenon, if only ordinary people would go to the hospital to check it, and every time I asked my signal (mind), he said, "It's okay, it's in the final adjustment." ”
You know... Didn't let me exercise – I took it.
But my heart isn't too comfortable – am I going to accept it too?
Then I asked again about a bottom line... In other words... Why did he let me die?
Am I afraid of death?
Since I'm not afraid of death, why don't I cooperate with my mentor to accomplish this?
If it is to arrange death, it must be the best choice of my life!
I do.
As I write this today, I suddenly have such tears in my eyes, tears that are unimaginable.
In fact, I write "Jiugongge Diary" every day, and I choose from forty or fifty themes, including what time to write it.
So in the process of writing just now, I suddenly felt to myself, and I asked my heart, "Did I write this for you today?" ”
"Yes, kid."
"I'm willing to break my life to pieces, and I promise you that I'll do whatever you want me to do."
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How many examples do you say prove this?
My moon day proves that I am young;
I didn't take pills and communicated with my body to prove it;
My athletic training has allowed me to prove it;
The increase in my memory allowed me to prove;
The students I teach have proven me step by step;
My general happiness proves to me;
My happiness allows me to prove it;
Just do it and don't ask why
Brother Xiaowu:
What I want to tell you is:
I was really a student more than many, many people, so I got the most help.
That is, there is time for when to do laundry and when to cook.
For example, you say: Dai Hongxia's thing has been compiled more than a dozen articles, and I "can't stand it", and I don't mean that the child can't make it up well.
Then, Luo Wei's more than a dozen articles were also compiled, and I "couldn't stand it".
Then, Zhang Xin's things are even more beautiful, and I still "can't stand it".
Then, it's Xu Huiyao's sister's things, and I still "can't stand it".
Then, I was extremely shocked, that is, this time a group of people wrote unexpectedly, including Sister Yifei yesterday.
You know these things are extremely heavy!
I was thinking to myself - why not let me watch it?
Looking backwards, it's like my eyes can't get in.
Among them is a feeling:
It must have been that I myself might not have been prepared.
It must have been the people around me who published this and were not prepared.
I said again and again in my heart, "Do you know how good you are?!" You guys are shaking me deeply!! ”
Now it is equivalent to pressing dozens of articles in my mailbox and draft box, all of which are of the highest quality.
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Brother Xiaowu's criteria for choosing a mentor
Brother Xiaowu:
So you say, what are the criteria for my selection of mentors?
The first part of the criteria I measured:
First of all, heaven, earth, man, him, and I must be higher than me;
Far, deep, wide, thin, he can do it all.
That is to say - he can completely make up for my shortcomings.
The second part of the criteria I measured:
Love me;
On this issue, I am four ranks higher;
care about me;
He knew my problem;
There is a solution to the problem;
He and I are not competing with each other;
He is positive;
He is peaceful;
When he talked to me, he was in an objective and smooth mood.
Then these two parts add up to the condition that I will follow the mentor for the rest of my life.
Brother Xiaowu commented on the cultivation status of the three students of Manor, Yanbin, and Huaiyu
Brother Xiaowu:
You know how many students I've looked at, like the 19 students I listed recently, they could be better.
I didn't think he was willing to end his experience through a simple side knock, and I generally stopped talking.
At the same time, there are several people who go above and beyond what they think.
Actually, I did a survey like this:
Did he omit everything he could?
Did he do everything he should have done?
Did he do anything beyond his expectations?
For example, I said Manor, Yanbin, and Huaiyu, the three of you.
Manor:
How much should not have been done? 65% didn't do it.
How much should be done? 65% did.
How many levels is he beyond this state? It's level 7
Yan Bin:
How much should not have been done? 100% of the time it was done.
How much should be done? 100% done.
How many levels is he beyond this state? It's level 40.
Huaiyu:
How much should not have been done? 95% didn't do it.
How much should be done? 95% did.
How many levels is he beyond this state? It's level 49.
I don't know if you know or not, but I often ask myself in private why I meet some of my friends... They're really stupid.
Especially my friend, why didn't he ask me?
Why go?
He can walk 10 steps to complete this thing now, in fact, I told him that he can do it in 0.1 steps.
So, Heaven has scattered all your gurus around you.
Actually, the essence of my "Jiugongge Diary" today is here.
A tutor is the one who leads the students to see the sea
Brother Xiaowu:
Actually, there are a lot of things I'm trying now that I don't know, and if I learn from him, he must be my Mount Everest, right?
I'm a kid standing at the foot of a mountain – how can I be able to judge my mentor?
It's like, my mentor told me, "Son, go up the mountain." "Because he knows that on the other side of the mountain is the sea, and he knows that my desire is to see the sea.
So -- I never ask why, I only ask how.
Now, being a mentor and coach is a professional leader.
You say my teacher is a thief?
This teacher may be a thief, but your teacher teaches you the uneven bars, and he must do his best in the uneven bars......
Whether he's the best mentor in your life or not, it's up to you to decide, right?
Is he number one in the country? Or the first in the world? Or the first in the universe? It is what students should pay attention to when choosing.
But his profession dictates that he must give you his secrets, his truth, and all that he has.
His profession determines that he is passive and lonely. Because, this profession determines that his honor, status, respect, recognition, freshness, and applause must be obtained after you.
Why can't I come out when I'm 50?
Even if you don't make it, I'm not qualified to come out.
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So, in order not to lose my mentor, I dare not fail to excel.
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THE END