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Siblings were born from the same starting point, with the same love and resources, but their later developments were very different.
Many people think that those lucky brothers and sisters are just favored by fate, and they just lack luck.
In fact, any success is not as simple as the surface, behind it must be the dedication of day and night, and they must have enough shining character.
Among the brothers and sisters, the people with the best lives generally have these two characteristics, and it is really not superstition.
01: Keep learning
Even though siblings have the same resources, they have very different attitudes towards them.
Some people sit in classrooms with bright windows, but they only want to go out and play, and they waste their studies all day long, and their future development is mediocre.
There are also people who will cherish the hard-won opportunity to study hard, change their destiny step by step, and become the pride of the family.
This is the case with Mr. Tsang Kwok-fan, who was born into a modest family, and his siblings were almost the same since childhood, and some even consider Tsang Kwok-fan to be the least gifted.
But it was under such conditions that Zeng Guofan still took the imperial examination high school and became the first minister of the late Qing Dynasty, and was praised by later generations as the first perfect person who stood up for virtue and three immortals.
In the final analysis, Zeng Guofan loves to learn, he smells the chicken and dances every day, reads with his head hanging from the beam, and when the other brothers and sisters are still asleep, the sound of his reading can already be heard outside.
Years of study career, enriched Zeng Guofan's knowledge, but also exercised his mind, he finally took the imperial examination to high school, not only completed the gorgeous counterattack, but also drove the whole family to flourish.
No matter what era it is, the best way out for ordinary families is to study.
Those who study hard may not be able to have gold and silver, but they must be more successful and have more possibilities than those who do not study.
When you become an adult, you will find that what really limits people's development is precisely the grades, academic qualifications, and abilities that should have been obtained by studying.
If you do, you will stand out from your siblings and become the best person in your family.
02: There is a goal
In the TV series "It's All Good", the three children of the Su family live under the same conditions, their mothers are patriarchal, and Su Mingyu even gets more injustice.
Many years later, the two elder brothers developed mediocre and had a bumpy fate, only Su Mingyu lived as a queen, financially independent, free personality, chic and happy.
These are all because Su Mingyu has had extremely high goals since she was a child, she is unwilling to be mistreated by her mother, and she doesn't want to live in her shadow forever, so she dares to seize any opportunity, so as to let herself continue to fly high.
In the days when their mother died and their father was messing around, the two brothers were at a loss, but Su Mingyu was the only one who could settle everything.
Whether it is in making money or personality charm, Su Mingyu is a step ahead, she has achieved her childhood goals and become a better version of herself.
In real life, brothers and sisters who can continue to surpass each other have extremely clear goals.
The goal is not only a beacon of life, but also a needle that sets the sea, so that people will always work hard and sprint forward in the best state.
If you don't have a goal, you can only get by, muddy, no matter how good the family you are born in, you will fall behind in the future.
They are looking down on others in the future, and they are asking for it, because they give up the opportunity to move up.
The fact that siblings have the same starting point does not mean that they have a similar fate, and only those with the above two qualities can complete the gorgeous transformation and become the best in the family.
If you want to win against everyone, you must cultivate both abilities.
For the rest of your life, you will shine for your family and make your life more wonderful.
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