There is a very hot topic, which has aroused heated discussions among netizens: Why do many girls fail to grasp the opportunity when they meet high-quality men in blind dates?
Let's take a look at the answers shared by netizens:
I don't know when it began, blind dates seem to have become a trend, a way to solve the problem of marriage and love between single men and women. It's a pity that some girls always can't seize the opportunity when facing high-quality men.
On the one hand, there is low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence.
You must know that many girls are psychologically three points shorter when facing men with excellent conditions.
They always feel that they are so good, how can they look up to themselves? As a result, before they could get along, they had already self-denied.
This kind of inferiority complex often makes girls seem restrained and unnatural during the blind date, and even speechless because of nervousness.
Boys, on the other hand, can also feel this atmosphere of lack of confidence, which makes communication awkward. Many times, boys don't just look for looks or background, they want to find a sunny, confident, and cheerful girl.
Girls are often too reserved to let go. Women under traditional cultural education are always taught to be subtle, introverted, and not too proactive.
There's nothing wrong with that, but in an occasion like a blind date that requires a quick understanding of each other, being overly reserved will only make each other miss out.
Sometimes, girls are afraid that being too proactive will be misinterpreted as frivolous, so they choose to stay put. But this passive attitude often allows opportunities to slip away.
In fact, being proactive appropriately, such as actively responding to the other party's topic and showing sincere interest, will let high-quality men see your sincerity and enthusiasm.
Girls often have a vague understanding of their own positioning, and are too idealistic or unrealistic about the criteria for choosing a mate.
Some girls are bent on finding "rich and handsome", but they ignore other more important qualities, such as personality fit, value consistency and so on. High-quality men are not commodities, and they cannot be measured by a few hard indicators.
They are also ordinary people who also have their own emotional needs and attitudes towards life. If you only blindly pursue material conditions and ignore the inner qualities, even if you seize the opportunity, you may not be able to be happy for a long time.
Girls lack the experience and skills to deal with blind date situations. Although a blind date is not as formal as a workplace interview, it also requires certain communication skills and psychological tactics.
When facing high-quality men, many girls don't know how to show their strengths, don't know how to find common ground in conversations, and don't know how to observe whether the other party is suitable for them through details.
These deficiencies have deprived them of the opportunity to communicate with high-quality men. In fact, participating in more social activities and accumulating some experience in interacting with people can greatly help improve the success rate of blind dates.
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