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Introduction: I have supported my father-in-law for 7 years, and I found out that he gave my brother-in-law 800 a month, I drove him away, and my wife retaliated even more ruthlessly
My name is Wang Zhongjun, and I would like to mention a touching relative with my family, my brother-in-law, whose life trajectory has become a symbol of life's challenges and setbacks to some extent.
Since graduating from junior high school and entering the society, more than ten years have passed quietly, but he has not been able to learn a skill, nor has he achieved any achievements in his career, and has not even been able to find an emotional home.
Originally, we could still tolerate him relying on family support to get by, although he did not achieve anything, at least not to the extreme. However, a recent shift has pushed family conflicts to a climax.
The brother-in-law began to invest a lot of money in the game, which was small at first, gradually increased to hundreds, and finally spent 5,000 yuan at a time, which was a necessary expense for his father-in-law's daily life.
This completely angered my father-in-law, and a fierce conflict broke out between the two, and I, as a member of the family, had to intervene to quell the dispute.
Faced with this change, my wife was heartbroken and insisted that her father-in-law be taken into care of at home. Considering that my mother was already on my side at home, I tried to calm the situation through communication at first, but in view of the emotional agitation and irreconcilability of both parties, I finally had to compromise and integrate my father-in-law into the house.
My wife's gratitude was palpable, but I was aware of the pressure behind it. People say that "the upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked", I can't help but reflect that my brother-in-law's current situation may have inherited some of my father-in-law's behaviors when he was young to a certain extent.
Legend has it that his father-in-law had a period of bohemian life in his youth, loitering around the village and even dabbling on the edge of morality, until his mother-in-law's harsh persuasion brought him back on track. However, the laziness in my father-in-law's personality and the avoidance of housework are like an invisible inheritance, which continues to my brother-in-law and even affects the harmony of our small family.
After his father-in-law moved in, he had a bad habit of not asking about household chores, even the most basic cleaning tasks. This puts an even heavier burden on my mother, who is already in poor health, to take care of the housework and take care of us and my father-in-law. Although my mother did not say anything about her hard work, as a child, I felt deep guilt and pain in my heart.
This series of events has caused frequent friction and quarrels between me and my wife, and the strong relationship between husband and wife in the past has gradually faded under the weight of life, if it were not for the deep love and responsibility for my children, I may have reconsidered the continuation of this married life.
When I first got married, I gave the woman's family a large bride price worth 200,000 yuan according to custom, and now, in addition to this commitment, I also have to take on the responsibility of supporting my father-in-law, which is certainly not my original intention to be leisurely.
There were a few times when I had the idea of placing my father-in-law in a safe place, but each time I was dissolved by the softness of my heart and did not take action. Time flies, years pass in a flash, and my father-in-law has naturally integrated into our small family and become an indispensable part, and it is really difficult to talk about separation.
So I finally decided to let my father-in-law live out his old age here. Although my father-in-law's personality and lifestyle are occasionally unbearable, he also knows how to be proportionate, and most of the time he chooses to be alone to avoid unnecessary friction. Think about it, if he appears frequently in public spaces, it may inspire more unpleasantness.
As the years passed, my brother-in-law still maintained that leisurely and contented attitude, immersed in the virtual game world every day, as if the disturbances of the outside world had nothing to do with him. Its financial source is a mystery, but its attitude to life is unusually free.
My wife and I occasionally visit him, carrying belongings or giving him financial assistance, but his cold response is always chilling, and the inexplicable pride is inexplicable.
His wife's preference for her brother-in-law and her father-in-law's doting on him are undoubtedly important reasons for his current situation. Although I am well aware of the fact that my wife may privately fund my brother-in-law's behavior, I choose to remain silent, and I know how to "get confused" and sometimes I don't have to worry too much about family matters.
Now, my father-in-law has spent 7 years in our family, and he is entering his old age, and his mobility is becoming more and more slow, and his health is worrying. When I think about the medical needs he may face and the costs he may incur, my heart can't help but feel worried. However, I have borne these worries in silence and have not disclosed them to my wife, lest they add to her psychological burden.
However, life is always full of twists and turns. A few days ago, I inadvertently witnessed my father-in-law on the sofa, intently contacting my brother-in-law through his mobile phone and transferring 800 yuan. At that time, I was angry, and snatched my father-in-law's mobile phone and scolded him angrily, "Okay, you are still stealing money from him, are you helping him or harming him." ”
The father-in-law turned his head and said anxiously: "I didn't use your money, I used my daughter's money." As soon as he said this, I was instantly dizzy with anger, and immediately went crazy, "Who is spending your daughter's 3,000 yuan a month, and I don't pay for it?" ”
Subsequently, I quarreled with my father-in-law, even if it was a quarrel, I didn't think too much, but still persuaded hard; "You can't give him money, isn't that conniving at his idleness?" The father-in-law was so angry that he scolded vigorously; "What does it have to do with you? This is a matter for our father and son. ”
I don't care about what he said a sentence or two, after all, he was an elder, but he scolded too many times, I couldn't stand it, so I immediately ran into the room, packed all his things and threw them out and said, "You leave me immediately." "It was 20:30 in the evening, and my father-in-law didn't say a word, just left with his things.
At about nine o'clock, my wife and mother came back talking and laughing, and when they saw that my expression was not right, and that my father-in-law was here, they asked me what had happened. I said angrily, "Ask him, he knows it in his own heart." ”
My mother was still persuading, but my wife was angry again, and actually scolded me for being cold-blooded, "Wang Zhongjun, what do you mean?" I've worked hard for you to have children for so many years, and there is no credit and hard work, so you treat my dad like this. ”
Before I could speak, my wife pushed my mother out of the door, crying and shouting as she pushed, "Didn't you drive my dad away?" Don't keep your mother-in-law. ”
This is her revenge, ridiculous and confused, my mother is at home doing housework and cooking, and she is too busy every day, and my father-in-law watches TV and drinks tea all day and does nothing, but my wife equates the two of them.
Looking at my mother's frightened eyes, and then at my wife's arrogant face, I decided not to bear it anymore, and immediately pulled my wife away and slapped her hard, "Divorce tomorrow!" ”
Friends, do you think I'm doing the right thing? Can you still have such a wife who doesn't know right from wrong? #老婆无理取闹##月圆话中秋#
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