As an adult, recognizing the human heart is an essential skill for survival.
It's just that these people will put a mask on themselves, and they usually look at their smiling faces, and they are playing their own little Jiujiu in their hearts.
It's terrible to think about it—the suffering you suffer and the losses you suffer are often the work of those close to you.
is obviously the person you trust the most, but it turns out to be the "ultimate betrayer", which is so ironic that people break out in a cold sweat.
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People who don't follow the rules.
If you find that there is such a person around you who doesn't take the rules seriously at all, quickly stay away.
Such people are cold-blooded by nature, ready to sacrifice anyone around them for their own benefit.
There was a colleague in the news before, and he trusted that guy, and in the end, he did an operation and directly killed the other party, without blinking his eyes.
Seriously, this kind of person is not a fuel-efficient lamp. Do you still think that you have a good relationship with him and a deep brotherhood?
As long as he thinks you are still a little useful, he will not care how uncomfortable you are. Help you today, and tomorrow I will use you as a stepping stone.
I remember reading a novel in which there is a male protagonist, who is called a ruthless man who can use any means in order to bring down his opponent.
But a novel is a novel after all, and you enjoy reading it, but in reality, this kind of person can be seen everywhere.
In the workplace, if you notice that your colleagues or leaders are showing signs of "doing whatever it takes", you have to be careful.
Because for them, rules and morals are just a piece of waste paper, not worth mentioning at all.
In their eyes, interests are the supreme thing, as long as they can achieve their goals, they don't care about the lives and deaths of others.
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People with a low sense of morality.
Some people don't hesitate to do what they don't want to do.
Sounds like a villain from a novel? But in reality, there are more.
This kind of person is often mean to their parents to the extreme, raising children to prevent old age, for them, parents are ATMs, which are used to consume.
What filial piety, that's bullshit, they don't even have a minimum of respect.
I know a man who is a representative of moral turpitude. His mother was so sick that she couldn't get up, and this guy actually forced her to take care of her own child, and it was no such thing as throwing her hands away.
To be honest, when we meet this kind of person, we have to stay away.
Not only are they ruthless, but they are also very good at taking advantage of the people around them, and they are not worth socializing at all.
We usually not only have to abide by the law, but also have a moral bottom line, right? It's a pity that this kind of person has no bottom line, and all the moral things they can't do are all burdens in their eyes.
When dealing with this kind of person, you have to be on guard at all times, otherwise you will be put on a role by them if you are not careful.
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Don't expect justice to be done for you.
In the workplace, there are always a few faces, their mouths are full of honey, but their hearts are full of poison.
They can always stab you at a critical moment, and they will never be relentless.
If you're lucky enough to find someone digging in your back, remember, be sure to gather enough evidence and then face him head-on without giving him a hint of disguise.
Don't expect any "human awakening" from such people, their nature dictates that they can not only steal your fruits, but also spread rumors behind your back and step on your feet.
What's worse, if you find out that your relatives and friends are also speaking ill of you behind your back, don't be soft-hearted.
Instead of fighting psychological warfare with them, it is better to be decisively estranged.
I have a fellow countryman who had a good relationship with me when I was a child, just like a sister.
Later, one day, I happened to hear that she was jealous of my family's good business, and made up a lot of gossip about us in the village, so that my family couldn't raise their heads.
At that moment, I felt that the blood in my whole body was boiling, and I decisively broke off my relationship with her, without even a trace of affection.
What's even more terrifying is that this kind of person can still greet you with a smile when they are face-to-face, looking like "we are best friends", who would have thought that the knife in their hearts is already rubbing the sharp edge, ready to stab you in the back at any time.
This kind of person is hypocritical to the extreme, extremely disgusting.
Let my words come into your heart
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